What do women think of a guy who is divorced at a fairly young age?
2007-02-11 19:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know a guy who is only 19 and divorced. I think it's a shame and would make me question why on earth they'd be divorced so early on in their life.
However, I also understand that things happen. Some people end up marrying people who can't stay faithful and if within the first year of marriage, someone cheats, then yeah, they deserve to be served with divorce papers!
I think the initial shock of knowing someone is divorced at such a young age is natural, but once a person is told why the divorce happened, I'm sure it'll lessen the blow. And unless there's a valid reason to tell someone why you're divorced (ie. dating someone), then it's no one's business to begin with, regardless of how old you are!
2007-02-11 19:14:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing women think is okay he cheated so his wife left him. Or at least thats what woman who have a bad relationship history think. Other women like myself just think hey maybe he got into it to early and it didn't work out. That doesn't mean anything wrong these days and actually women tend to think worse of a divorced guy whose older because they should have the experience of a mature relationship like marriage. If your young your just not ready for the rest of your life deal yet dont rush it when its time you'll know. Now just wasn't the time so live your life as a single guy while you still can ;)
2007-02-12 03:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by BrwnEyedPlayette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. A lot of men lie about the divorce and put the blame on the wife.A divorced man is ok. From years of experience, I sure would not believe a word that a divorced man says. No offense. Please understand my age and that I have learned distrust because of the town I was raised in. There are men who are divorced that deserve dating. You are probably a good guy and women should date you?
2007-02-12 03:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we live in a time where alot of young ppl are getting married and get divorces still at young age. i really think that most women will be more concern about the reasons behind it, then the actual divorce. u know, things like did u try to make it work, or did u or her cheat in the marriage. u know these sorts of things. but no, i think just as long as you are honest about it, most women will be fine wit it. i hope that answered your question.
2007-02-12 03:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that may be things dint work out for him
2007-02-12 03:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they well experience guys
2007-02-12 03:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋