Im a sophmore in college, Freshman year I was crazy and partied alot and got a fair share of girls. This year nothing is working for me. It seems like all my friends are getting girfriends and everything, but my problem is that I just want to settle down and get a girlfriend and the problem is that im short. I'm 5'5" and i think im a fairly decent looking guy, but girls just will never pay me as much mind as any other guy who is just taller. Its really hard to get girls now, and meet new girls because they just seem like i'm not of any interest. I feel if i was taller things would be alot better for me. I really just want to settle down and get a girlfriend but its been so hard. Being anxious about this makes it harder to focus on school and i'm not doing as well as i could if I just felt more settled in and all. Any advice? Thanks alot.
2007-02-09 19:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by BD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women have a height preference, most only care about your personality and of course you have to be semi good looking. The key to a womans heart, is to be real. A conversation will go a long way in starting a relationship with any woman that you want. Don't be too forward, a simple, "Hello" followed by a universal "How are you doing today?" can actually open a door. Bottom line bro, you've got the hang up about your height, the opposite sex don't.
2007-02-09 19:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regrets huh, maybe it has more too do with a bad rep. you've built as a player. You are so quick to swear it is your statute but you don't seem to stop once and think maybe I took a wrong turn with one or two of the girls and word got out that I live hard, fast and loose without commitment.
My advice: Improve your grades and stick to your schoolwork once you make an honest break at settling down sans a female and put some effort at settling down you and relaxing with just yourself you will go very far. You may even attract a few females.
2007-02-10 04:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to slow down and concentrate on school. You want to be sure to get the right girl. So don't rush. Good things come to those who wait. You may also want to try a dating site. Matchdoctor.com is a great one. You can post your height and women will know how tall you are. So they will contact you if they are interested.
2007-02-10 03:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by tommywebb22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this! think in detail about the kind of person you would like to meet, then the type of relationship you would like. what does that look like,smell like,taste like? keep this in the back of your mind and place your intention clearly! sounds like hocus pocus but what do you have to lose,what will you gain? it's the law of attraction! by the way you're not short just concentrated!!! be well!!
2007-02-10 04:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by _ESP_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be confident with yourself because if you show that your insecure about your height then that makes you much more unattractive. maybe start working-out to boost your self-esteem. bless your heart. :)
2007-02-10 04:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋