Ok I know i shouldnt be thinking about this at this age but im 13 and i like this asian girl. the only problem is im either to nervous to ask her out, or when i say hi its like im invisible to her. Ive heard bad rumors about my self and stuff but i have lots of friends who are her friends and some of them incouage her to talk to me and some say she shouldnt. Is there something wrong with me or should i just forget about her and move on ?
2007-01-29 15:43:26 · 7 answers · asked by PoetGuy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on...
2007-01-29 16:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well at only 13 I'm sure that these rumors can't be just too bad lol ,,,, And you are at the age now where most people start thinking about dating and relationships so don't pay any attention to smart alick answers you might get ,,,, If she's heard rumors about you then you need to prove them wrong ,,,, And the only way to do that is to start trying to talk to her ,,,, You need to get over your nervousness and simply try to strike up a conversation or conversations with her ,,,, No one else can do this for you ,,,, Maybe once she gets to know you she will realize that you aren't really like what shes heard about you ,,,,, If you really aren't that is ,,,, If you are puzzled about subject matter for this conversation then talk to her about her ,,,,, Ask her questions concerning her that you are curious about ,,,,, Just don't make the questions too personal or nosy ,,,, Whether she takes to you or not remains to be seen and you don't have any control over that but you aren't going to find anything out until you start talking to her ,,,, If she doesn't take to you then give it a "At least I tried" and move on ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,,
2007-01-29 16:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her friends have to "encourage" her to talk to you, then that's not a good thing. You're young, you have plenty of time to figure all this stuff out. My advice to you is to get some confidence and approach her. Say hi, try to start a conversation. If she's not receptive, then it's time to move on buddy.
2007-01-29 15:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 13 to and AlOT of my friends r lilke that around guys and me and my bff are just like why try to be somthing that ur not, sowe talk to our crushs and bfs
soooo ya u should talk to the asian gurl and mybe ask her outt! ;0)
'meber just be yourself :)
2007-01-29 15:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by lexi(: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to what they say.... if you want to talk to her, talk to her... if you want to ask her out, go for it...being rejected will happen plenty of times in your life, its not a big deal....if she says yes then you will be glad you asked her.... if you dont ask then you will never know..... you have nothing to be nervous about, if she sees you are nervous she wont like that, be confident when you approach her
2007-01-29 15:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 13 myself! So i know wut kind of situation ur in, although i'm a girl so i'm not sure if i'm of any help or not? I think u should not even care wut other people say just do wut u think is right! If no 1 else will y don't u introduce urself to her! If u don't tell her sooner or l8r u'll wind up making a fool of urself in front of her. Best of luck to u and her!
2007-01-29 16:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you like her
2007-01-29 15:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋