My girlfriend broke up with me over the phone after being together 2 years. She said that I didn't care enough about her and that I didn't call her too ofter as well. During the break up she gave me a chance to ask her to stay. I decided not use this chance. So I just said Bye and hang up.
Now, I miss her and I feel very sad and bitter. I wish I could explain her a lot.
Its been a week already and she never called me back and I don't know whether that happens.
Do you, girls, ever call you ex bf after break up.?
I will never call her because it is her who broke up not me. Thanks.
2007-01-14 08:13:04 · 21 answers · asked by USCstudent 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You mr. ego man, are too proud!!!
You just proved to her that what she thinks is really true... that you didnt care enough about her. She even gave you a chance, why you just let it slipped away?
When it is her decision to broke up w/ you doesnt mean you dont have to run & go for her again. she never called because she's in pain... that you just easily accept the break-up thing. She's trying to figure out why you've been so cold for about a couple of days or week or month maybe (i dont know exactly when your gf feels that way)... that's why she told you what she feels. Why you never understand that girls is just very open to what she feels?... to think that you've been together for 2 yrs, you still dont know a lot about her? you still dont know what she means & what she needs?!!! i pity you, insensitive guy!
And now you're telling here that you miss her... dont just post a question here... do something, if you wish to explain everything to her... dont just wish, do it now! dont expect her to call, she's in terrible state to overcome the pain you just did to her!!!
it doesn matter who broke up first! but i think it is you who made the mistake... go to her now before you loose the chance!
2007-01-14 08:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by ayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay then honestly I think you should call her beacuse she is not going to call you back!! I mean all you did was say bye and humg up!! I would never even talk to you! If you miss her so much call her and tell her that! Also show her you stil love her by doing something nice to or for her. That is sure to win her over again. ALSO DO NOT BE RUDE!! that was alful that she gave u a chance in the first place BUT to NOT TAKE THAT CAHNCE and hang up.......i would never forgive you! no ofense.
2007-01-14 16:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by ilovebrooks3112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point is whether you think love is competition or not. If I were you, I wouldn't care who started the break-up first. In fact, if you do love her, you should believe you will try your best to win her heart back.
However, if you don't love her that much, or if she is not the one, let her go. You can always find a better one.
I did call my ex-boyfriends, for we are friends now, and we don't feel it awkward to talk to each other.
2007-01-14 16:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Grace G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u love her and that u cant' accept losing her, why not call her. theres no wrong with that even if she's the one who wants break up, coz' I believe that she only say it because she's just hurt for not feeling your love and attenstion. we girls are very emotional and need extra care and comfort we easily feel that we are not important easily. I think you should call her why not take a chance, theres nothing wrong if u call her and if you feel that you have no space in her heart then say bye. atleast you prove to her that you love her. its her lost not yours...c",)
2007-01-14 16:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Khakeru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i never called my ex. you need to talk to her and make her know that you still love her. that's the man's job. maybe she was wondering if you still loved her enough to come after her. but if she gave you a chance to stay then i understand how frustrated you must have been at the time. that is human nature.
2007-01-14 16:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by meagan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she was high-maintenance and a bit of a control freak. She's not going to call you back but if you really still have feelings for her then maybe you should just swallow her pride and call her. Just don't turn into her ***** if you get back together!
2007-01-14 16:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Murray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. never. you should have taken that chance. she gave you a chance to not let her go. if you really do care about her, then call her. tell her so. and if she doesn't feel the same, at least you know and then you can move on.
2007-01-14 16:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by rainyday<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my ex and after a while i called him to see how he and his family were I even e-mailed but he never responded.
All I can say is maybe it wasn't just you that was the problem and reason for her break up maybe that was how she could justify it to herself. It will take time but perhaps her part in your life is done and you need to move on.
2007-01-14 16:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tamara C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Originally, I refused to make contact with my ex because I wanted to give him his space.
But now, I'm nearly over it and I don't see the point in contacting him, we were never really friends, just love interests. He makes contact with me though.
What you're feeling is normal and instead of thinking about getting her back, you should try to get over it. Hoping for her to call isn't doing you any good. If you really wanted to be with her, you would have fought for her but you didn't. Just move on!
2007-01-14 16:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she hasn't called back, she might be waiting for you to call. It seems like she blames you for your relationship not working. She probably won't call you, especially since you just hung up. Honestly though, she sounds like she may have been using you. "Giving you a chance to ask her to stay" is something an arrogant b*itch would say. She might have just been looking for you to shower her with attention.
2007-01-14 16:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋