Singles & Dating - 11 February 2007

2007-02-11 20:07:19 · 25 answers · asked by sicilian_refinery_gasman 1

About 9 months ago my fiancee, of then 4 months, called me to say that he had been unfaithful one night, with a co-worker of his. He is currently stationed in Germany and at that time I was Stateside. I'm back home in South Africa now, and now we IM each other via yahoo mess. Last night I logged on on his name and found a woman contact - with a picture - rather attractive - that I don't know. I've suspected that he might cheat again, and after seeing this last night, I'm really worried. How do I ask him about her, or find out at least if he's sure about us? I'm really scared to have to go through the whole cheating thing again, but I'd rather know now and deal now than never know and always suspect.

2007-02-11 20:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by taliahadad1978 1

All my first dates take me out to bars, we have a drink and leave. How much should a woman flirt if she wants a second date. I make eye contact but it is not enough. I am shy and don't want to touch them asap. Should I, in order to create sparks. What works for you on first dates. who initiates the first contact to loosen things up?

2007-02-11 20:01:58 · 15 answers · asked by coolchick 3

I had a girlfriend once, and we were kissing and so on. And I began to bite and suck her neck, for a minute or so... After that, she had a big mark on her neck that lasted for 1 week, maybe 2 weeks.
Why didn't she say anything? Didn't that hurt? She said it didn't hurt her, but I just want to be sure. Any experience with the same thing?
Thank you.

2007-02-11 19:54:33 · 3 answers · asked by will i succeed 1

My boyfriend is pushing me down on beds(playfully)but ill lean up then he'll push me down again then climb up on me,
Also when I was sitting on my bed watching a movie he came up and grabbed my legs and pulled me from the middle of the bed to him with my legs around him!!

&when he wants to kiss he will kind of push my face towards his or when we're kissing and I pull away he'll push the back of my head with his hand so I can't pull away,

And the biggest thing for me was:we where kissing on his bed and he started getting all handsy and he put his hand on my (magicconchshell)& started rubbing\&i moved his hand &he said sorry then we kept kissing then he started again&I moved his hand&he said sorry babe then we started kissing&he did it again but when i tried to move his hand he wouldnt let me move it at all &he did it more then he stopped after like 2mins (felt like forever)so whats this all sound like to you??
Please give me your advice/opinion on this all..
Thanks Ashley-

2007-02-11 19:54:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like my bf dont care about how I feel, and I feel kind of used. For example my bf need a knew cell and (to fill you in he is working and I am not) I was about to do it it cost only $30 but when we went to the cell phone place he said "Buy me my dame phone". That to me was disrespectful and I said no. Then later on that night we are at a diner and I am calling his name about over 4 times and he doesn't answer me and then finally he says to wait. I felt very hurt and by that time fed up. He always do that but when I dont answer him its a huge problem for him.At one point I was working and helping him out and he ran my credit card bill up to about $2000. Now he is working and I am not and he cant even take care of himself but gets upset when i dont want to buy him something or when i bring up money. I feel i have a right to bring up money since he hasnt paid me back, but I brought it upon myself and I dont know what to do.

2007-02-11 19:48:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he likes to tease/irritate me at all chance possible. he likes to finish all my clorets everyday, when he oso has mentos. he treat me very differently from other female colleagues(others), he rarely tease/irritate others. he oso seems to have more thing to talk to others. we always bicker instead of talk. eg. he said 'if u be recipitionist u'll frighten every1 away' then i said 'sry i know u feel sour that u can nv b recipitionist for hair growth center' (he's got very thin hair). my colleague tell us pple who bicker will end up together, i quickly say not possible, but he remained silent.he is usually the top sales, but recently he's bad with his work. smtime i got feeling he's looking at me. he's mean to me smtime, i was talking to him, he just like not want to reply, so i say 'can you open ur mouth'. he point to his open mouth. i was irritated and left the table, when i look back he was playing with my clorets box he finish it again! despite he's childish, i start to like him

2007-02-11 19:48:04 · 4 answers · asked by edis 2

Is it creepy to ask her out?

2007-02-11 19:47:57 · 8 answers · asked by Girls! Girls! I do adore 2

The first time I asked her out she said someone already asked her out. The second time she told me she had dance classes. The third she told me she had a tutor.

I know for a fact she didn't lie because she kept bragging about her dance classes and our class was so hard you needed a tutor. But thats besides the point.

Should I ask her out again or should I just quit and get someone else.

2007-02-11 19:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by .......... 4

I just starated seeing a wonderful man. I know he is giving me something for Valentines Day. What do I get him? I don't know him well enough for silk boxers. And I don't have enough money for anything expensive.

A potted plant? Just a card? A gift for his cat? HELP?
I think this guy is a keeper

2007-02-11 19:44:39 · 17 answers · asked by clcalifornia 7

we are in highschool.well, i like this girl... and i talked to her about it. she said she liked me too.. but because we live quite far away, we don meet very often even though we still chat quite a lot on msn.. we decided to get to know each other more.. i was thinking about telling her more how i feel on valentine's day. i asked her a question, if some guy asks her out on a valetneins day, what she would say.. she said that generally, as long as he's not a weird person or freak, she'll say sure. so does that mean she pretty much just wants to be friends with me and i should stop trying to get closer with her?....

2007-02-11 19:44:16 · 2 answers · asked by tmackun135 1

I want to have sex, but am afraid I'll get pregnant. I don't know where to get birth control and I don't have the money. Do I really need it? Or is a condom enough? Friends I've asked are already on birth control, so they never had sex without it. I don't know what to do. I don't want to give in to temptation and end up pregnant. I think that would put quite a damper on the relationship and my life. Any advice?

2007-02-11 19:42:11 · 15 answers · asked by EMonk 1

i really lyk a guy frm last 6 months...he s angaged frm last 5-6 years...hw 2 impress him...i knw ryt nw i might be lookin lyk devil minded gal...but m damn serious..plzz help me... i dnt wanna let him go...i think i love dis guy...pllllllsssssssssssss help me....

2007-02-11 19:41:25 · 10 answers · asked by cute gal 1

I mean its like there gone in a flash..I tell them I just want to be friends with them! How to be just friends with them?

2007-02-11 19:39:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thinking of Valentines ideas!!

2007-02-11 19:38:45 · 4 answers · asked by andbriantoo 1

2007-02-11 19:38:00 · 6 answers · asked by li 1

A TV interviewer was going around streets asking couples of their sex lives. She'd first takes the husbands/boyfriends away and asks him the questions, then asks the wives/girlfriends the same questions with the husband/bf present and see how similar the answers they give are.

One "older" couple's interview went like this:

Interviewer: When did you last have sex?
Husband: Errr, yesterday.
Interviewer: With whom?
Husband: My wife of course.
Interviewer: Where?
Husband: *blushing* On the kitchen table.

Then it's the wife's turn:

Interviewer: When did you last have sex?
Wife: Errr.. yesterday.
Interviewer: With whom?
Wife: My husband of course.
Interviewer: Where?
Wife: Errrr.... no, I cant' say.. it's too embarrassing..
Husband: It's ok, you can say it. I told her anyway.
Wife: Errrr.. ok.. up my ar$e.

2007-02-11 19:33:58 · 16 answers · asked by k² 6

He was so sincere to me about how much he loved me. I was 37 at the time i met him 5 years ago. i am so hurt and depressed and very bitter towards anyone who wants to get close to me for fear they are lying or just want something i am not going to give. what do i do now. I had so much trust and faith in him to find out alot of the important things he said to me were lies. I feel as if part of me died. I have tried so many things to get him off my mind and when I least expect it something i see or do just reminds me of him all over again.

2007-02-11 19:28:01 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

Do you think that is just for a friend or more? And it true..I treaterd him a little bad but he always came back and talked to me.

2007-02-11 19:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and does it upset her?

2007-02-11 19:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently in a situation where i like a guy, but he doesn't like me back. Then there are two guys that like me, but i have no feelings for them in return.

2007-02-11 19:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by emma 1

The first time I asked her out she said someone already asked her out. The second time she told me she had dance classes. The third she told me she had a tutor.

I know for a fact she didn't lie because she kept bragging about her dance classes and our class was so hard you needed a tutor. But thats besides the point.

Should I ask her out again or should I just quit and get someone else.

2007-02-11 19:21:17 · 4 answers · asked by .......... 4

2007-02-11 19:19:50 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 2

Move on, thats the easiest thing to say to someone who's dealing with a break up. I feel I am dealing with something more complicated. Me and my boyfriend broke up 6 months ago. But never lost touch. I tried but could never shun him out of my life completely. He cheated on me thrice. He beat me once. He treats me like shyt. He tells me he doesnt love me and i know he doesnt. But i see nothing wrong with him. It feels like he is just being stupid. Even now we meet, we end up having sex and then he gets up and leaves telling me "I'm sorry". I know i've made myself too available and have compromised with my self respect completely.

I am a girl who's never had lack of attention. And have broken a few hearts myself. Is it because I like the chase and the humiliation? I WANT TO GET OUT OF THIS CYCLE, but i feel helpless when he calls/ IMs me :( I think i m demented!!!!

How can I get myself to love and respect myself some more and shun him out forever???

2007-02-11 19:10:54 · 26 answers · asked by Brown eyes Ashlene 1

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2007-02-11 19:06:39 · 2 answers · asked by Zach 1

What do women think of a guy who is divorced at a fairly young age?

2007-02-11 19:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 18:58:17 · 6 answers · asked by i_dont_know 2

becaue apparently he does

2007-02-11 18:56:11 · 18 answers · asked by joe schmoe 1

2007-02-11 18:50:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 18:49:11 · 7 answers · asked by Amberlyn 1