So me and my guy of 9 years are "together" but we're not, we had a big argument this past weekend.. if you know what I mean. While we're not over or anything, he's just re-evaluating "himself" and "trust" issues with me. Everything has been going good and we still act and hang out like we are still together, nothing has changed at all.. I asked him tonight, if he made a decision about the relationship and he said, "i will have one by the weekend, and i am more towards getting back together officially, so don't worry about anything." But yet he turns around and is saying "you can do better than me, why are you with me, there are so many other guys out there... I don't want any other girl but you, i love you, but how do you like me, after 9 years?.."
What do I do? How do I interpret this? Is he having doubts that I love him and that he's scared I'll break up with him, or what?
2007-01-29
17:24:01
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becky h
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