Ok well there's these guys that like come to my house and ask to hang out but they are kinda too old for me and I don't feel comfortable hanging out with them ecspecially by myself but I don't know how to tell them that!!!This is kinda gay....
2007-01-04 10:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by candygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not gay. This could be seriously bad if you don't tell them you don't wanna hang out with them. You don't wanna end up in a situation you'll regret. You don't have to tell them you don't wanna be alone with them just tell them no when they ask to hang out. If they ask why tell them you don't need to explain yourself to them, no means no. It's that simple, remember that.
2007-01-04 10:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by miss_lady404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to learn to say what you're feeling and fudge anyone else who might think it's "kinda gay". If you feel uncomfortable with these guys, you need to say something. And if they don't like it, well what can they do... stop coming over? I would never keep putting myself in a position where I can't be comfortable in my own home. Just let them know you're to busy and can't have company, if you can't think of anything else. Say it when your parents/guardians are home. If that helps any.
2007-01-04 18:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Situations like that make many people unnerved, don't do anything you are not comfortable. Find some guys your age to hang around with and I am sure the others will take a hint
2007-01-04 18:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself and society at large a BIG favor: Tell your folks whats going on and then talk to the police. These creeps sound like they have the beginning signs of child molesters and rapists.
2007-01-04 18:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scary! I suggest you just continue making excuses not to hang with them and eventually they will get the picture. Another idea is to pretend you aren't there when they come over.
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2007-01-04 18:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by PHOEBE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this will work but try telling them how you feel and give them reasons in a nice way except the mean parts.That always helped me.
2007-01-04 18:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Instealer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good thing that you realize that. I mean I know what one guy can do when you're alone with them but two? It doesn't sound so good. Or safe. I mean you don't really know them. Why answer the door when your folks aren't home?
2007-01-04 18:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand firmly, square your shoulders, thank them for coming and tell them you have some things do as you send them out the door. Don't let them push themselves on you.
2007-01-04 18:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by hatchland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them in. Just don't answer the door. Why are they hanging out w/you?? especially if they are too old for you....
2007-01-04 18:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them your father the cop doesn't want you to be with guys that are older then you then they will leave you alone and that way you can be safe HUGS
2007-01-04 18:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋