I am currently in a situation where i like a guy, but he doesn't like me back. Then there are two guys that like me, but i have no feelings for them in return.
2007-02-11 19:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by emma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell them your gay.
tell them you just wanna stay friends
tell them you are not ready for a relationship
tell them you dont wanna have sex till your married
2007-02-11 19:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by just me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're in a tough position. I can't imagine carrying on a long distance relationship that spans different continents. To be quite honest with you, I'd break things off. That probably isn't what you want to hear, but you can find someone closer to you who can make you just as happy. That doesn't mean that I discount the happiness your boyfriend has given to you, but if you've already gone months without seeing him and you're looking at another year... that's an awfully long time. Why is it taking him so long to get his passport? Has he had legal problems in the past which are preventing him from getting it? It should only take about a month...
2016-05-24 00:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with them. It is better to tell them now than to prolong their hopes. It will be harder to tell them the longer you wait and there might be other issues that are uncomfortable to deal with that might come up.
Sorry the guy you like doesn't feel the same way towards you. Don't loose heart that special someone will come along. You should expect the best for yourself with someone who wants to make you happy and be with you.
Good Luck
2007-02-11 19:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell them you value them a lot as friends and want it to stay that way because you feel its not the right time for you to be in a new relationship
2007-02-11 19:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them the old "I need some time for myself" line. It basically means I'm not interested in dating anyone right now. At least not anyone who's interested in dating you... If they know about the guy that you like, you can even use that as an excuse.
2007-02-11 19:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy yea im 11 but im really smart the best thing to do is not make them feel nervous every man/boy hates it or embarrased yes men will like u. say i dont like u but dont be embarrased its only human and of course everyones heart will be smashed but you will find someone else. we can still be friends without me seeing you as a different person.
2007-02-11 19:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by ray r. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on guys so much and hang out with your girlfriends. Look single and available and maybe the guy who doesnt like you back will.
2007-02-11 19:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Steve S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be subtle about it. Tell them that they should stop persuiting you and rather just settle with being friends. Tell them the truth. You dont need even need to tell them anything, just dont let your reaction to them give them the wrong idea.
2007-02-11 19:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how to break the news i heard them all.
Im married to the sea
We can be friends
its not you its me
perhaps we should think about it
I dont want to hurt you but i will
And the ever classic. I am Gay
2007-02-11 20:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mack J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are in a small trouble. Do not hesitate when you have to hurt some guys. Many things in their life journey are even harder.
2007-02-11 19:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Me Here. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth as kindly as possible. That is all you can do. Good luck with the other fellow.
2007-02-11 19:27:02 · answer #11 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋