I have known this girl for 3 years. We dated, but she had this persistent ex-boyfriend always wanting her back. Anyway I stuck in there giving her so much love, affection and happyness that I ended their 5 year relationship. But she used to cry over him and blame me, even though she would still stay with me. Then a year later after dating solidly, she met this other guy and a week later she dumped me. I mean we were going great and straight out of the blue she said thats that and moved on. It felt like I meant nothing. I still love her and miss her alot. But what can I do? Her ex-bf ruined so much and destroyed us because it caused tension. Now this new guy is like a fresh start!?? It is so unfair cause I know I am the better guy. What do I do. :-(
2007-01-29 17:20:36 · 13 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit moaning and groaning over this chick, she obviously has some serious committment issues and isn't comfortable or confident in herself to know what she truly wants. Don't feel bad about the other guy, believe me, he'll be another stepping stone in her path as well.....
There are a lot of quality girls still out there that will be a lot more deserving of your love, affection and attention. MOVE ON!!!
Good Luck!
2007-01-29 17:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but dont worry about her she still have alot of feelings for her ex and she doesnt know how to deal with it she things hoping from the one guy to the other will change it , it wont she must first get over him than she will be able to move on to another relationship, get yourself someone and take it nice and slow u will get over her-be strong
2007-01-29 17:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be the better guy, but if she doesn't see it that way then there isn't really much you can do about it. The relationship may not have been as strong as you thought since she was able to move on so abruptly. Learn from it and be glad you had the chance to experience it.
Time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and move on to bigger and better things.
2007-01-29 17:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-22 18:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She used you for the rebound. It's a shame too, because you sound like a great guy. It happens though, and in time your heart WILL mend. She doesn't deserve you, so move on. Wait awhile and then find someone who really appreciates you. But not too soon, because then you will be using someone else the way she used you.
2007-01-29 17:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like decent guy whos been heartbroken. but in all honesty, she sounds like trouble. if she has a shady past and is now with another shady guy do you really want to associate with someone like that? id say the best thing is that you're out now, dont dig yourself back in. plenty of other girls dude. delete her off facebook, change your number do whatever it takes to cut ties with her, because until then, she wont get the picture and will only turn to you to use you for emotional strength and then wave you off again when shes all good. you know what kind of person you are and you dont need to justify it to anyone, especially her.
2016-03-29 09:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ii had that experience...hahaha i thought i was the only guy that can do that...anyway just think of two things...
1. she does not love you at all.
2. Dont waste the rest of your getting hurt by that girl,
trust me i survived and met my only one
2007-01-29 20:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Arnel I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she never really got 'closure' on the ex during the relationship with you so she never fully gave herself to you and you both had doubts and misunderstandings because of it. when she left you or the ex...she left you both?? eh...just a guess. dont get involved with someone who didnt get good closure? or keep trying to win her back. up to you. peace
2007-01-29 17:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For ur good heart and character i guess u will get a better gal then that ungrateful Dog!!
Move on!!
Goodluck!
2007-01-29 17:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was useing you to get over her ex, you need to move on too.
2007-01-29 17:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋