Do guys really have feelings for girls or is it about the sex? I mean what is really up in their heads? Do they really get strong feelings for girls?
2007-01-04 10:29:26 · 22 answers · asked by jessie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is an age old thing of common knowledge.
Guys -- they say I love you to get sex
Girls -- give sex to get the I love you
So there you have it.
2007-01-04 10:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys can and do have feelings for the gals they are with. Unfortunately, sometimes guys only hang with a gal to get the sex because of their mental and physical age group. Guys sometimes get confused really bad because they have this genetic coding that tells them to go out and make babies while at the same time, they want to know and learn about having a relationship with someone other than their friends. And yes, guys can and DO get just as strong feelings for a gal as gals do for a particular guy.
2007-01-04 10:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to tell if they really love you or if they're just full of lust is to ask them why they love you.
"I love your
"I love the way you talk about your family--and I love your cooking"--stuff like that is what you want to be hearing.
"I can't stand to be without you--I would go crazy if you ever leave"--that sort of thing might just be an obsession.
IOW there has to be reasons other than sex and just being with each other. There might come a time when no sex is availiable or you might become separated for a long time--if truly in love you can do without sex and you'll always love someone even when apart for years and years.
2007-01-04 10:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm being truthful - don't believe anyone unless they repeat what I say.
Men don't understand emotions and they can't deal with them.
So no, guys don't have feelings for girls. They THINK they do but they really don't.
And yes, it is all about sex. If there were no sex, we probably wouldn't hang out with women very much.
Sorry - but it's the truth.
FP
2007-01-04 10:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about sex. Guys don't have any feeling for girls. Guys just think about sex all the time.
2007-01-04 10:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do have strong feelings towards a girl. they just got a different way of showing it. girls are similar in that sense as they are not too upfront about the whole "sex thing" but still talk about it.
2007-01-04 10:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea we do when i broke up with my girlfriend I had for 2 years i would of done anything just to see her again. I loved her with all my heart. Now what i look for in a relationship is really how good i can connect with them and friendship and love. Sex is just a bonus to all of what really matter and personaly i think it is best when saved for marriage or else it can get messy
2007-01-04 10:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-01-04 10:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men care for women as much as women care for men. No matter the "caliber" of the person men and women both crave sex. Don't be so critical, if one doesn't want to date then don't date one.
2007-01-04 10:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy, so make sure your get to know them before you get intimate. You'll never know what they think until you ask them, and even them sometimes you just have to follow you initiution
2007-01-04 10:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by StressedSweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋