okay heres the thing. every time i talk with a guy they want me to give them a pic of myself naked. and i trie to tell them that i wont do that. only if they were my bf. some of the guys are nice but some just wanna **** me, or somethin. i need advice. help.
2007-01-04 10:45:56 · 18 answers · asked by ~♥Kay kay♥~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That how guys work. They try there best to get you before anyone else does. Do not and i repeat do not let them see you or touch you until you are sure that is what you want and you think he is the right one.
Once guys get what they want and they are not really interested they move on to the next. Be careful......
2007-01-04 10:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by darfol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord. I think if a guy said that to me I'd knock him into the future. Know what I'm sayin? Sounds to me like these guys have the impression that you're easy or something. Don't put that image out there. Cause once it is out there. It's hard to go back. Reputation is important whether we like it or not. And even when you have a BF, why give him a picture of you naked? That's just sleazy.
2007-01-04 18:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its interesting that after speaking to you they want a naked picture.If this happens to you often I have to wonder what it is you are putting out there about yourself.I mean how are you comming across to them?Is your personality so flirty to the point it would suggest you were easy?
My advice is to start listening to yourself see what kind of signals you are putting out there and ask yourself if you're comming off flirty or cheap?If after listening to yourself after awhile and decide you're just flirty then go speak with a male friend who will be honest with you.Knowing yourself is important but if you can't be unbiased then having a guy friend who knows you without a vested interest is really good....
I hope this helps you:)
M.Gard
2007-01-04 18:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Malia G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those guys obviously aren't worth thinking about, so just ignore them.
However, it does seem weird that every single guy that you talk to acts this way. Are you dressing in a way that gives off the wrong vibe and message? If this isn't the case, then don't pay any attention to them. Other worthy guys will be out there.
2007-01-04 18:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow dont do it if thats all they want, they dont care about the person you really are, and you seem kool, and its good to see someone has morals around here. My advice is if your looking for someone to date the internet is a tricky place to look because there alot pervs out there. Im not saying dont talk to anybody, cuz its going be that one time when a guy wants to get to know you for reals just be careful.
2007-01-04 18:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by Young South 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u have answered the question your self...you have a problem with that .....you dont wanna send them pics so dont... its ur wish.... no one can force u....if they push u its only the net as u said just block them or delete from the messenger......best f luck...
2007-01-08 10:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by smart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think I had a flashing sign on my head that said "**** me" that only guys could see. Not much you can do about it I found, maybe ask them if they have a really small penis if nothing else it might embarrass them as much as you, lol.
2007-01-04 18:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are internet pervs who can't get real women. They just want your picture so they can do dirty things while staring at it because that's all they can get. Don't do it! Besides you never know... it might end up all over the internet.
2007-01-04 18:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk with with different types of guys, ones that are more respectible.
and everyone knows that guys want to **** everything that has a heartbeat
2007-01-04 18:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by lost_runner_runing 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need new friends... they sound like computer porn weirdos.
Weren't you told that if people make you feel uncomforable to stay away from them?
2007-01-04 18:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋