whenever a guy approach me and say something about girl/boyfriend relationship, i turn all red and sometimes they think that i like them. i'm 26 yrs. old and never had a boyfriend. could it be the reason why i'm not used to talking with guys?
2007-01-29 17:47:42 · 1 answers · asked by cali 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cali, relationships are difficult things, whether they are with couples, heavy or just simple and casual. But the essence of any relationship begins with your relationship with yourself. If you can learn to love yourself, to accept yourself without judgment, then you can deal with anybody. Explore what it is that goes through your head, and your heart, when a guy talks to you. Are you imagining yourself with him, do you consider establishing a relationship with him...just what is it that goes through your mind? Now consider what it would be like if you felt complete within yourself...and he asks a question. He is now unimportant, his judgment of you, whatever it might be, is of no consequence to you because you feel comfortable with yourself. And you have the option to decide if you're going to do anything other than simply answer his question or grab him and throw him on the floor and rip off his clothes and make mad passionate love to him. But it's your option, not his and it is a matter of complete indifference to you which you do. If you can reach this attitude, you won't blush any more. Guaranteed.
2007-01-29 17:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋