Singles & Dating - 17 January 2007

I live in the south, have been divorced 16 years, have twins in college, I love animals, and I am a loner, but, when my kids went to college, I find now, I love my animals, but, I'm lonely, and can't find one decent guy to date, and/or bypass if asked...how do I get to someone that is worth having, smart, loving, romantic, and has goals in life..? I'm not that picky, but, havn't been on a date in over 2 years, and want too, and tried the match ect...with no luck...I've modeled, so I know it's not my looks, I'm a good person and volunteer, have a good job, great kids, not picky, but, it seems like guys are intimidated by me...where do I find that special somone? Am I destined to be by myself the rest of my life...16 years is a long time not to have been married again..and now I want it, but, I'm not willing to just settle...any guy out there in their 40's or such, I'm 43, like me?...I know there has to be someone who wants someone good, loving, kind, and loves animals/pets...

2007-01-17 16:31:58 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 3

My girlfriend want to go to the movies friday, but i have no gas or gas money... She gets mad at me because i wont go, should i feel bad or just let it go?

2007-01-17 16:31:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took my date to my favorite steak restaurant, Texas Roadhouse, however when we both got our meals she complained to the waiter saying that her steak was undercooked, which it was. However mine was perfect, in this situation what the hell do I do? Do I just dig in and enjoy my $15.00 steak or wait for her meal to return while mine gets cold. I couldn't figure out what to do other then be as nice and sweet as possible, even when she had just been the rudest I have ever seen her, and share my steak, feeding her bites...Considering the situation did I do right, or is there anything else I might have done so we could have both enjoyed our meals?

2007-01-17 16:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

does anyone have any creative date ideas?? there is movie and dinner and stuff like that but i want to do something special and cute and creative. can you help me please?!?!?!

2007-01-17 16:28:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 16:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by ajhman316 1

2007-01-17 16:26:34 · 4 answers · asked by what ever ? 2

I love my college mate.She doesn't know me very well. I couldn't tell her because of my introvert nature. Now, we are far from each other.Through mail I poured myself in front of her..said that I need to meet her..need her response..even I don't want to disturb in her studies.. She didn't give response but shouted on me..I studied well n got job then again I asked her..to meet.I said I m not doing nay flirt and to prove it I sent her money for sweets.Even then I didn't get any response.I explained her..I hv very less interaction with gals..so I don't know gals perception. If I am doing anything wrong then please suggest me.if u r not interested then tell me.even then she didn't reply. I was completely confused .When I sent greeting she accepted.but never responded.I m deeply loving her, pray for her.I wanted to be a gud person and I m a gud person.A yr later when I got number n called she said stop irritating me. I hv no concern for your emotions.I m already engaged.I said best wishes!

2007-01-17 16:26:13 · 7 answers · asked by nbgl 1

2007-01-17 16:25:49 · 3 answers · asked by c dog 2

i have an ex boyfriend who egged my car and damaged the paint. him and his friends have pretty much declared war on me and my friends and it sounds like they are wanting to do some more damage. i just need some ideas to get them back. i need something creative that won't cause any MAJOR damage and get us in trouble, but will still make him mad and tell him that i'm sick of this.

2007-01-17 16:25:24 · 18 answers · asked by Kayla B 1

my girl friends father is really really protective of his daughter and she told him tongit after we've been dating for about 4 days now and i might have to meet him soon and i'm scared shitless of meeting him and her familiy, (big brothers that are also the same way, with uncles), i need some advice w/o looking like a suck up to him or makin a fool of myself, could you help me out a bit?

2007-01-17 16:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Brook R 1

Okay...girls what are the top ten things(in reality)that you'd want your man to do(including travel)thats romantic?

2007-01-17 16:21:30 · 26 answers · asked by The Last Redneck Soxfan 2

I am almost 21 years old. I am a junior in college. This freshman asked me out for coffee. He is really sweet and nice but is it weird for an upperclassman to date a underclassman? I don't know. What do you think?

2007-01-17 16:20:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got dumped, well it has been an onagain offagain relationship for a while....anyway, I had his baby, she is 5 months old now....but since I won't let him get his way because he doesn't seem committed, he just told me he wants nothing more to do with me and wants to date other women. I feel hurt by this, yet I know it's gotta be for the best?!! Someone give me some advice please ....

2007-01-17 16:19:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and this guy at my school have been haveing this thing where we both like each other and we're always watching each other and we flirt and always try to see what the other person is doing. one problem- we've never talked to each other. i'm way to shy and so is he so this just keeps going on and on. it's been going on since the begining of the school year. how long do you think this will go on??

2007-01-17 16:17:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-17 16:16:55 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-01-17 16:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by MattyG 3

my boyfreinds best freinds always flirts with me and my boyfreind won't do anything about it

2007-01-17 16:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by Jen Bug <3 2

i really liked that guy from the first day that i saw him . he is reallly pure i can see it . i don't know wethar he likes me or not he was looking alot on me today . i didn't give that much attention coz i don't trust any one any more i try to kill my feelings as quick as possible mabe he is just loooking at somebody else or something . what should i do

2007-01-17 16:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by what ever ? 2

me went to my wifes 25 bday at her parents.. it was a good night but about 2 am my wife had to go to bed . her father was already asleep he went before 12 . everyone else was gone. so my mother inlaw and i kept drinking. we jumped in the pool laughed and joked. but then it happened yes we made love. my wife is a bit upset but understands that we were drunk at it was a spur of the thing. but he won't let me near the house.how can i explain to him im sorry i made a terrible mistake

2007-01-17 16:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by conan 4

2007-01-17 16:12:25 · 1 answers · asked by anthony f 1

Do guys never ask me out because they think I'm not interested, intimidating or totally unattractive? Or am I just misreading signals? I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend! (serious answers only)

2007-01-17 16:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't think i am happiness that i find my another side. do you know why i sent her back home ? the night before sent her back home. i knew the detail of that many many guys were plan to send her back too. she said she would escape .....because many guys wanna send her back home. i knew a truth :" there are many guys chased her ,including our alleged teachers , alumnis , her boyfriend , her former classmates ..... "
so i was so worried about it . if at beginning of the love to her i knew the truth ,i think i won't love her . because i don't wanna "join war" , a war caused by a woman . but it was so late .... i complain about myself. since that night ,i hard to sleep ....really !!!! well , i woke up earily every morning ,then thought of her...and the related matters ... /i want to tell you i am be mad..
at first i only knew she back home , i didn't know she would go to her boyfriend's school for her birthday. she explain it to me . her boyfriend requested her to celebrate her birthday. many people in our school saw me waiting at that morning in the rain . they said i was so stupid.... when they knew she go to her boyfriend's school ...they said " Anqi ,you're the most stupid guy !! " , you don't worth to loving her . i never mind . perhaps it's a mistake. many people stress the "contain" , but they never come it ture . i contain the everythings .
i don't know how to do . i went to bed at 7 P.M , then got up at 3 A.M / becase i was so sad ,i wanna forget the pain ,and why got up earily ,...because i hard to sleep ..... i even dream of the " dead " , i know those can't resolve evethings.
yesterday , she got sick .i went to hospital for prescribe....i ordered my female classmate deliver my drug... she was very very disappoint at me ,she sadi " Anqi ,you're so so stupid " . i trun another side ,then went back my suite . i
i even hard to eat .... i told myself ....
i sent messages to her ....she said " Anqi ,you're the best man in the world , but i hard to accept your love " . we quarreled..... i fell into sleep . i thought of my future ,my parents , my life , my mood ....i think i should give up right now . although i am so so love her . i have to .at 2 A.M , i woke up ..i saw the messages , she make apologize to me . she realize my love ....but hard to accept . ok , in my heart i really don't feel so comfortable , since i knew the truth ....
i said i would disappear in the world soon without take beckon to her ,and everone in my school . she sadi she will give me the best bless....she will remember me forever ... i cry ...hardly .... i know i always cry sadly, hardly those days .
ok , everythings is over , hey guy " game over "
i know she is very very very nive girl ,you hard to find another...... she said she won't hurt anyone ......, especial her boyfriend , although her boyfriend is not good . she is very very appreciate my ability ,my personality. i told her " can you transfer those into love " " can those be usefull ? " , oh ...no !!

what can i do ? how to do .? although she hurt me badly, i still love ...... although love is not so nice .
i want to save myself from the painfull .......
hey ,if you're my friend , i hope get your precious poinion. ....


take care
anqi wong

2007-01-17 16:10:16 · 2 answers · asked by waq741953 1

Today I accepted a date, although I have came out of a long relationship...getting back together isn't an option.
My date tells me he loved me for years, personally I never realize it..till today.
I still have feelings for my last bf, I just don't want to muck this new relationship up.
i'm also nervous cause he wants me to go to his house to have a chat with his mum, last time i spoke to her..she was asking us to get married duh!!! and i was with my ex back than.
Any help would be nice, thank you

2007-01-17 16:08:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl who hooked up with alot of people be able to tell if it is your first time kissing? What are some common 1st timer mistakes?

2007-01-17 16:04:37 · 19 answers · asked by theoneandonly4251 2

and we were going out for 6 weeks and 5 days then one day he called and said he didnt want to see me anymore and he didnt have feelings for me and i still havent gotten over it and he already has a new gf and stuff and i know people who like me but i dont feel the same way about them as i do as my ex what do i do?

2007-01-17 16:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by tinkerbell_lover 1

The other day as I was entering a building, I saw at the corner of my eye that this cute guy walking pass me was staring at me. I looked at him and he didn't look away. I'm immensely shy so I looked away quickly. Now... he doesn't notice me anymore.

Another guy and I make eye contact all the time whenever we see each other, yet sometimes he acts like I'm not there. If it helps, we knew each other for a couple of months but we only talked once.

And I'm pretty sure I don't have schlop on my face or anything.

What could be the reason? Or am I just overanalyzing?

Rude comments aren't appreciated :-)

2007-01-17 16:00:08 · 28 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1

what is a good test or signs that you are in love and not just "puppy love"? Is it too early to say i am in love even if i feel as if i am? Do i keep a lond distance relationship for 1.5 years and wait for the girl that i love? i need help and any personal experience or thought on what i should do will help!

2007-01-17 15:59:37 · 13 answers · asked by funkywhiteshirt 1

I am in need of some tips on things to do on a date, things to talk about, ect.. I've never been good at this kind of stuff and now that I have a girl that I'm close to I need some help.

2007-01-17 15:56:17 · 8 answers · asked by iowa_trooper911 2

ok i like this guy named will and well we only talk on the internet but we got o the same school and he likes me but i am afraid to tell him who i am cuse well i am not pretty but he like my personality what should i do?and no it ain't any one you know it is a cute will

2007-01-17 15:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by bob 2

So many men say they want a "good" woman who will be their partner in a relationship. Not a woman who is just looking for a man w/money to take care of her. A woman who is honest, faithful, loving & trust worthy. But then when a man actually finds a woman like this, it's like all of a sudden he's commitment phobic???

2007-01-17 15:55:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous