What´s the cure for a badly broken heart, I feel so sad, I cry all day long, i don´t even want to get out of bed. A guy just broke my heart badly, how do I bounce back?
2007-01-29 15:42:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Romance.
2007-01-29 15:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and Only love can break a heart, only love can mend it again. I thought that would be sweet. But in all honesty love and time are the real healers, it is so hard to get over the loss of a love and it seems like it will never get any better but it will I promise. Also is this the normal sadness and hurt or are you depressed? If your depressed, can't sleep, eat, get out of bed or sleep to much and cry all the time for no apparent reason or for every reason at all. Then talk to others, don't isolate yourself, that is the worst thing you can do. I hope your heart heals soon.
2007-01-29 15:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat yourself to something very nice. Get all done up and take a close friend (either sex) out to dinner. There really is no cure for a broken heart except time. You will grow and become a stronger person from this. I understand at the moment you don't think that will be the case but it will. Good Luck
2007-01-29 15:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by A True Friend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to:
"You Had A Bad Day" by Daniel Powter
"You're Beautiful" by James Blunt
Take a night out to yourself and your friends. We are all in life at this point in time. When it happens does not matter. But there will always be someone that you'll find who will make you forget about everything that ever happened to you. You just need to take a break from it all. Kick back and enjoy the scene. Let things cool. I know you don't want to, but just see how it plays out by playing it safe.
- The Date Doctor Robert
2007-01-29 15:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I goin 2 b honest wit u, and u really can't. When u get ur heart broken it hurts really bad!!! It took at least a year and a half 2 get ova this guy. And later on I found someone else. If he meant alot 2 u then ur goin 2 hurt alot!! Try 2 move on but it will b hard. And I am speaking from experience!
2007-01-29 15:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by msaquarius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me get out of bed and go out and have some fun with a close friend and talk about it and write it all down on a piece of paper and burn it and I bet you will fill a whole lot better when you do this.You should not fill sorry for yourself it is his lost and it was provably for the best any Way so move on with your life and show him that you don't need him to be happy.
2007-01-29 15:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by bigdicjay06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely need to get out of bed. The very next moment you look outside and notice it's sunny out, you need to leap out of bed, throw on clothes, and run outside. Go for a walk and look for pretty things, or dive into building a snowman. Even if it feels like you're forcing yourself to it when you first get out of bed, after a short time you'll be enjoying yourself!
You should try to go to places like malls, museums, ANYWHERE to get out and about. Getting out of your room and daily routine will give you a chance to look at your life from a new perspective, and you'll be able to think about things other than your broken heart.
One of your outings needs to be to buy a variety of chocolate, including melting chocolate, and lots of fruits and biscuits to dip in it! You can invite your friends over for a chocolate party!
And finally, even if you don't do any of this, TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, and even if it doesn't feel like it NOW, the fact is, that after a little while it just won't hurt anymore and you'll notice one day that you've moved on. Of course, doing the stuff I mentioned will help that day come much sooner!
Best wishes!
2007-01-29 15:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should get out of bed have a lovely bath, get dressed in ur best clothes and ur best make up and go out dancing with ur girlfriends. the best way to get over an idiot who has broken ur heart is to get urself out thee and remind urself that u r still a fantastic woman with plenty to offer some lucky man who deserves u and all u have. Flirt, play , get them falling at ur feet. It will do wonders for ur ego but dont forget about keeping ur self respect and ur health ie if ur gonna go 'there' use protection. have fun and remember u r a great person im sure
2007-01-29 15:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say the only thing is time, you have the right to mourn your broken relationship, but don't drown in your sorrow. If your fortunate enough to have friends and family, get out and be around them. Day by day it will get a bit better, my ordeal started a week ago, and everyday it's a bit better. You'll probably not fully get over it until another love comes along.... Sorry your going threw this.........
2007-01-29 15:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just realize that he wasn't the one you know. Think about the guy you want you. Hey think of the things that he never did for you. I understand that it must hurt. But hey he wasn't the one. The wounds will soon heal and your find the man of your dream. Your marry him have the cutest babies. Wake up one morning to the smell of coffee that he fixed fresh for you. A little child that calls you mama in your lap at night as you read a story to him. And then your look back and say that the brake up wasn't as horrible as I thought it was. Look at the man I have know and look at the children that I had with him.
2007-01-29 15:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by hphlly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will cure a broken heart. In the mean time do something positive for yourself and others.
2007-01-29 15:47:43 · answer #11 · answered by soar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋