Singles & Dating - 14 January 2007

i have a friend ive known him for almost a year because he dated my best friend anna (lets say his name is cracker)well anna thinks that cracker likes me i have a boyfriend...although he doesnt know,anna is going to ask him out for me to see what he will say the thing is if he says yes what can i do i like him but i have i boyfriend the most confusing part is my boyfriend though i told him the plan to see if it was o.k. with him first he said it was fine...does that mean he doesnt care about our relationship or does that mean that he is ok with me messing around with other ppl(just as friends not REALLY MESSING AROUND)

2007-01-14 08:17:57 · 7 answers · asked by female football player 1

I will be 19 tomorrow...
and I started to date one of my ex boyfriends who I love very much again.

For Christmas he got me a heated blanket and a hoodie.
Before he has gotten me a purse and a necklace and stuff like that.

He asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I said IDK, as usual, cause Im not materialistic and I dont like telling people to buy me stuff. Its the thought that counts.

But hes stubborn so he said hes gunna take me to the mall on my birthday tomorrow which Im not too excited about cause I rather him choose buuuuut yeah what should I say I want?
I like everything but I dont wanna say I want something too much and too little or whatever.... So what should I do?

Thanks!

2007-01-14 08:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by kissablenquiet14 1

2007-01-14 08:16:09 · 22 answers · asked by Justin 2

2007-01-14 08:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, in my class, we were playing a game where you picked an order from a hat and obeyed it. A boy picked an order that said "give a kiss to 'me' on the cheek". He didn't do it, but the message means that kissing me would be something that no one would do in their lifetime. Am i taking this the wrong way?

2007-01-14 08:16:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 08:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by Kelley T 1

2007-01-14 08:15:40 · 1 answers · asked by dirtyoldman 4

Ok. A 15 year old girl and a 20 year old guy. Are really good friends. But theres something else there. And they both know its wrong.

They both dont believe in pre-marital sex. And are christians. And one night they are hanging out and he decides to *ahem* "cuddle" her. and then tries to lift her, headlocks etc.

Is this wrong? We're not doing anything sexual? Could he get in trouble for just doing this? I know i know, you'll all say like he's too old for you and he's a pervert. But he actually feels really bad like that. When a car came he like pulled away from me. and he knows its not.. like.. right.

Opinions?

2007-01-14 08:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone after being together 2 years. She said that I didn't care enough about her and that I didn't call her too ofter as well. During the break up she gave me a chance to ask her to stay. I decided not use this chance. So I just said Bye and hang up.
Now, I miss her and I feel very sad and bitter. I wish I could explain her a lot.
Its been a week already and she never called me back and I don't know whether that happens.
Do you, girls, ever call you ex bf after break up.?
I will never call her because it is her who broke up not me. Thanks.

2007-01-14 08:13:04 · 21 answers · asked by USCstudent 2

he asked me if I would feel comfortable enough to do something a little kinky, bondage was what he had in mind-I trust him and all but since I am a virgin I dunno if I should get kinky the first time I have sex. He swears that he won't hurt me and if I asked him to stop then he would, but I just don't want him to get "caught up in the moment" and change his mind when the time actually comes. we both enjoy being kiinky with each other and stuff, so do you think it would be a bad idea to do the first time? it sorta turns me on when I think about it and I know it turns him on(*he always says:sticks and stones can break my bones,but whips and chains exite me*), Im just worried about it being my first expirience and all it'll probably hurt anyways, what is your opinion?

2007-01-14 08:12:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this boy but ever time i try to get him to see me he never dose i want to go out with him how can i get him to see me so i can try to see if he will go out with me???

2007-01-14 08:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by SAMANTHA 1

Why does he act like this?
A couple of days ago I posted a question asking about a boy in my class. Okay we I'm still having trouble with him. He has been even more annoying. he easdrops on my conversations, unties my shoes, insults people, takes my work and more. He is like an alien to me. He jokes around sometimes and smiles (sometimes he can be relativly nice) but mostly is a pain in the butt. I dropped a paper, he picks it up and puts in on another desk. I get up to get it he grabs it and holds it over his head. I grab his hand and make him drop it. He asks for help with work and then is a pain in the butt telling me to work faster. I try to be nice but hes annoying. I ask him if he is naturally a pain in the butt and he said naturally. He has said before he tolerates me but hes so mean at times. He calls me fat ( I'm pretty skinny so thats not true) and ugly which isn't true). He yelled to my teacher that my friend John and I were dating ( not true). I've tried ignoring it for

2007-01-14 08:11:30 · 8 answers · asked by shiningstars 2

I am in junior high and I think this boy is going to ask me out. What are some good ways to say no? Also what is a good way to say yes (besides just saying "Yes")?

2007-01-14 08:08:52 · 3 answers · asked by Meme 2

hey ppl...

do u think its okay to flirt w/ someone and not have them expect something more...what about w/ the person and their friend??? would they think u were a player or slut??? (excuse the language).

what do u think plz reply to me w/ ur thoughts!!!~

thnx

2007-01-14 08:08:44 · 19 answers · asked by Misy 1

2007-01-14 08:07:30 · 14 answers · asked by Honey83 5

when the guy doesn't get the hint. I ain't interested. I've already had my hell thru relationships, and that is the last thing I need. But he still won't stop, and I've already told him 'no.' Don't wanna date, nothing. Why can't men understand?

2007-01-14 08:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by Bobbi 5

my boyfriend wanted to have sex the other night. and i didnt, i just felt gross. like my legs were hairy.. n whatnot. i just didnt want him to see me like that. we've been going out for over 15 months.

he says he felt really "cut" that i didtn want to have sex and that he feels really sad n upset about it.

is there any way i can make him feel better. without having sex.
he says he lost lots of his confidence n ****..

2007-01-14 08:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2

i always just am looking for a o ne night stand with a girl and nothing more. how do i tell her that?

2007-01-14 08:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-14 08:05:01 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie 2

That's what my chick friends and guy friends tell me over and over. I tried mojito (rum/lime juice/lemon/mint/sugar) last nite. After two drinks, that crap got me buzzin. But, I like beer better. Is it true tho about liquor converts boy into man?

2007-01-14 08:03:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been wondering, do girls like sport? which one?

2007-01-14 07:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful both on the inside and out.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. tommorow is school what should i say to her and do

2007-01-14 07:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by Josh j 1

2007-01-14 07:58:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i fell in love with my best friend of 5years... but he said we will always be friends and nothing more and he values my friendship a lot. and he was in love with his ex gf.
it took me a month to get over the pain. i told him i need some time off cuz its difficult for me to handle things now...
in the second week of timeoff now he texted me saying he is missing me, and has been thinking about me alot.
i dont know wat that means.....but the heartache is back.
should i reply? or should i just ignore it.

2007-01-14 07:57:34 · 2 answers · asked by vegas l 1

like his whole bedroom is totally white, even his sheets, kind of freaks me out a bit that there's no color. He says this is the way bedrooms are supposed to be. Does it mean he's dull?

2007-01-14 07:57:34 · 8 answers · asked by ash 2

I know some guys who wait a year before revealing their feelings. Do any of you do that?

2007-01-14 07:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by Oublier 2

ok so me and this guy are really in love with eachother. He told me hes in love iwth me but...he has a gf. He said that hes in love with both me and his gf. But i dont that. I told him today that if he really loves me he would let go of hs gf to be with me. He got really mad and was like I do love you I love you alot. He said he was going to kill himself.... :(. What do I do??? Does he reallly love me?!?!?!?! I need some answers!!!!!!!

2007-01-14 07:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by dancingurl_22 1

Btw,I am a mature woman--not a teen.

2007-01-14 07:55:19 · 21 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7

i know its stupid because im 19
and hes 20
its just i love him so much and i dont want him out of my life
weve been on and off for years but yeah
idk i kno its stupid and id never act on it
but how do i get this idea out of my head
cuz im scared one day i will act on it
idk i know its all emotions but its scaring me how much i want a baby sometimes

2007-01-14 07:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by yourguardianangel88 2

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Does he feel guilty for dumping me & wanted to feel better by taking me out or did he miss me & wanna be friends? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends?

2007-01-14 07:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1