I love the world , I love my self and I'm so kind and caring, Why can't I get any love back? What should I do ? I have tried everything. I feel like killing myself. I'm 24 but life doesn't feel worth living anymore. please help!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-29 17:39:38 · 15 answers · asked by Evtm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow thats pretty heavy duty man, but I will give it a shot.
First of all a bit of advise never expect anything that way you can never be disappointed. You care and love so much yet you get no love back because you are expecting it. But if you care and love just for the sake of caring and loving, without any expectations, you will never be disappointed.
Secondly you need to go out and meet people not waste
your time endlessly on the Internet. You should get yourself enrolled in a community college and take some classes in something fun where you can meet new people
that may share in your interests. I can not stress enough how important it is for you to see and be seen in public if you ever want to find that special someone to spend the rest of your life with.
Thirdly, try to evaluate yourself and compare yourself to some of the more lucky in love kind of guys and see
what it is that they do that makes them so lucky in love .
Women don't like a guy who's life is an open book so
try not to tell them too much about yourself and let there
be an air of mystery about you that so that they will be more interested in finding out what your all about. Oddly
enough its when you least expect it is when you will find love so be patient. There is somebody for everyone out there. Now don't let me me hear you ever talk about you killing yourself ok ? Thats just silly childish talk and not very attractive to women if you know what I mean . Try and be confident and self assured not desperate and needy.
Lastly always remember that we all have but one life to live so live that life to the fullest .
I wish you the best of luck and hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-01-30 01:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by daizzddre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out into the world and do stuff. Undertake some activity that you might enjoy and also increase your chances of meeting new people. Dancing is good, lots of fun and members of the opposite sex. There are similar activities, church group, sports such as social tennis. Discuss your feelings with your doctor, you might need some positive help if you are depressed, and the depression can impact on your ability to find love. It will be okay just keep working away at it.
2007-01-30 01:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got some good advice here. I'll play devil's advocate.
Are you an irritating person? Are you pushy? Bossy? Are you demanding with boyfriends? Really think about it. Are you a nag? Do you suffocate your boyfriend with phone calls and demanding of his time and whereabouts?
How much fun are you to be around?
I know these aren't fun questions, but do a little relationship autopsy. Really look at what you did and what he did. See if any patterns repeat from previous relationships.
I wish someone gave me this advice when I was 24, and not 30... something.
2007-01-30 01:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself. That's an option you can't undo if you do it. Stop looking for love. Once you stop looking, it will usually fall in your lap. Just ask the universe to send you an ideal mate and let the rest happen naturally. You're young, you've got plenty of time so just kick back and wait it out. Patience is a virtue you must have in this life or you're going to be annoyed 99% of the time. Relax!
2007-01-30 01:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one faces these problems.. the main thing all of us remember is that we should not expect anything back when we do something... Do things selflessly and if u do good u'll surely get the retuns..It's just a matter of time when people who've become so blind in making money and "enjoying" life will realize ur worth and u'll get lots of love n care in return...just hold on..don change yourselves ..all d best.
2007-01-30 01:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by uniquesri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sign up for a volunteering vacation in another country. When you share yourself with others who can use your help, you will realize that life is very much worth living.
2007-01-30 01:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my, never talk about "killing yourself" !!!! There are people who love you that would be very devastated by this.. You should seek professional help because thoughts like that sound like you are severely depressed.. Life is strange you have your up's and downs... It will get better. Have faith, and just believe !!!
2007-01-30 01:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by gee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me. most of us have had that feeling at some time... Things do get better. Have you got anyone close you can talk to? Sometimes all we need is a friend. Hang in there, i know its hard . But things do get better.
2007-01-30 01:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 and still single. Everywhere I go no girls I like, even if there is, they are married. And u were saying u wanna kill yourself?
2007-01-30 01:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Luffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-30 01:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋