I have this crush for like 2 years and i just started to get to know her this year. She just broke up with her boyfriend and sick of relationship.Maybe that is her first relationship.I really like her so much and willing to be her royal and loyal boyfriend. We used to chat online but not anymore.Maybe she think i am boring. When we meet in school I just smile and dont have the guts to say anything and walk away. I know I am a complete loser.We see each other quite often though. Imagine how many times i miss that chance. I bet she must have think I am a loser.
Problem 1: she said she dont want to be in a relationship anymore.
Problem 2: I am scared of rejection.
Problem 3: I am scared of her because she is the few beautiful girls in my campus
Problem 4: I am not much a talker.
How? Care to help?
2007-02-09 19:32:17 · 4 answers · asked by myvampiredrak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It`s normal to behave this way in front of the girl u really love.. and the one u longed for...In order to get her.. ask urself are u really giving all in to get her? how bad u wan her to be ur GF? If u really decided... u have to step out of ur comfort zone and get ur guts to do things tat u never do before? Do suprises.. do stun.. give her a smile.. talk to her and have short conversation everyday and extend the duration each day.. keep track of the improvement.. suprise her and make urself interesting ...A confident guy and a creative guy will score u alot of points... so be creative.. and importantly.. ur problem 1 is jsut her excuses... if she meet the right one.. she dun cares... but bear this in mind... SPEEDING KILLS... so take ur time and do all the way to build up ur bonds... as it will come back to my first question.. how badly are u that u wan her? Is she the one and only one and u wun choose others? if she is... it`s worth the waiting.. So have faith in urself bro! be confident.. and get out of the bachelor gang pls...as i`m in this **** hole.. due to over confident.. dun be like me.. !! u can do it
2007-02-09 23:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just talk to her!! trust me...next time you see her say hey whats been up?!?! just something small to start of then the next day do it again but in different words... once you start talkin a bit more get her number call her since you like her a lot show her that you like her and youll take her heart away!! but remember next time you see her look in her eyes and say hey whats been up or something like that....kinda hard i know but youll never know what you might end up with...rejections are hard but hey youll run into other girls!! trust me!!
2007-02-09 19:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
owh... come on... u have to take a risk... that what life is, right... u cant always be on the safe side, right? just go to her and tell her the truth and try to convince her that u r everything she ever wanted... and another advice... IF U ARE AFRAID OF GETTING HURT, THEN U WONT KNOW WHAT TRUE HAPPINESS MEANS... just go for it, k? good luck!
2007-02-09 19:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change!
No girl likes a loser so become everything the opposite of your "problems".
...m0uthpiece...
2007-02-09 19:36:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋