Singles & Dating - 29 January 2007

the guy im with is incredible! weve been together for almost 8 months! ive never been treated like this before, he puts me up on this petistool, he treats me like i can do no wrong. everything he says is so honest and heartfelt he tells all his frinds that im the one, and i want to be with him...every moment im away from him honestly all i do is think about him, were from different schools and its hard but i dont care i make time for him over anything. is it lust or love?! ive been through several horrible relationships, nothing like this one. this guy is perfect for me! only thing though he tells me that he thinks i deserve better, but honestly i dont think there is better than him for me! he says he has insecrurity problems and i have trust issues, but i tell this guy everything! my friends tell me they are happy for me and they can tel he treats me right they all really like him. would u call this love?? im young and i know i should go slow, but he feels so right!.. any thoughts?

2007-01-29 16:05:36 · 11 answers · asked by rckstar88 2

girls, do you think guys who smoke pot are unatractive?

2007-01-29 16:03:53 · 22 answers · asked by wickerpark 2

Please see my previous question, which is closed. Very weird he was so into me and wanted to kiss when we met, but now that I expressed doubts that he might be married (I am not sure) he says we do not have compatibility and chemistry. How does he know we never met. Then he says in another email that he might want to run into me when he is in town next week. What does he want and what does he mean?

2007-01-29 16:03:48 · 7 answers · asked by sweethoney 2

i've been in this relationship for almost a year now. he is a great bf! but i haven't met his parents. should i demand for it or should i just wait for him to make any plans...

2007-01-29 16:03:47 · 7 answers · asked by bebe 2

What's the best way to over come anxieties of meeting people. my only two relationships were people i met online. i got to talk to them on the phone and stuff lots before i met them personally. now after too failed relationships i'm eager to get out there. however i've never really experianced the social life with crowds and all. i have my group of friends, but that's about it. i been hanging out with a new friend in our group lately and she's been trying to help me get out there more, but even with liquid courage, i'm still not ballsy enough to even talk to a chick without a push. Any help?

2007-01-29 16:03:09 · 2 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3

I dated a guy last year that i totally lost contact with. his cell phone has been disconnected and i am not aware of his email or home phone. last summer he imed me but my computer froze and i was unable to read the im from him. he could possibly be in iraq but i am not sure. i have tried looking him up on whitepages.com but i have been unsuccessful. what should i do?

2007-01-29 16:01:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah E 1

2007-01-29 15:59:46 · 2 answers · asked by C-Dub 1

I've known this girl for a long time now, around half a year. Obviously, I've grown attracted to her in that time. I'm going to ask her how she feels about me really soon, and my real question here is should I ask her how she feels at school, and just ask her randomly when I see her next, or should I wait for a better time?

I've been waiting for the past month already, to see how she feels and to see if anything special comes up. Problem is, nothing has, and I think the months I've been waiting is too much- I don't want this girl to think I don't like her, or that I've afraid to make the move. I really don't know... Any advice?

2007-01-29 15:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy that I'm preetyy positive he likes me, (everyone says he dose, he did last year, i can tell) and I llike him alot too. during class he looks at me and stares, i look at him for a second but turn a away then look back a couple seconds later. He doesn't stare all the time but when he dose what should I do?

2007-01-29 15:58:58 · 2 answers · asked by Me 3

Long story short, my friends mom got me a number of a girl that works with her that she thinks that I should go out with. I gave my friends mom a picture of me and my friend in return gave me her number to call her.
What do I do when I call?
I know I should probably keep it short on the phone as to not make it too uncomfortable. I was thinking of maybe asking her if she wants to go out for a drink. I also thought it might be cool to ask her to go somewhere where we could maybe do something while/during after we drink like maybe go to Dave N busters etc?
Thoughts on if this is too much for just meeting someone or what I should say when I call her for the first time would help me a LOT. I've never been on a blind date or been hooked up like this before.
Thanks!

2007-01-29 15:57:41 · 6 answers · asked by KEVIN 2

can someone give advice im going to the movies with her

2007-01-29 15:57:18 · 1 answers · asked by andrew p 3

this is not a question i would normaly ask but i go to high school and there is this girl i like that i talk to at the bus stop with other people after school sometimes and i really like her a lot but other guys keep on messing with her "playing" and she seems to like it i dont want to do it because then she will think i am no different from the other kids but i dont want to make a move because i am shy and i dont want to emmberass myself PLZ HELP ME! "preferably advice from other girls "

2007-01-29 15:56:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what turns you on at the movie theater with a guy?

2007-01-29 15:53:39 · 6 answers · asked by Jenna T 1

I'm 16 and the guy i like is 21. I've known him for almost a year and we get along really good. Our personalities just click and i'm happy whenever im with or talk to him. We hang out, and talk a lot on the phone. He knows that i like him as more than a friend and he told me he likes me a lot and that he cares a lot about me and i know he's not lying cause i dont know, you can just tell. you know? but, despite this we're still not together because as much as he says he likes me he also told me that he was a little uncomfortable with the age difference and that he wouldnt be able to tell his family about me so it bugs him. So i dunno what i should do...i really really like him so should i just wait (till like im 18 or something) and hope he changes his mind? or should i just move on? >__<

2007-01-29 15:53:00 · 13 answers · asked by musicslyfdl 1

my bf kissed a girl one yr bak wen he was drunk and depressed, and I don’t know for wat reasons but I did forgive him, and things were absolutely normal, now that thing is bothering, is it cuz it is the same time of the year or will it pop up again and again, our is a long distance relationship ( pple who think long distance relationship cant work, please dont answer) and he cud have missed telling me this, I m not defendaing him but I know he tells me everything, I don’t know I did right or wrong by forgiving him, but why is it disturbing me now??

2007-01-29 15:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by ria 2

i reallly like this guy that goes to my school we have been talking line for awhile, and he wants to start talking to me at school, but i actually look better on my myspace pics because its low quality, i'm actually not that attractive in real life, he's seen me at school before but i still feel insecure about talking to him. i start thinking, when he sees me and thinks i'm ugly. i don't know what to do. should i just talk to him at school?

2007-01-29 15:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-29 15:52:39 · 20 answers · asked by butterflykisses88 1

I have a lot of talents... like I'm an expert tennis, chess and poker player & a former musician. Im also a med student. I also come from a pretty financially well off family. Not to sound like a jackass, but when I meet a girl should I keep this a secret and not tell her until its really serious or should I just not keep it a secret if she asks...? I NEVER mention it or brag about it... but if she asks i dont seem to hide it. So ladies please tell me.... when these girls ask me about these things, should i mention them or keep them a secret?

2007-01-29 15:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1

2007-01-29 15:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-29 15:48:39 · 4 answers · asked by cherrybabe 1

I have a friend who made out with a 12 yaer old at a party but he thoght she was older and now i think they are hitting it off hes a freshman and shes in 6th grade is this wrong?

2007-01-29 15:48:04 · 35 answers · asked by brent w 1

Due to popular opinions that i make a move on this girl that always sits next to me in class (for about 4 weeks now), i decided to talk to her and get to know her better. At first she was playing with her hair when we started chatting. She greeted my conversation with a smile and seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.Then the professor started lecturing and she was fidgeting with her earrings, playing with her hair (grooming...?) and passively bitting her nails the entire time.

What do you guys/gal think?

2007-01-29 15:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2

My love and friend is named Tamara. She goes by Tam and Tammy.

Is Tam Tam or Tammy Tam good?

2007-01-29 15:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy i've known/dated/hungout with off and on for 6 months finally brought up what was going on between us and he said that I "knew how he felt about me" but he didn't want to be in a serious relationship now, because he needs to concentrate on getting his life straightened out (which is definitely true), and when he is in a relationship he gets sucked into it and it is the only thing he focuses on (also very true- he's kinda obsessive about it and takes it really seriously-kids, etc). But he is "committed to me" and "isn't going to cheat on me". That sounds like a total b.s. line to me (except that i honestly think he needs to figure out his life before he gets serious w/ anyone), so I just figured there wasn't anything serious going on between us. But now he calls me almost everyday, but we rarely talk for more than a 1-2 minutes, because he has to get back to work, his phone loses reception, I can't hear him, etc. I don't get it. If we are not serious, why does he call so much?

2007-01-29 15:46:49 · 2 answers · asked by menau 2

ok there is my problem.....
i like this guy and everyone says he likes me too ...(haha u might be thinking so what is the problem)... well there is the problem.....i think he likes this other girl too and i think she likes him as well......(no u are thinking , this is pathetic)...so me being pathetic lol......want to know if there is anyway to know who he likes more.....(now u are thinking, repetitive question)....but anyhow i am kinda sad by all this and i am not sure what to do about it.....i know that guys are fickles sometimes but he is like trying to be with two ppl....sigh...i don't like being a third wheel or something
oh we are all single so nothing much is happening.... except i think he is dating both girls(me and someone else)
thx u ~~~~ serious ans plz

2007-01-29 15:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by confused 3

i really like her but not sure if she does. her friends says she does but not sure if its true!!!

2007-01-29 15:46:09 · 10 answers · asked by joeyarmendariz 2

2007-01-29 15:45:58 · 20 answers · asked by Ankit K 1

my best guy friend happens 2 b my exwe had a tihng going on but i broke it off b./c he had a gf.his friend started to yell @ me so i lied & said he meant notihng to me&then he shouted that it meant the world to him. He loves his supposed gf but is mad at me for trying to give them a chance to work tihngs out. i do care about him alot and i miss him. why did he get mad at me for giving him and his gf a chance to actually work? i was the distarctinon & i tried to get out of the picture. is it stupid to miss his hugs and talking to him?he always said notihng i cud 2 to make him not forgive me.....should i try and be his friend again? or kick him to the cirb like he does to all of his gfs nd benifits?

2007-01-29 15:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I know i shouldnt be thinking about this at this age but im 13 and i like this asian girl. the only problem is im either to nervous to ask her out, or when i say hi its like im invisible to her. Ive heard bad rumors about my self and stuff but i have lots of friends who are her friends and some of them incouage her to talk to me and some say she shouldnt. Is there something wrong with me or should i just forget about her and move on ?

2007-01-29 15:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by PoetGuy 1

What´s the cure for a badly broken heart, I feel so sad, I cry all day long, i don´t even want to get out of bed. A guy just broke my heart badly, how do I bounce back?

2007-01-29 15:42:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous