my girl friend is on the phone w/ her male friend who lives across the hall in our apt. complex. She & He smoke from time 2 time. I don't smoke, so I generally don't go over. 2nite on her cell phone she asks him "can I come over & get Happy I'll give you some $ 2morrow." I hear him say "Why don't U come over here & make me happy" she repositions the phone 2 the other side of her head, & laughs. She didn't know that i heard that. She left & was over there 4 about 25 mintues. I stayed @ home in bed watching a movie. Later in the evening it was bothering me, so I told her what I heard, & that it didn't make me feel very good. We hashed it out, well then she got out of bed, and changed her underwear, she threw the old underwear out & said "There's holes in em" I didn't think nothing of it. Curiosity got the best ot me, & later I pulled her underwear out looking 4 holes. I found none, & now I wonder did she have sex with this guy? & threw out her underwear? what's your take?
2007-02-09 19:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in love with her, & this is a difficult decision. I would like 2 believe her, but come on. This does NOT look good does it? I use 2 tease friends when they would be in a relationship where they were in love, & I could see the woman not being 100% with them. This is NOW my situation, & I feel terrible 4 teasing my friends in the past. I know when I ask her "why did you throw your underwear away?" she's not going 2 have a good answer. From our talks in the past, she tries 2 swing it around 2 me not being trusting, & blaming her w/ no reason. Well this is a serious situation, & I'm not sure we're going 2 make it out of this one.
2007-02-09 20:09:03 · update #1
She sounds like a Scank that smokes pot! Don't trust her!
'-)
2007-02-09 19:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something odd might be goin on if u looked at her undies and couldnt find any holes or any other reason for them to be discarded. If u are concerned i would suggest asking her and if u dont get an answer and still have suspicions leave. u cant have a healthy relationship with someone if u cant trust them so why waste ur time when there are plenty more ( trustworthy) fish in the sea.
2007-02-09 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she knew you were aware that she changed her underwear, possibly she was just playing a game to see how you would react? People do silly things like that sometimes. I'm sure she knows you well enough to know if you would check out the underwear. Maybe she's trying to see if that will cause you to become controlling.
Anyway, that seems like a more plausible explanation. Either that or she's really bold.
2007-02-09 20:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her, she should not be hanging with some other dude alone. How would she like if you when to some girl friends house and hung out and watched movies. Need to find out what really when on. If she won't come clean, clean the apt out of your stuff and move on.
2007-02-09 19:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, YES YES YES SHE IS CHEATING ON YOU. This stands out a mile. Your intuition tells you the same but you're in denial. Get up RIGHT NOW and walk out of this relationship. Do you want an STD from this druggie guy? I bet not. Save yourself and dump her now. You'll maintain your health and your self respect.
2007-02-09 19:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got out of bed and just took her underwear and threw them in the trash? She's either the stupidest person alive or she thinks you are. You need to confront her and then kick her cheatin butt to the curb.
2007-02-09 20:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer, why post the question here? Unless you are really hard up and can't find another female, dump the girl. She sounds like she's not worth much anyway. I wouldn't waste my time with her.
2007-02-09 19:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how did she get her legs into her underwear without holes?
2007-02-09 20:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg yes she is cheating on you get out of it by what ive read you deserve sooo much better leave this relationship get some 1 who wont cheat on you
2007-02-09 19:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by lovinpink809 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... serious... yup... maybe they did something... otherwise, why would ur girlfriend lied to u bout her underwear... i dont think u r being paranoid.. its a normal thing to suspect...
2007-02-09 19:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋