first of all i take a 3 hour nap and then sleep for 3 hours at night- i do this so i can spend more time with my man
anyway he gets mad when our conversation starts turning into an argument because i tell him i just want to go to sleep(i do this because i know i will overreact--and he tells me you just need to grow up you never want to deal with anything)i tell him we can talk about it when i wake up and i can be calm about it but he doesnt understand...also sometimes he gets mad when i just tell him im tired and i want to go to sleep he tells me you sleep to damn much how can i make him understand and appreciate the sacrifices i make for him (because just telling doesnt work) he will always say well im tired right now too but im up but he sleeps for like 9 hours everynight and he says "it dont matter" you can just stay up(he tells me just fight the sleep) he doesnt understand..
2007-02-09 19:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by CeCe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are right, He doesn't understand,and he is very selfish.
I assume you are doing this because of the hours you guys work?
If that is the case, then get a job where both your hours are the same. That way you can spend more time together.
2007-02-09 20:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to make him understand. After you keep telling him the same thing over and over again he'll get it. If you only sleep for 6 hours a night and you are tired a lot, then you need to sleep more often.
Maybe you need to sleep in more regular hours? Judging by the responses here, it looks like a lot of people believe that this is your fault. YOU need to be getting more sleep.
2007-02-09 20:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're tired you're tired, but I do kind of agree that you should never be too tired to talk with someone you love. It does sound like you sleep a lot, but if you're tired he should be worried about you and wanting you to get your rest. My boyfriend seems to be the same way, though he goes to sleep before me, and then he always ends up getting off the phone first because he's tired. I want him to get his rest because I don't want him to be tired it's important to me because I love him. Out of all the things we fight about, we never fight about this. We argue about a lot of petty things, but not about something so petty as this. He does need to be understanding, if he's not then maybe he's not the one for you.
2007-02-09 20:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just sleep regular hours? You're not doing anyone any favors by being with him and cranky.
2007-02-09 20:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he doesn't respect you or your needs - why are you messing around with you sleep patterns - that's very unhealthy
2007-02-09 20:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a girlfriend so while you sleep his needs are still met.
2007-02-09 20:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Just being honest 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just have a talk with him and let him know everything you just told us...if he doesn't understand...then he can't be worth your time.
2007-02-09 20:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him sleeping pills.
2007-02-09 20:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just sleep more and forget about him.
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2007-02-09 20:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋