why am i so scared to let someone into my heart?
I like a boy and he likes me (perfect right?) well no because the more i know i like him the more scared i am and i get this urge to just shut him out completely... like i don't him close to my heart its so confusing like i just want to lose him and run away. why is this?
2007-02-09 19:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by confused 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love brings alot of emotions to the surface to be dealt with by you and your partner. face them together without judgment and your relationship should grow. you will grow!
2007-02-09 19:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by _ESP_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you like him right? Maybe you feel that he likes you for his own personal benefits rather then a relationship. Basically your natural intuition is picking up mixed messages from his body language and either you are really just "worried" or they do intend to cause harm. Hope this was of some help, good luck.
2007-02-10 03:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cody M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am the same way, but that's because of personal reasons and trust issues have come out of this. But I finally met someone who I actually let in and I don't regret it, he shows the meaning of true love. He's my soulmate. The one that's meant for you is going to do the same thing, good luck honey!
2007-02-10 03:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been in a bad relationship before, or has someone you know/love been in one before? That could easily be why. Have courage. Do whatever it is you need to do. Good luck, take care.
2007-02-10 03:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu 1/2 like him
2007-02-10 03:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by renne w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been hurt before?...i felt the same thing bf i dated my bf but in the end i took the risk and now i am happy...we have been together for a year now...good luck.
2007-02-10 03:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I like a boy and he likes me (perfect right?)" hahahaha, if you think thats all you need for a perfect relashionship, you've REALLY got alot to learn.
2007-02-10 03:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You are scared of being hurt.
2007-02-10 03:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it doesn't feel right run dont walk away.. dont let him tread where you dont want him to be ,once you do its hard to let go. they say your first thoughts are your correct one..
2007-02-10 03:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋