Singles & Dating - 4 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and two months, but lately we've run into a lot of problems. We've been fighting a lot and both of us are feeling scared of settling down with each other (especially me, this is my first serious relationship). We are both pretty young (he is 21 and i'm 19), and we're thinking that we should start seeing other people. By being inclusive we're hoping to get other "prospects" out of our system before we settle down and get married. The problem is, we're both Tauruses, and I'm especially scared as to what being inclusive is going to involve. What should I expect? Are there any "rules" or tips that I could keep in mind?

2007-01-04 10:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I just started dating this great new guy! He is perfect (so far)! I have had really bad luck with dating in the past and I don't want this to be one of those "bad luck" relationships. How long should I wait to get physical with him? How soon is too soon and how long is too late?

2007-01-04 10:48:19 · 21 answers · asked by McK's Mom 2

Well it first started when......?
My bf well my ex bf was talking to me while we we were going out out about the movies! He said i went with a couple of friends and then met this girl and instead i went to the movies with her!! We went to see a gay movie but he still went!! Then when i get really pi**ed off at him he says i am j/k u know i would never do that to u!! He always makes stories like that and then says he is kidding?
So,I finally broke up with him and now i am completly sad so i had my friend call him to ask why he did those things and his reply was i would never do those things if u really knew me i would never cheat? What should i do i mean i really do LOVE him but i am afraid what to do next!!! Plz help me !! I need to no if i should forget about him and move on ar ask if he will give me another chance?

2007-01-04 10:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Love stinks.♥ 2

I seem to have an interest in one type of guy and all the other ones just seem fuzzy on the sides of my vision. I am kinda cute and I don't have a LACK of guys...just rather the ones that I want. I have ruined several budding relationships because of stupid things like "he's not assertive enough" or "he's too serious", "not caring enough", "we don't have enough in common", "too short", "not attentive enough". I WANT a boyfriend as good as the first one I had but I also don't want to settle for someone just because they are there and want me. If only I could find that cute, skater guy, with piercings and tattoos that adores me and wants to spend time with me, loves to make jokes, artistic, in a band, and can get my sense of humor. I'm so picky!!!!

2007-01-04 10:48:18 · 4 answers · asked by Gwenith O 3

2007-01-04 10:45:57 · 34 answers · asked by Morgan 2

okay heres the thing. every time i talk with a guy they want me to give them a pic of myself naked. and i trie to tell them that i wont do that. only if they were my bf. some of the guys are nice but some just wanna **** me, or somethin. i need advice. help.

2007-01-04 10:45:56 · 18 answers · asked by ~♥Kay kay♥~ 1

The first bro i didnt see properly coz he was on a break from his gf as I was from my now ex.The furthest we went was kissin & after a few weeks he got back with his gf & broke things off with me. About 2 weeks ago I started gettin close to his other bro really quick. Within a few days we really liked each other, & went on a date. We kissed but no further but by the end I could tel he didnt like me as much. We spoke dat nite & he said that this girl at his uni who he has liked for 2 years started chattin to him. He said he needed a few days. We spoke a few days later and he said he liked me but wasnt ready for a relationship.
New years came around & left the party & almost had sex but it was more drunken fumbling around, undressing etc he wanted to do it properly in the loos but i said no. finally that nite I met his 3rd bro I had met him before and really liked him then but was wif my bf. I feel asleep laying in his arms, he said he liked me when he first met me. Wat should i do!

2007-01-04 10:45:07 · 1 answers · asked by Hope 1

I still miss him a lot. It was a shock to me that he dumped me. There were messy and difficult circumstances (a death in his family and him wanting to move back interstate). I know we won't get back together but I still wish that we can be friends in the future.

2007-01-04 10:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Diana K 1

1. A Man who is not wealthy but GOOD in bed
-OR-
2. A very wealthy man who is POOR in bed

My girls and I have talked about this, but could not come to a concensus! Can't pick both! so............. what do you say???

2007-01-04 10:44:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I used to date won't stop calling me to hook up with me ever once in awhile. And I used to do it only because I loved him so much that I would go do that with him because it was the only way I could be with him. He used me and treated me like ****. But still I love him, and I can't go on like this because I know I'm worth more than this. But how can I get over him??? I know that it will most likely just take time but its hard to ignore him when he calls when I love him so much I've tried explaining it to him but he refuses to see things my way and just says that I don't love him enough so in a sense I'm trying to prove it to him and then he won't talk to me for about 2 weeks and then the whole cycle starts all over again. What exactly should I tell him?

2007-01-04 10:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got involved with a military man and i really like him i think he is so great. he is leaving in a couple weeks. he'll be gone for 7 months. What do you think i should do?

2007-01-04 10:42:54 · 3 answers · asked by night_lilly66 2

i'm trying to look up an old friend phone # i have there las and first name and also there date of birth can some one help me?

2007-01-04 10:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by phille 1

my friends, tom & tam are a couple. we were invlolved in a 3some a couple weeks back after a night of drinking. last wknd i was with them again at a party, later tom was hitting on me after a night of drinking. he basically confessed his love & attraction to me. i thought it had something to do with the past "activities" between us & because he was drunk i just blew him off. but he wouldnt stop touching me and trying to be with me and of course i really didnt mind. it sorta felt like it was ok. i did tell him stop many times but we ended up making out and touching eachother. no sex! anyhow i fell asleep on the floor and tom was by my side...tammy walks in from her bedroom & wakes him up. i was asleep but i could hear what was going on. thank god i thought,but he came back & told me somethng in my ear. tam comes back & they have this argument. i left. i dont really think she saw anything but, they are breaking up. i feel terrible. i tried to call her but she wont call me back!

2007-01-04 10:41:59 · 20 answers · asked by nodramafor2007 2

My ex and I still talk (MSN only). I still love him. We have been on & off for 8 years now. As soon as he logs in to msn, and I'm there, he starts talking to me, but he never calls. We always flirt. He lives one hour away, we dont get the chance to run into each other very often. I wrote him a card, wishing him the best for the new year, nothing really personnal. I am not sure if I should send it? I am kind of tired of waiting for him to make a move.

2007-01-04 10:41:43 · 16 answers · asked by Has no clue 1

hi i am 13 years old. i want another piercing on my ear, and my belly button. getting a belly button ring isnt realistic....i kno that. but i want my cartilege and my mom thinks theres something bad about that because she wont let me get it. Im a good student and i dont see the problems. Can anyone tell me the problem with it or give me some advice on "convincing her"

2007-01-04 10:41:36 · 2 answers · asked by chickipoo! 1

just give me a yes or no...

2007-01-04 10:39:11 · 12 answers · asked by xidontwanttotalkaboutitx 2

we have a 2year relationship being together

2007-01-04 10:38:40 · 25 answers · asked by pepsi pimp 1

2007-01-04 10:37:49 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1

Ok well there's these guys that like come to my house and ask to hang out but they are kinda too old for me and I don't feel comfortable hanging out with them ecspecially by myself but I don't know how to tell them that!!!This is kinda gay....

2007-01-04 10:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by candygirl 1

2007-01-04 10:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Ex knows my girlfriend and she starts to call me gay and a *****.

2007-01-04 10:34:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

That really pisses them off. I enjoy seeing them pissed off when I humiliate them.

2007-01-04 10:34:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean if a girl that once said I was cool and asked me if I have a girlfriend came on the bus one day and her and her friend started giggling. I asked "What!", but they still wouldn't tell me. Then I said "I think i'm missing something!". She also rubbed her soulder against me a lot when she went by me. She also came and stood next to me for one second, then went somewhere else. What does it mean? I really like her a lot. Oh, and Im only 14, most of the kids are 13.

2007-01-04 10:33:48 · 7 answers · asked by me myslef 1

I met dis guy bout 2 years ago.. @ start I really disliked him whereas he lykd me.. mnths l8er, I realized tht I lyk him 2 nd v started going out. 3 mnths l8er I went out of town for a vacation. wen I got back from my holiday a frend of myn told me tht 2 tymed me with my best frend! I was compltly shattered.. I forgave him for tht.. nd bout 20 days l8er v broke up bcz my mom came to noe ( although he still sed tht he luved me.. nd so did I ). We met at a party after bout 1 month and gave each oder a cold shoulder… tht night he made out with another frend of mine… wich I later came 2 noe of from my frend itself. He sed he still loved me.. nd dat incident hpnd bcoz he was drunk.. nyway he asked me out bout another month later nd we went out for 8 mnths, v broke up in june 2006 bcoz he sed it wsnt wrkin out.. now, 7 mnths later m stil crazy bout hi nd he says hes over me, our common frends tell me tht he still luvs me nd jst doesnt wnt 2 be in a relation, i cnt live widout him.. pls help

2007-01-04 10:32:26 · 19 answers · asked by its_indi 1

Guys, I have heard a few guys say that not maater what this would be a dream come true.

2007-01-04 10:31:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

thanks for you answering

2007-01-04 10:30:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Girl I work with asked me out (bf/gf). I like her but don't really feel it there. How do i let her know without saying the old lets just be friends?

2007-01-04 10:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by Edgar 1

2007-01-04 10:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl is really cute and smart and giving but i dont now if she likes me the way i like her but we play around sometimes, should i tell her how i feel

2007-01-04 10:30:09 · 6 answers · asked by juan_lzld 1

Do guys really have feelings for girls or is it about the sex? I mean what is really up in their heads? Do they really get strong feelings for girls?

2007-01-04 10:29:26 · 22 answers · asked by jessie 3