Singles & Dating - 9 February 2007

the time that my ex bf is not online, i really feel like i need to talk to him. and when he is online, i don't feel like changing my status to Online but i instead continue keeping it as Appear Offline
i don't understand my feelings

2007-02-09 20:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by english 1

I'm 23 and looking to attract a lady in the 18 to 25 age group. I tried last week and it ended in failure because she saw right through me.

2007-02-09 20:05:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

if i recieve a**l s*x only am i cheating?

2007-02-09 20:05:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

do they get that tingly feeling? is it even a big deal for them?

2007-02-09 20:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3

2007-02-09 20:02:11 · 14 answers · asked by Mijoecha 3

first of all i take a 3 hour nap and then sleep for 3 hours at night- i do this so i can spend more time with my man
anyway he gets mad when our conversation starts turning into an argument because i tell him i just want to go to sleep(i do this because i know i will overreact--and he tells me you just need to grow up you never want to deal with anything)i tell him we can talk about it when i wake up and i can be calm about it but he doesnt understand...also sometimes he gets mad when i just tell him im tired and i want to go to sleep he tells me you sleep to damn much how can i make him understand and appreciate the sacrifices i make for him (because just telling doesnt work) he will always say well im tired right now too but im up but he sleeps for like 9 hours everynight and he says "it dont matter" you can just stay up(he tells me just fight the sleep) he doesnt understand..

2007-02-09 19:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by CeCe 1

I can't read guys at all...wanna help me?

Ok. It's Friday night. When the cute guy left work tonight, he said...
See ya Sunday.
Does that mean MORE than that he will be seeing me Sunday?
Is that the way ppl tell you they will miss you until Sunday?
He always tells me exactly what day he will see me again. I've never heard him say it to anyone else.
Also last night , he told me I matter more to him than Miss Running-Behind-Him All-Damned-Day matters. She's not the girlfirend,but she monolpoizes his day. Even then, he asks me to stop by his work station on my way home. Tonight he left before me and stopped off to see me.
Is he "digging" me or are we just friends?
Read it for me! Please!

2007-02-09 19:56:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 19:56:14 · 12 answers · asked by Linn 2

Hey all. Okay a little background. I'm a 20 yr old college student who's a virgin. None of my friends have any idea as I am "popular" and an athlete. I am secretly pretty religious, not overly so but in private I pray a lot and speak with the Lord. I never expected to be a virgin at 20 but it is what it is. I've passed many opportunities to have sex and have kissed/fooled around w/ a decent amount of girls and but never sex. No, I'm not gay either. Women are on my mind all the time. My question is whether or not A) its bad I'm still a virgin, B) should I be open about it? I'm the type of guy nobody would ever guess and I'm pretty confident in all other areas of my life except this. Ladies I need advice on what I should do. Thanks alot.

2007-02-09 19:51:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girl friend is on the phone w/ her male friend who lives across the hall in our apt. complex. She & He smoke from time 2 time. I don't smoke, so I generally don't go over. 2nite on her cell phone she asks him "can I come over & get Happy I'll give you some $ 2morrow." I hear him say "Why don't U come over here & make me happy" she repositions the phone 2 the other side of her head, & laughs. She didn't know that i heard that. She left & was over there 4 about 25 mintues. I stayed @ home in bed watching a movie. Later in the evening it was bothering me, so I told her what I heard, & that it didn't make me feel very good. We hashed it out, well then she got out of bed, and changed her underwear, she threw the old underwear out & said "There's holes in em" I didn't think nothing of it. Curiosity got the best ot me, & later I pulled her underwear out looking 4 holes. I found none, & now I wonder did she have sex with this guy? & threw out her underwear? what's your take?

2007-02-09 19:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

by "smart" i am referring to academically smart, i.e. great at maths and science.
by "really smart" i am referring to the people who get or almost get dux in a big school or get high distinction in a hard uni course.
i know a lot of really smart guys who are quite popular among girls.
but i don't know of any really smart girl that guys like, even if they are really nice and fairly good looking.
now why is this? just curious

2007-02-09 19:50:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a sophmore in college, Freshman year I was crazy and partied alot and got a fair share of girls. This year nothing is working for me. It seems like all my friends are getting girfriends and everything, but my problem is that I just want to settle down and get a girlfriend and the problem is that im short. I'm 5'5" and i think im a fairly decent looking guy, but girls just will never pay me as much mind as any other guy who is just taller. Its really hard to get girls now, and meet new girls because they just seem like i'm not of any interest. I feel if i was taller things would be alot better for me. I really just want to settle down and get a girlfriend but its been so hard. Being anxious about this makes it harder to focus on school and i'm not doing as well as i could if I just felt more settled in and all. Any advice? Thanks alot.

2007-02-09 19:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by BD 2

OK were only 13&15 and i absolutely love this girl and i know she likes me (we are always looking at each other in the eyes and smiling at each other)we've been great friends for about a year aswell. She already has a boyfriend though.we socialise together and we go to modern dance classes ,where we are partners! What should i say in my valentines day card to her?

2007-02-09 19:45:13 · 12 answers · asked by Jack B 1

2007-02-09 19:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by ommur z 1

what is there like basic belief and wat ever info u can give me lol, and no this isnt a project im just curious

2007-02-09 19:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by lovinpink809 4

what is a better and less awkward way to say way to say i like you. the problem im having is that there is no way i can take this girl out on a date now are any time in the near future and im at the point were its now are never. so how can i put it in words that are not as blunt as randomly saying i like you yet get the message across just as good?

2007-02-09 19:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by a_man_in_a_tux 1

2007-02-09 19:42:47 · 5 answers · asked by msupmod 1

He told me that they slept in the bed together but did not have sex

2007-02-09 19:42:13 · 15 answers · asked by Shayla W 1

Assuming you are both single.

2007-02-09 19:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by Lilliana 5

Particularly when the two people are friends already or are brothers/sisters in the church?

2007-02-09 19:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by Lilliana 5

Is this wrong????
would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 qand i am 23.

2007-02-09 19:36:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 19:35:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lilliana 5

I looked at myselves and someone told me it was bad for me. How is it bad? Does it cause some kind of insecurties?

2007-02-09 19:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by baKeD^ N 1

I have this crush for like 2 years and i just started to get to know her this year. She just broke up with her boyfriend and sick of relationship.Maybe that is her first relationship.I really like her so much and willing to be her royal and loyal boyfriend. We used to chat online but not anymore.Maybe she think i am boring. When we meet in school I just smile and dont have the guts to say anything and walk away. I know I am a complete loser.We see each other quite often though. Imagine how many times i miss that chance. I bet she must have think I am a loser.
Problem 1: she said she dont want to be in a relationship anymore.
Problem 2: I am scared of rejection.
Problem 3: I am scared of her because she is the few beautiful girls in my campus
Problem 4: I am not much a talker.
How? Care to help?

2007-02-09 19:32:17 · 4 answers · asked by myvampiredrak 2

i drink all the time since my x left me i drownd out the sorrows. i was so in love with him and he crushed my world... i use alcohol.. to cope .. get drunk and forget the sorrows. and just wake up the next day just remember ing.. i probably drink about 3 to 4 nites a week.. but i was so in love with him and he left me for another girl the day after christmas.....

2007-02-09 19:30:47 · 6 answers · asked by aleisha21 1

How can someone be in a relationship for over 8 months and show love unconditionally and being supportive in every aspect of life to ignoring and not wanting to be around the person you say you love. How can someone want to stay in a relationship where there is no comunication, where there is no honesty about things that bother you. How can someone put a year into a relationship that he hopes and prays and begs to keep going, even though he has been hurt so many times by the one he loves. How can people change so easily. Why does this hurt so much? How can I be so angry and hurt and bitter, and how can I feel like I want to tear a hole in a wall and break anything I can get my hands on when I think about the one that I love. Why can't I be happy like I used to be months ago.

2007-02-09 19:26:23 · 8 answers · asked by Garin M 2

I mean, Im only 21 and shes only 19 and we aren't planning on getting married yet so why doesn't she understand that I want to save myself until marriage?

2007-02-09 19:24:14 · 13 answers · asked by NONAME 1

Especially, OTHER THAN wanting to get to know her better for the purpose of a potential girlfriend?

2007-02-09 19:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by Lilliana 5

why am i so scared to let someone into my heart?
I like a boy and he likes me (perfect right?) well no because the more i know i like him the more scared i am and i get this urge to just shut him out completely... like i don't him close to my heart its so confusing like i just want to lose him and run away. why is this?

2007-02-09 19:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by confused 3

2007-02-09 19:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sara007 5