Singles & Dating - 21 January 2007

2007-01-21 16:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

lives in one of the units & at time he can be a real a s s hole. He has no life & tries to get into everyones business. He told me before I moved in that know one can have 2 cars on the complex. So I just park my second car at my job. Well, now he is having problems with his car and wants to use my 2nd car and told me that I can keep it on the complex just as long as HE IS USING IT. I am trying to decide whether or not I should let him use my 2nd car. At times he can be a real a s s h o le and I think he just made up that whole 2nd car rule. What would you do if you were in my shoes. (I know that this is not the category to ask this question, but I will get the most responces here)

2007-01-21 16:25:17 · 5 answers · asked by Student of the Game 1

My fiance has had a lot of stress with work, his parents, and just been having a bad few weeks and it seems like i go out of my way to help him with all of his problems, reminding him of appts and making sure he puts a smile on. But as soon as something wrong happens im the one and only one he takes it out on. We have a great relationship, and this is one of the only times we have nothing to argue about. for once its not my fault that hes feeling upset. But he insists on fighting with me over every word i say or if i try to help him and he just complains and yells and i just listen to him to try and help. Should i just not help him or should i ignore him?

2007-01-21 16:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by Angelina A 2

2007-01-21 16:23:58 · 7 answers · asked by jwood 1

I feel like every time I turn around my friends are going on and on and on about how they want to meet mr. right and settle down and have families. My mother is telling me she wants to be young enough to hold her grandkids. When I receive a wedding invitation, another one bites the durst plays in my head. I hate to sound whiny, but I am so tired of being single and so tired of the pressure to get married.

I know they say you have to be happy with you and no man can complete you and all that, but why is it every time I turn around, I'm bombarded with wedding magazines and couples and valentine's day? I thought I had met mr. right. But he turned out to be mr. coward and mr. liar and mr. cheater.

I'm only 24 and I have a great career, I'm intelligent, and cute in the-girl-next-door-way. I feel like I should have everything to look forward to. Instead, I feel like I'm being smoothered by singleness and the pressure of marriage. Anyone else know how I feel?

2007-01-21 16:21:37 · 26 answers · asked by Lucky 2

So I like this friend of mine who also likes me, but Im not 100% sure I wanna go out with her because I dont neseccarily wanna. I just like her a lot, and its hard wanting to stay single and like someone...that likes you back. So if I were to ask her out, what should I say? How should I approach my friend? Is it a good idea or bad, because shes a friend? Should I just tell her I like her and have it come out that way? Or should I be more "friendly" to her by doing "school-ish" things...like poking her and tickling her?

Thanks.

2007-01-21 16:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am 16 and he is 18. He's a great guy but I've just got the urge to be single. I broke up with him not too long ago. We got back together the day after. Things with him are great but it's just not as fun for me anymore. When we broke up, I felt lonely and wanted him though. Should I stay with him or not?

2007-01-21 16:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by Natalie P 1

Long story short me and my husband were hanging with his cousin they wer having drinks ect .. it was an interesting night and I didnt think much of it untill tonight my husband commented on the girls there and how they teased him by dancing together and grabbing on each other ... they were 17 and 18 and acted it in more ways then one it didnt really bother me ..Im 26 and my husband is 29 he hasnt stopped talking about them sense we left ..I feel threatand am I paranoid or insecure ? Im a mom we share a child and im actually pregnant again with our 2nd child lol maybe my hormones are getting the best of me but im annoyed by his constant talk on these 2 girls and how they acted through out the night am I over reacting we wer about to make some loving but once again he started talking about them and how they teased him ect so i rolled over and he went to bed mad LOL

2007-01-21 16:17:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 16:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by Nick 2

Friend told me this

And when you are with this new girl and you decide you like her, please ask her for her phone number. If she likes you, she'll give it to you. If she hesitates, stutters, or seems uncomfortable in anyway, you're out! If she does give it to you, call her 5 to 9 days later for 3-5 minutes and ask her out for a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Sunday afternoon the next week.

Why wait 5-9 days, and ask her out for a weekday date? Because you want to be a Challenge (which is so important in maintaining romantic relationships). The whole fact that you already asked her out means you are interested in her already. But please please please don't get mushy and say how much you like her and everything. That is so anti-Challenge. Women are so used to being chased around they want a guy who can say no to them, who won't cater to their every whim, and they want to be able to wonder if you really like them or not. They want you to be mysterious so they can think about you and want to see you more and get to know you.

So, if the new girl accepts, then you are good as long as she doesn't break the date (which in that case, don't listen to her excuses unless its extreme like someone died or she's really sick). If she says she can't make it, then you're out. But if she says she can't make it, but gives you a date and time that she will be available and it's not on the weekend (if it is, give her another counter offer) then you know she likes you. The bottom line is... when girls like you... they help you!

During the date, don't get mushy; lay back and don't give her an iota of information about yourself if you can avoid it. Deflect her questions and make her wonder about the mysterious guy she's with. Always keep it light and funny; no heavy subjects like sex, politics, religion, never tell her if you want to have her baby or you love her so much or she is such a good person blah blah that junk; always be Cary Grant, Conan O'Brian, Robin Williams, Vince Vaughn, and Owen Wilson. This is being a Challenge, being funny makes her think you are Confident, and you not touching her and being mushy on her is Self-Control. I call this the 3 Cs which win women: Control (Self-), Confidence, and Challenge.

2007-01-21 16:16:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what kind of qualities does a women have to posses to be seen as a potential wife to you? list as many as you would like or are important to you as a man....thanks!!

2007-01-21 16:14:38 · 15 answers · asked by nonyerbusiness 3

2007-01-21 16:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by jwood 1

My bf dumped me and it was harsh for no good reason at all....on CHRISTMAS. Now hes hooking up with a girl who was my friend.
He says he is still physically attracted to me
While we went out he said he loves how small i was (5'2, 110 lbs) because hes a football/bball player and liked to pick me up alot.
He says he still thinks I'm hot and I think it's perfect because now I'm 101 lbs and his other girl is pretty big.
Honestly, I'm not trying to stop eating, I LOVE eating..I just really have had zero appetite lately and and impulse to go running. Last night when he saw me he scooped me up and tried to start kissing me (he was drunk) and said "Holy sh** I can feel your ribs. Why did I dump you!?" I pushed him away and laughed at him.

Why am I not hungry? Now I'm seeing maybe its a good way to get back at him because he REALLY tore me apart. I loved him and was very good to him...and now I have lost 2 friends thanks to him. Is this a good way? Is 101 lbs healthy?

2007-01-21 16:13:43 · 21 answers · asked by susie q 2

what should i do?
i think is a theory that all the girls that i like have boyfriends

and it all ends up the same.

i become friends with the boyfriend spend more time with the girl and see if i can make her talk to me more than talking to him

but for that the guy just kisses her and leaves me there talking like a dumb*ss

2007-01-21 16:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Bruno D 1

2007-01-21 16:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone plzzz help me out

2007-01-21 16:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by cg 2

GIRLS, what kind of things do u look for in a relationship material guy? I've been dating and searching for someone who fits me and no one seems to be relationship material evryone wants to party and be friends and get drunk u kno the whole one nighter thing, (which btw i dont do!) what is it that a guy can do to really get a girls attention without lookin to much like they want a relationship right after they've met? i mean most girls seem scared off becuz i want a relationship i thought it was the other way around i thought we were supposed to be uncommitted wuts up someone help me!!!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-01-21 16:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2

Being rejected for being broke is low but how can someone avoid it? Is it possible without directly asking " Hey do you date poor guys? "

2007-01-21 16:07:28 · 12 answers · asked by The Angry Stick Man 6

2007-01-21 16:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-21 16:04:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this girl she is 27 and I'm 29, right now she is in final stage of her divorce and been separated from here husband for almost a year. I like here a lot and I know she feels the same way....she told me so and all the body language signs are hard to ignore. I've made my intentions very clear and she didn't resist but now she is telling me that she is worried because her divorce isn't done and she wouldn't want to loose me as friend...what does she mean by that?
what can I say to make her feel better about this?

2007-01-21 16:03:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think this is going to ruin our friendship....he is soooo sensitive and turns rejection into anger .....help!

2007-01-21 16:03:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

oh man i could use the love right now....so exausted...need a hot bath or massage or something

2007-01-21 16:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by greenismylife.songismyworld 2

i have fourth hour with him, im really shy and while i sit in the back of the class, hes assigned to the front.
I see him in the halls ALOT, where we make eye contact, and i blush but he looks sort of bashful.
Once i was walking with a friend when i had to turn around really fast, and he was right behind me and i almost ran into him.

My spanish teacher was quizzing him with hard question, so i smiled at him, and he sort of did back but didnt look at me..
He walks by where i eat lunch sometimes with his friend, but one time i was with a guy (he had his arm around me for some reason) andd he quickly turned around i think
Whenever i look back at him and his friend, he is looking in the direction im leaving...
i cant tell if he likes me, or its just a "hey ur in my class and im gonna look at you becuase i feel like it"
LOL im ver ver confused becuase ive never talked to him!

2007-01-21 16:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by kat 3

I just wanted to ask if this kind of thing was normal. My friend just told me it was like something ordinary, but i was shocked when i heard it, because i'd always thought eigth grade was sort of too early for boyfriend, let alone sex. And then my friend told me that a couple of girls in my grade had...
I just wanted to ask if this was normal. I'd always thought sex to be more like in high-school/college and I couldnt believe people would do that in middle school.

2007-01-21 16:01:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a very beautiful girl for over a year now. Prolly the most beautiful girl i've ever dated and ever will date. Anyway, We just had our one year anniversary on the 5th and two weeks before christmas i bought her a $400.00 diamond ring from kays for christmas. It was a promise ring and i thought it would really show her how much i care for her. But i had to give it to her two weeks before christmas because she had to leave with her family to go to california to visit her whole family and she came back on the 7th of janurary and sent me a e-mail saying she wants to break up because "Theres no connection anymore". So i told her i would have to get the ring back because i'm still paying for it and she said that shes lost it. I'm not that worried about the ring i'm mostly wanting her back because i really do love her. What should i do?

2007-01-21 16:00:31 · 12 answers · asked by jedm87 2

The last time I was with my ex was in thanksgiving. It ended abrubtly. He couldnt take it anymore and left. He said I ruined the realtionship. Since then he has not called me or communicated with me just my sister.(to check on me). He came to the states to meet my family in the holidays because he wanted to make things right between us. He has cheated on me in the past but says and tell my sister his reasons, his reasoning to everyone he talks to is, he was not married to me, we never were intimate and it was a bachelor party thing. This is after we had made a commitment to be togther...except I was really wishy washy about the whole thing(being with him). He did jump thru hoops to try to get me back but I was really not nice , I was mean....and now that I hae not heard from him, especially after all the traveling he did to meet my family and we didnt , I feel very depressed, and hurt...I wonder if I should pursue in trying to get him back since he says he did all he can do to get me ?

2007-01-21 15:56:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anna 2

lastweek when i go chruch i go shake one of the girl hand and when i look back at her she could have not look at me she looks on the ground then i went her sister and shake her hand and she looks at me and my hand. and know this week she see i am so near her she look on the ground a little then look at me on the ground then look at me?

2007-01-21 15:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

does every guy have to look good to go out with or no because i'm scared that i whould get rejected because of the way i look and i really like this girl and my face looks kind of fat

2007-01-21 15:53:56 · 15 answers · asked by lilmed4ever 2

My bf and I have been dating for 5 months. Before me, he dated a girl for 3 years. She lives in MN, and he lived there too until he moved to VA (where I live) for law school. They're very close because they were best friends for such a long time. Last semester, she was constantly calling him and sending him cards, trying to get him back. He assures me he's not interested in her, but nonetheless, they still talk a lot. For instance, he's supposed to come over to hang out with me tonight, but he got a call from her and they've been talking for an hour. He called me and said she called and that he'd be over soon. This REALLY bothers me. I don't talk to my exes for hours. But then again, I never dated someone for 3 years. Is it weird that this bothers me so much? I'm trying to be understanding because he's been up front and honest, but part of me keeps assuming the worst (that there's still something there). What should I do?

2007-01-21 15:52:08 · 13 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3