How can someone be in a relationship for over 8 months and show love unconditionally and being supportive in every aspect of life to ignoring and not wanting to be around the person you say you love. How can someone want to stay in a relationship where there is no comunication, where there is no honesty about things that bother you. How can someone put a year into a relationship that he hopes and prays and begs to keep going, even though he has been hurt so many times by the one he loves. How can people change so easily. Why does this hurt so much? How can I be so angry and hurt and bitter, and how can I feel like I want to tear a hole in a wall and break anything I can get my hands on when I think about the one that I love. Why can't I be happy like I used to be months ago.
2007-02-09 19:26:23 · 8 answers · asked by Garin M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a question that everyone will have a different answer to because it has happened to everyone and there is no great reason why. Sounds as if you were too nice. How can someone be too nice? Another good question. You think that you are doing everything you can to make the other person happy and then they crap on you. You take this as a learning experience and find someone that cares for you because you are the nice guy. They are out there and not sure how old you are but there are a lot more looking for the nice guy when you are older. In highschool the pretty girls are looking for the bad boys and they will end up turning their thinking around when they have gotten crapped on enough themselves. Or they will get married to the bad boy and end up divorced with kids. You will be pissed but you will get over it and you will find someone that is good for you don't be in a hurry to fall in love.
2007-02-09 19:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by JDUB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry about what happened. But, it's life. Stuff happens, and you move on. It molds you into a better person, gives you more knowledge about life, and about people.
I know it's hard, but you have to move on, you'll find someone else, and you will be happy again. This is going to take a while to get over, but think to yourself that it could have been worse. Let's say you were in a 30 year relationship with a woman, and have 3 children. Then, things go downhill, and ya'll get a divorce. It affects the children severly, and you would feel like killing yourself.... well you get my drift. Basically- It could be SO much more worse.
Just don't stick with the past, it will bring you down even more. Good luck on everything. : )
2007-02-10 03:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the reality of the life... just stop it, k? dont think u r the only one who experience pain... thre are many people out there who suffers more than u do! well, just break up with that person u love... no use of protecting a relationship that is not going anywhere... sorry, but this is my point of view...
2007-02-10 03:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People change. Stuff happens. This is real life and the amazing thing is that we all have a wonderful capacity to adapt and move on...
2007-02-10 03:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no such thing as unconditional love. love is always conditional, so she just found out the condition she loved u wasn't the right one. now your woman just realised that and became extremely disappointed. u will never get her back, better fix your life or next time find someone much simplier. and there is no such thing as unconditional love.
2007-02-10 03:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as hard as it is people change
2007-02-10 03:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they had something very wrong when they were a child.
2007-02-10 03:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
because they are codependant.
2007-02-10 03:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋