Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and i thought me were the perfect couple and he was so good to me well now things have changed.We are having way more problems and hes changed for the worst not so much for the best and its hard for me to start a conversation with him i need help with that alot.....any advice!!! I just need to talk and listen to him better and im trying but its so hard what can i do to help make this better!!!!Help ASAP Anybody...I dont wanna Lose him!
2007-01-29 17:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is the foundation of your relationship? If it is physcal you guys are headed for trouble no matter which way you slice it. Communication is the key. If your afraid to communicate fully and openly to each other and trust isn't there that is the death of a relationship.
2007-01-29 17:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suggest getting a third person known and respected by both of you since you are unable to handle or talk about it. Prefer an elderly person.
Find ways to compromise and an understanding, reason to sort out problems and the dos & donts.
Good Luck
2007-01-30 02:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The three C's are important in any relationship....
Conversation, Compassion, & Compromise
The two of you need to sit down and talk on how you can improve your relationship. Tell him honestly how you feel. Whatever is wrong might be in your mind only. However, you should feel free to express whatever is troubling you......
2007-01-30 01:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't bring out the best in each other, then consider letting it go. If you have to work that hard for a relationship that is this young to work out, then it isn't worth it and he isn't THE one.
2007-01-30 01:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by TPhi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be calm and try to be at peace within so you guys can talk things out, bringing out all or any issues out into the open. When you do this, you can take it from there in resolving anything. Your in my prayers, I have faith you can work things out ;-)
2007-01-30 01:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't want to talk and refuses to work on the relationship don't hold onto him. It takes two to make a relationship work.
2007-01-30 01:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Welcome back to reality. The honeymoon phase is now over. it's time to talk and tell him how you feel. If he cares as much about the relationship as you do he will do anything to try and fix it.
2007-01-30 01:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're better off with out him
chin
2007-01-30 01:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i might b a bitter divorced bag but i say dump his ***
2007-01-30 01:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋