2007-01-04 11:10:43 · 12 answers · asked by Gary J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her about it..then give her space. n
2007-01-04 11:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do would be to ask her straight up to tell you what is going on.
Tell her that you deserve better than the treatment that she is giving you and that you owe it to yourfriendship to try to find out if there is a problem.
Tell her that you value her as a friend and dont want any problems between the two of you taht you are the cause of.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-04 19:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have done something to hurt her feelings(without knowing) and she is trying to tell you to just let her be. If this isnt it it could be she has a crush on you and you make her nervous or she just doesnt want to be friends anymore. Whatever it is you should confront her face to face. This can be a hard thing to do but it may be the only way to ever know and get things straigtened out.
2007-01-04 19:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i need more details... like... how she acts around you. how you know that she doesn't want you around and all....
i think you should just talk to her... it might sound kind of.....weird or... i don't kno, but it really might work... there is no way but to figure out why she's acting so weird around you.
or... maybe you can show her that she really means a lot to you by some kind of.... present or... do surprise party or something like that.
another way is to just watch her and just study her. what i mean is that you can talk to her about many things and if you feel like she's not happy with something that you are talking about, then you can just not talk about that subject anymore and stuf... well.. if you don't understand, here's an example::::
i start to talk about my crush and my friend start to act or ..... look uncomfortable, then .... that means she doesn't like talking about my crush or maybe she doens't like him(i'm a she....)......
anyways, i think u need to just talk to her.... or show her that she really means something to you??( but you have to show her that you mean by AS FRIENDS she might misunderstand that you like her... haha )
2007-01-04 19:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by eun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't enough information to indicate how she's acting. If she's your best friend, you should be able to ask her what the problem is. If she doesn't give an answer that clarifies it for you, I'd cool the friendship.
2007-01-04 19:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she wants you to do - if you have made her mad, hurt her feelings, etc. If she continues to act that way, don't go around her.
2007-01-04 19:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going around her for a while.
2007-01-04 19:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by little lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
If you're getting that feeling, it's got a good chance to be accurate.
If you don't feel you can talk about it with her, leave.
If she did want you around, she'll call.
2007-01-04 19:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Talk to her. See what the deal is. Then resolve the issue. Just be an adult about it.
2007-01-04 19:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore her because if you do that, she will want you as a friend again. But you have to pretend like you aren't her friend anymore, also or it will not work!! E-mail me and let me know how it goes with you and your friend!!!
Love / Lillie C
e-mail me at: zebra_cool_lillie@yahoo.com
2007-01-04 19:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either she's developed feelings for you or you annoy her.
Why don't you ask her why she's acting different?
2007-01-04 19:12:33 · answer #11 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋