GIRLS, what kind of things do u look for in a relationship material guy? I've been dating and searching for someone who fits me and no one seems to be relationship material evryone wants to party and be friends and get drunk u kno the whole one nighter thing, (which btw i dont do!) what is it that a guy can do to really get a girls attention without lookin to much like they want a relationship right after they've met? i mean most girls seem scared off becuz i want a relationship i thought it was the other way around i thought we were supposed to be uncommitted wuts up someone help me!!!?!?!?!?!?!
2007-01-21 16:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do women really want?
Instructions
•STEP 1: Ask her about herself, her ambitions, her life. Be interested. It's a rare woman who wants to sit around all night listening to a man talk about himself. And the more you try to impress her with your tales of adventure, the less impressed she'll be.
•STEP 2: Be presentable. Women are notorious accessorizers, and whether she'll admit it to you or not, you are an accessory. Other women will judge her on her choice. A clean, good-smelling man with well-fitting clothes is a real prize.
•STEP 3: Make eye contact. A lot. And smile - in a friendly way. Don't leer.
•STEP 4: Be a gentleman. It's a myth that chivalry is dead, right? There are just a few women out there messing it up for the rest of us who really do like to have doors held open for us.
•STEP 5: Learn to dance. Women will flock to you - all of them will be impressed.
•STEP 6: Be funny without being crude. It's an art.
•STEP 7: Compliment her. Notice her shoes or her watch - something that shows you're paying attention. We'll change our clothes six times before we leave the house; it's nice to find someone who appreciates the final choice.
•STEP 8: It's hard for a woman not to be impressed with a man who is impressed with her. If you really like her, tell her so. You don't have to make a big deal about it, just let her know you admire her.
Tips & Warnings
•Don't stare at her - or other women.
•Don't guide her around a room. The hand-on-the-elbow steering technique is very annoying. The hand-on-the-small-of-the-back technique is usually too intimate.
2007-01-21 16:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here goes. We women look for stability in a man. A man that doesn't want anyone but us., the one and only. We want you to tell us OFTEN how much you love us. Gifts are great, but they do NOT mean anything unless you are true to us. Honesty and trust is a must. If you cheat once you will cheat again. NEVER cheat. Always be our best friend. Looks are nothing without honesty.Trust is the bottom line no trust no love. Commit to the fullest and never ever stray.
2007-01-21 16:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by wlc87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't truly hardship about this. no human being is appropriate. For some you'd be too skinny and for others you'd be too fat. each human being interior the international has a distinct way of wondering or noticing issues. And as for this element to get a guy, properly purely carry in there, and previously you imagine a guy will come, which will like you for who you're and how you look. good success
2016-10-15 22:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by ikeda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look for someone who:
has a sense of humor
is trustworthy
is responsible
someone I can count on
someone who is real
2007-01-21 16:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by manda_panda9642 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are looking in the wrong places (or wrong age range) i think it varies from girl to girl on what they want. some girls are only after money others like myself aren't really impressed by it. just keep trying and looking. it will happen in time.
2007-01-21 16:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like guys that buy them things like flowers. just be ur self and don't let any1 persure u into anything u don't want to do. girls like guys that listen to what they say or want to do different things. just become friends with a girl that u like and see if she likes u back if so ask her out.
2007-01-21 16:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident, friendly, intelligent, honest, loyal, down to earth, find humor in the smallest things, be polite, and, most importantly, LISTEN more than you TALK because girls love to talk. :)
2007-01-21 16:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna tell you the one and only thing my mom has ever told me when you stop looking they will find you. I didnt beleive it at first but it works.Good Luck!
2007-01-21 16:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by oliphantheather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE LIKE SOMEONE WHO IS FUNNY, AND RESPECTFUL. SOMEONE WHO ACTS AS IF WE ARE IMPORTANT TO THEM. THAT WE ARE THOUGHT ABOUT. THAT WE ARE FRIENDS AND GET ALONG WELL. SOMEONE WITH MANNERS, AND INTELLIGENT. SOMEONE WHO SMILES ALOT, AND SEEMS TO BE HAPPY WITH HIMSELF. ALL OF THAT IS SEXY AND A TURN ON.
2007-01-21 16:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by niki-niki-tembo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this coolness test...We like guys that are cool!
http://www.elks590.org/main/cooltest.htm
2007-01-21 16:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzbutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋