Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

i went to a dance last night and my friends boyfriend told someone that i wanted to dance with them. this guy is soooooooo ugly and i don't like him AT ALL. i basically ran to the bathroom and avoided him the rest of the night. i would feel soo bad saying no to dance. HE IS SOOOOO WIERD and i've only talked to him a couple times because i sit behind him in math. i don't kno what to say/do.HELPPPPPPPPP

2007-01-14 07:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by livingthesweetlife 1

It seems like whenever I have a serious question, some loser has something mean and nasty to say. Why don't these people get out there and get a life?

2007-01-14 07:11:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Started seeing this guy, not serious yet, barely 1 month. I really like him. He is appreciative of the time I spend with him and is always gentleman. He also calls/texts me everyday. I really admire these things.
We were supposed to get together one day, but that day I had to call him to find out that he had drank too much the night before and that he was not feeling up to it. I was really disappointed. He said he wanted to get together with me in a couple of days, but I couldn't give him a definite answer yet.
If I forget about him, am I being too hard and expecting too much? I know that everyone falls short of perfection and I am not perfect, but part of me feels that if I do not take this seriously enough that I am setting myself up for more disappointment if the relationship becomes more serious. What I mean is, will he be responsible?

On the other hand, I like him so much, but I'm afraid that I'm searching for a reason to excuse him for this. I don't want to settle.

2007-01-14 07:10:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 07:08:08 · 19 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

I am only 16 and I have a baby with my girlfriend, Arynne. Arunne and I had a big fight 3 nights ago and she stormed out with Natalee. She is now back in her own family's place and I have tried to talk to her but she won't give me a time of day. She is one of those girls that are stubborn, independent, strong-willed, and crazy beautiful all in one. She is a one of a kind and I do not know how to get her back. The whole fight started over my working too much but I have to pay for her to eat, for her to bathe and cook, and for her to sleep in comfort. She doesn't understand my situation and I obviously do not understand her side of the story. I know I am only 16 and this type of life is for people much older and out of school, but I would do anything for the love of my life and our child. I miss Natalee and Arynne so much that I have barely slept these past 3 days. I need some advice to get my family back. I need ppl to tell me I doing a right thing by tring to get my family back......

2007-01-14 07:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by Late*Nights*R*Me 1

hey ladies whats up? i could really use ur advice but none of u will answer my questons....how come?

2007-01-14 07:06:28 · 32 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3

ok last night had a couple of drinks too many .told this guy that i have been seeing that i liked him a lot ..he then announced he had been dating another woman as he only wants a casual thing..anyway i kind of got mad and shouted a bit ..today he say,s we need to put our cards on the table .he,s picking me up in 20 minutes for this chat ..do i listen and then walk away with dignity and not say anything ......help ???

2007-01-14 07:05:19 · 25 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3

ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 4 years, everything is fine and we dont argue usually, i love him.

then i have this friend, he has been going out with my best friend for 3 years. then tonight he said he fancys me, completly out of the blue, although i didnt notice something between us. there is a strange spark between us but i denied it when he asked me because nothing can ever happen, what can i say to him to make this better? what should i do?

2007-01-14 07:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry I re-asked, but i really gotta know

I have very low self esteem at times, and I was feeling sad about me being a boring person to talk to. I guess that from talking to her I sensed she was bored talking to me (we've talked almost every day since christmas, we haven't been able to go out since like the 28th cuz of work, and she has a child to care for). How do I know if she's lost interest in me? I texted her (10 pm when she got off work) to call me sometime and she hasn't (it's 930 am). Do I call and ask? I don't want to sound wierd if my judgement is off.

2007-01-14 07:03:58 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

Is just under 8inches good or bad.. i seriously dont have a clue and just wanna see what other people think??

2007-01-14 07:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by West-Lnds-Finest 2

other than telling him that you will put out later?

2007-01-14 07:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2

This is rather embarrassing! I went to a party with a girl I really liked and she was topless and dancing in front of few guy-friends and well I got really upset and kinda cried (I was drunk) because I felt they were using her as an object, one said to take that shirt off. I am ashamed I even gave a tear. She slapped me and said "You are making me look like a whore." I basically cried more lmao so embarrassing. Do women hate emotional and nice guys?

2007-01-14 07:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Working out questions? Am I on the right track?
I started working out again, targeting two core groups every other day. My second week in, I am missing today's workout. Can I double it up tomorrow? Should it effect me?

I was supposed to work on my legs and tris and do 30 minutes of cardio and 200 crunches
Does that mean tomorrow I have to double up on everything?

Also, sometimes i do the reps of 10, then go to 8, then 7, or switch off to 3 reps of 10 if im comfortable with the weight.

Does that mean that Im teasing my muscles?

I am 6'1, 190 lbs but am trying to pack on muscle, possibly around 10 to 20 lbs and am using protein shakes and vitamins. When should I take the vitamins?

I also plan on doing an hour of yoga a week on one of my days off not at the gym to supplement my workout.

Any critiques, opinions, suggestions and advice are welcome.....

2007-01-14 07:00:15 · 2 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1

Considering our needs etc, isit possible to supress emotional needs and erase them for a person? can women do this? just wondering as men are wired differently and i know they are emotionally detached at the best of times. I'm in a relationship where i have fun and want to experience (i'm a teenager) different things, but i feel i should be less emotional at this stage..how can i distance myself?

2007-01-14 07:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would change me and my ex-girlfriend meeting. she has brought nothing but stress. and me spending money to care for her when she was down.

2007-01-14 06:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Blake 3

MY BOYFRIEND DOESNT COMPLIMENT ME ANY MORE AND IT HURTS. BUT STRANGERS COMPLIMENT ME . IS THERE A REASON OR AM I JUST OBSESSING OVER NOTHING

2007-01-14 06:59:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a discussion with a group of male friends, one experienced fellow says only about 1/3 of women really enjoy giving oral sex, 1/3 tolerate giving it, but don't necessarily like it, and 1/3 do not do it at all. What has been your experience ?

2007-01-14 06:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to wait till marriage to lose my virginity, to the person I love, but I’m confused by what people are saying, because their saying don’t wait till marriage sexual compatibility is important, which I agree with, but isn’t it their anyway when your in love? Because how can you be in love with someone and not be sexually compatible?

2007-01-14 06:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by Shadow 1

Ok, so there's this guy at my school.. and we have talked a few times, and i'm pretty sure he likes me because he is always staring at me, and he has flirted with me a few times, etc. i would really like to go out with him (i like him a lot), but what is the best way to go about this? should i tell him i like him or should i just see what happens? and if i were to tell him, how exactly should i? i'm not really good at this kind of thing... and also, how do i let him know that i'm interested?

2007-01-14 06:56:55 · 13 answers · asked by Brittany J 1

About a girl yeah a girl?
i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do

2007-01-14 06:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by Josh j 1

2007-01-14 06:55:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

you get the idea...that took me 3 times as long and the ones that used "da" instead of the and Th@...I'm not old. I am 20 and find it rediculous. ALSO CAPS LOCK IS NOT NECCESARY.

2007-01-14 06:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this guy who is staying in my garage(wheres hes not supposed to be because hes a drug addict) I like him attracted to him, weve had sex but only a few times, but wont touch me no more ignores me. Every time I try to stand my ground with him, Like whats your intensions, he gets all defensive, and tells me that if I were the one to get sober there might be something between us. Ok so I've been takeing the neccesary steps to get healthy, I think now through time its just a bid to stay in my garage and he really isnt all that attracted to me, Im confused because I want to be a good person and help those out in need, but how long can this disfuction go on? Im feeling trapped, angry, and hurt by this guy, he just keeps given little pieces of bones. How do I tell this person(wich I've tried many times, but hes a great manipulater) That enough is enough? Oh did I mention that he has not contributed a dime to live here, and its been five months.

2007-01-14 06:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by samantha 1

I flirt a bit and stuff yeah, but why would that make guys think Im a sl ut then? I know I always have to be the centre of attention or the best lookin girl around, but thats just normal tenage girl stuff anyway.
Im not goin to stop wearing low or tight tops, they suit me...but what else can I do to stop the guys from just concentrating on that? Like what else can I do to stop them thinkin Im such a sl ut?

And I cant change who I am, but a few helpful pointers wouldnt go amiss?!?
I know I just asked this qustion minutes ago but...

2007-01-14 06:52:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 06:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What age should i let my kids start dating

2007-01-14 06:50:47 · 15 answers · asked by surfing_gymnast 2

2007-01-14 06:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by bluecat90us 1

We went on ONE date and slept together. She started giving me mixed signals after that; telling me she likes me a lot, wanting to hang out more, BUT standing me up for our second date.

I never called her after that. I thought it was disrespectful of her and I have this thing where I don't tolerate people disrespectful behavior.

Still I feel the urge to call her and whish her a happy birthday. I PROBALY want to do that to see if there's something there. (is that wrong?)

But wouldn't that be kind of a wussy thing to do to call a girl you slept with only once and whish her a happy b day a couple months after she stood you up?

2007-01-14 06:49:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

2007-01-14 06:48:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

there r 2 guys in my school that think they r the best well1 they have HORRIBLE grades one can barely read and i help them all the time well i recently found out that they were talking about me behind my back what can i do im only in8th grade and im not that popular i dont care about what they said but how do i get them to stop

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im sure he was joking but one just called and asked me out...EWWW!!!!

2007-01-14 06:48:28 · 4 answers · asked by female football player 1