Especially, OTHER THAN wanting to get to know her better for the purpose of a potential girlfriend?
2007-02-09 19:23:11 · 14 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prescheduled, not an on-the-fly invitation.
I just want to understand guys better :)
2007-02-09 19:28:39 · update #1
It's unlikely but possible that I might invite someone I just consider a friend out to coffee, just to chat or because I feel grateful for something she did.
And, 'anonymous', good answer! : )
2007-02-09 19:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would ask a girl to a coffee joint, like you said to talk over a cup of coffee. Get to know each other better in a more relaxed enviroment than if it was over dinner. Not so serious, it's just coffee, can't really screw up. Hell, alot of things come to mind while drinking coffee. To me anyways. Hell, some guys like myself, just like to talk over coffee every now and then. Morning or evening. Sometimes it is to "feel out" a potential girlfriend or sometimes just to make a new friend. Good luck.Bye.
2007-02-10 03:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by El Toro Malo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmm I'm guessing you had coffee with a guy and he doesn't seem to be interested in you?
It's pretty much the only reason, although it's a perfect way of getting to know the girl. Therefore, if the guy decides the girl isn't what he is after, she won't become his girlfriend. Hope that makes sense.
2007-02-10 03:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Maggs 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Coffee? Are you sure he's not gay? I would never ask a girl out for coffee. Drinks/dinner or a movie maybe, but definitely not coffee. I would worry that asking a girl out for coffee wouldn't be clear enough, unless of course she was just a pal.
2007-02-10 03:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by eckhart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have done this just because I wanted someone to talk to and I found the woman interesting. But usually, it was because I was checking her out to decide if I wanted to date her, yes.
The former almost always happens with friends where we are "past" the whole "are we or aren't we dating" stage.
2007-02-10 03:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by barringtonbreathesagain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got tired of drinking coffee alone and needed a little company to enjoy a nice cup of coffee Nothing wrong in that?
2007-02-10 03:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's not to know you then it's to get info on one of your girlfriends. Men aren't complex...happy, sad, hungry, horny...that's it! The first two are caused by getting or not getting the second two.
2007-02-10 03:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Cochran 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i cant think of anything accept the potential girlfriend thing
2007-02-10 03:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by utlcutl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thirsty and would like company will I drink my Expresso.
2007-02-10 03:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy needs someone to talk to?
2007-02-10 04:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋