we have a 2year relationship being together
2007-01-04 10:38:40 · 25 answers · asked by pepsi pimp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell Her the truth
2007-01-04 11:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are totally sure you want "out".... do it now but with respect and honesty. Most people don't understand that when one person wants to end it and another doesn't....there will be hurt. There is no perfect time or occasion to say it's over. Prolonging it makes it worst for the other individual and all kinds of other things tend to happen...such as starting a relationship with someone else because you can't find the right words or time to tell the other person it's over. Just make sure that YOU are sure.
2007-01-04 10:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it cleanly. You wear your mistakes. You are honest. And, most importantly, you don't go back and forth. You don't get weak and end up sleeping with her later. You don't let it drag out or fall prey to over-processing. While you are loving through the transition, you never behave in such a way that would confuse her and make her think you might get back together with her. If you stay friends, you stay really clear about breaking off physical attachment. You take space and you give her space to heal and rebalance as individuals. This will allow her to move on as well as you.
2007-01-04 10:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt anyways but you can make it easier.
1st PLEEEEEEASE do not do it in a disrespectful way. Tell her you want to talk to her. Be honest DO GIVE the real reason for the breakup. Better, if possible, to offer remaining in contact with her if she wants to
Secondly. Let her be the first and the last to know that you want to break up. Tell others WE broke up. If they have no manners and insist to know who chose to end it say, "doesn't really matter"
Be ready for her tears, and please do it face to face (unless it's a long distance thing, then use the phone)
And finally, think about it twice before you do it. You say how do I do it without hurting her feelings, that means she loves you, that, means, she's worth a second chance :)
Good luck.
2007-01-04 10:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have been dating that long then you are going to break her heart no matter how you do it. make sure that you dont do it on the fone, like do it in person when yall are alone. and do it very nicely telling her that what yall had was amazing while it lasted and that you did once love her but you have moved on. tell her you are sorry and you will help her in any way that she needs you but you just dont think that being in a romantic relationship with her is what you need. tell her that you want her to be happy and to find a guy that will do better than you and make her feel happy and amazing. wish her a happy life and tell her goodbye. kiss her on the forehead and wipe away the tears from her eyes and tell her your sorry but this is the way its going to have to be.
2007-01-04 10:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by SheLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. The best you can do is don't play games with her. Be honest about why you want to part ways. She will probably be hurt, but putting it off or not being honest with her will make it worse.
2007-01-04 10:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is to say i just dont feel the same about you and i think its time to take a brake its probably the easiest way to tell her! you cant brake up with her and expect not to hurt he fellings espesally after two years!
2007-01-04 10:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by hockeylova#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. NEVER do it on the phone or email. that'll make it seem more harsh. take her somewhere private. THEN tell her how u really feel about her. even though she will still feel hurt, she will be less hurt,
2007-01-04 10:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't brake-up with someone and not hurt them. Especially, if they still like you. Brake-up with her, or it'll hurt more if she finds out you're still with her because of pity.
2007-01-04 10:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Aryn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k well it will be hard but tell her y u r doin it and just do it face to face. tell her that u wanna be friends but just dont go around and go out with sumone else right away. that will make them realll jealous and they wont like u no more
2007-01-04 10:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to do it without hurting, but good luck anyway.
2007-01-04 10:40:28 · answer #11 · answered by Victoria Love-Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋