Singles & Dating - 4 January 2007

Would you play on your guy if you just met him,loved him,or just for fun.I am trying to find out if girls can be faitful or they just put up fronts like my homeboys do.Is there a specific line they use or what.Or am i just to insecure help me please

2007-01-04 11:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by javi 1

i think its all over between my bf and i. its been hard the last twelve months, no sex,secrets and not been honest with me. i have been on this site seeking advice the last month or two.some has been helpfull and some not ,i think my head is sorted now but my heart is a different matter,that will take time to heal. im 42 but still feel about 32 and im scared what the future will hold for me. i really tried to make it work ,putting his needs before my own sometimes and never getting anything back. Im tired and unhappy and in a way im glad its over. he can have his own time now to do what he wants(which he did anyway) have his friends to himself. no more of his secrets or hiding things from me.love him very much but ifeel asthough its time to call it a day. im dead calm though and not at all tearfull is this normal or will i fall to pieces when i have a drink. want to show him i can make it through without any arguements or outbursts which i tend to do,cant trust myself sometimes.

2007-01-04 11:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not trying to start no bs cus i find all races of women attactive for diffrent reasons. Im just wondering if white guys see the same things as brothas do when they look at a sista girl,

2007-01-04 11:23:06 · 11 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2

there's a guy in my school. hes cute. and im not sure if he's into me or not. how can i tell, besides just asking him.

2007-01-04 11:20:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy a lot, but the problem is that I think he likes my friend, He always pokes me and stuff, and he plays with my scarf and my hood, but he's always looking at my friend. What do i do?

2007-01-04 11:20:09 · 3 answers · asked by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3

2007-01-04 11:19:44 · 2 answers · asked by seeker 2

I posted this in the finacial section by accident, but...

I'm not sure if anyone has a real answer to this, but i just can't seem to find a "good looking" girl that isn't a ****! Are there any girls out there that are beautiful woman but haven't been with a trillion dudes?? I think i might just hang up the whole dating thing and become a friggan priest -

sincerly pissed off nice guy...

2007-01-04 11:19:01 · 19 answers · asked by Moto 2

im a senior in high school theres this girl that jocks me almost everytime i see her. but in class she dosent really look at me what do you people think is up with her.

2007-01-04 11:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by DAMER 2

I have been dating a guy for a 1 yr and 1/2 and our relationship is great except for a few things. The biggest issue is with his friends. He, for some reason, thinks that I don't like spending anytime with him and his friends. He thinks I'm anti-social, and then when I do spend time with his friends he will complain that I was too quite or that I should have mingled more. The truth is, I have no problems with making friends, I'm very social and I am usually the life of the party..but for some reason when I am with him and his friends I feel sooo uncomfortable (probably because he is expecting so much from me). I can't really be myself and it makes me look like I am the person he THINKS I am! He's always saying how he is always hanging out with me and my friends and he feels it's unfair. but I don't care if he is with me at all times-unlike him.He wants his friends to be who I hang out with. What can I do? he's 30, and I'm 25 and I'm sick of this childness already! what can i say 2 him

2007-01-04 11:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by BUTTERCUP 2

How do you get her away from her friends without being incredibly obvious, and what should you say? How do you act? Do you find her and just tell her that you want to go see a movie, or do you talk to her for a bit? And what should you say if she rejects? Or accepts?
Note: This is assuming that you already have a positive friendship with her.

2007-01-04 11:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by Djchick3n 1

okay, he has broke up with me TWICE, well the first time we were having a month, when he broke up with me, telling me that he had problems and that he couldn't deal with the relationship anymore, then the next day we went back together. BUT now he broke up with me again now telling me that is for this other girl! but i don't really think its true, because he actually thought about it!

now its being a day, but i love him SO much that i went back with him the 1st time, BUT now the 2nd?? i dunno what to do. but i know that if i get back with him i'll be happy again!! HELP ME PLEASE should i wait till he asks me again or what do i do to bring him back? OR should i just simply try to 4get him

2007-01-04 11:16:05 · 14 answers · asked by magata69 1

I am in 7th grade and am currently dating a 6th grade boy. His last girlfriend broke up with him because she thought he was cheating on her with me, which he wasn't. Now I'm dating him and she wants him back. She sends her friends to tell him to break up with me, and sends him messages and comments on myspace telling him that I'm a fat, ugly wh*re. I've tryed telling her nicely to back off, but she won't listen to me. She's even tryed to tell me that he sent something to her about loving her. I have resorted to having to make my own friends threaten her about this, but she keeps coming back. What can I do to stop this, but not ruin the relationship?? I need serious help.

And I don't want anyone to answer saying that I'm too young to date.

2007-01-04 11:14:37 · 41 answers · asked by KayKay 2

Is he interested, or am I reading is wrong?
We have known eachother through friends since the ninth grade (seniors this year). In ninth grade I was like: "Oh he seems like a really nice guy" but he wasn't my type. He is a really nice guy and I was always attracted to bad boys (Although I myself am a good girl). He flirted a little bit then, but I didn't notice. Well the end of tenth grade I started to REALLY like him a lot, I was so nervous I could hardly talk to him, yet again he would always stare at me, and always pay close attention to every word I said. We shared/share a lot of same interest such as: movies, music, friends, life styles, etc. We always end up talking about the craziest things and we are often the only ones left laughing in the room. Lately we have hung out a couple of times, and each time there are several things such as: staring, laughing at things I say, when we talk he looks into my eyes for minutes on end, etc, etc. I always leave thinking he must like me, but I am not sure. I really wish I knew for sure

2007-01-04 11:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by littlegid' 1

4 years together and she won't tell a male friend of hers to quit calling in the middle of the night. I told her its him or me and she said wont choose. I should go right?

2007-01-04 11:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by kywolverine44 1

I'm not the player type of anything, shoot, i'm not even that good looking. I really like the girl that is from far away from me, but we can't get married or anything for another 2 years (because of school), and I started hanging out with this chick here in my area that i recently met and now she's my girlfriend. None of the girls knows about the other girl, and I feel really wrong. The girl here I was just kinda just dating for fun, but now she got a little serious and I'm not the type to break her heart or anything, is there any way i could kinda break up with her without hurting her bad. What i have been doing is trying to avoid contact with her a lot, and making myself seem more busy that i really am, and only seeing her when its convinient for me, thinking that this might get to her and she will get mad and want to break it off with me, but its not really working. I know i'm not going to marry this girl here, but should i just keep her around?? fyi, both girls are super hot!

2007-01-04 11:12:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

does it have a commitment to each other?

2007-01-04 11:12:08 · 2 answers · asked by thirteen 1

to make my bf see how much i love him..any tips

2007-01-04 11:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the top 3 things you look 4 in a girl???

2007-01-04 11:11:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I am not lusting for him...do I love him?? I normally have no problem just saying something to a guy and looking at him...but with HIM! It is so difficult to just get myself to rreally really look at him. Ugh..First of all I am a shy (the normal lameass story..the only people asking q's like this are!). I sit very close to him in art..but easy enough to talk to him. I usually just say something little every day just to make sure that I talked to him. We have dumb chats, but he might be shy or maybe he just doesnt like me? he always responds but he never looks me in the eye ( I do when i talk to him). The time goes by so quickly in that class though, but its never awkward...He is not that hot according to my friend but oh boy i think he is amazing!.. I was planning on leaving a note for him that says something like "I have noticed lately what a cool and attractive guy you are. I know this is random, but would you want to hang out sometime?..etc..." Is this a stupid Idea? I really want to talk to him but not in front of everyone. What if hes really not shy and just doesnt talk to me becuase he doesnt like me? Whats a plan to get us to hang out without a big chance of rejection? the semester ends in 2 weeks and i will never see him again!

2007-01-04 11:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by kat 3

ok. there is this girl who is like really rich and popular and pretty. i'm not like a geek and but i'm not the top popular. i mean that i'm popular but not cheerleader type popular. and me and her aren't tight but we still hang out. and she invited me to her party. its supposed to be like a dance party and its gonna be co-ed.and it has a dj and everything. and i kind of want to go and i kind of don't. i know i'll have some people to hang out with at the party but then i don't dance or i can't dance. Also i think that there are gonna be kissing game like spin the bottle and i have kissed anyone before and i dont' know how to kiss. Also i'm sort of scared to go becuase there are gonna be some really mean girls there and i don't like them that much. but i know like all of the guys there because they are my friends. So should i go or not?

2007-01-04 11:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2

in a crowded elevator then turns and smiles as she gets out..is that flirting or harrassment?

2007-01-04 11:10:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-04 11:10:43 · 12 answers · asked by Gary J 1

there is this girl that i like and i wanna ask her out, the problem is that she is my friend and i dont know if she is gonna say yes back and im nervous of asking her out!!!


what should i doo???

2007-01-04 11:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Sheeeep! 3

Like in a game situation. If he ignores you one day and then the next he wants your attention. Then the girl should just wait to see if he makes the move.

2007-01-04 11:08:54 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 3

my bmi is normal, but its on the high end and im a little heavier, but not overweight. is that a problem for guys? i havn't had a real lasting relationship yet.

2007-01-04 11:08:36 · 24 answers · asked by ♥♫☺bee yourself☺♫♥ 3

There are these two boys who like me, and I don't know which one to choose cause I like them both. How do I choose which one to go out with?

2007-01-04 11:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by Melvin W 2

She's more of a preppy dresser that likes abercrombie, and I'm not sure what I should wear, what kind of cologne i should use, etc...

2007-01-04 11:07:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't have a lot of guy friends or even talk to a lot of guys, I'm not sure why I'm not shy around guys.. it's just that when I meet a guy we might hang out once or talk a little bit and then we just don't ever really talk again. It's so weird guys come in and out of my life so fast, they never seem to want to stay.. I don't get it...
Do I something that makes guys not want to be friends with me? And if I hard time just making friends with guys imagine how it is finding a boyfriend...

2007-01-04 11:06:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-04 11:06:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy who's from another country. I'll be in his homeland soon. I like him but I don't know if he likes me. We don't talk much. I told him I was coming to his country. And he didn't offer to show me to round but did ask me what line of work I'm after, how long will I be there and said I'll love the life style here? He flirts and says if I see you than something might just happen... How can I figure out if he likes me or not?

2007-01-04 11:06:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous