Okay, so I just started dating this great new guy! He is perfect (so far)! I have had really bad luck with dating in the past and I don't want this to be one of those "bad luck" relationships. How long should I wait to get physical with him? How soon is too soon and how long is too late?
2007-01-04 10:48:19 · 21 answers · asked by McK's Mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wait a little while. You will know when the time is right. Why are you rushing into it? Take your time getting to know each other and just relax and have fun
2007-01-04 10:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a long as you can before you start the physical stuff .Get to know him for him and know first where he see you two going. When you feel the time is right to do the deed you will be ready. Until then just have fun building a friendship first that is the foundation of a good relationship. Good Luck and congrats of finding a great guy.
2007-01-04 10:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my experience, you really can't be "too soon" or "too late." If you have good communication between you and this guy, which ever you decide between the two of you will be great. Just remember that BOTH of you have to agree on your decision. If you don't communicate, being physical with someone involves a big emotional attachment, and if you "give it away" too soon due to pressure it could seriously damage your emotional well-being as well as your future with this guy. Just talk to your man and keep everything really open and honest. Good luck!
2007-01-04 10:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words- Free milk!! (Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?)
I know it sounds old fashioned, but it's true. I know a woman who slept with her husband before they got married... they got divorced b/c he wanted to play around... Anyway, she keeps giving it away, and then wonders why she can't find a guy that wants her for more than just sex... DUH!!!!!
If you ever want anything besides sex from a guy (like marriage?), don't do anything with him that may make him loose respect for you... and the FASTEST way to cheapen yourself in his eyes is to have sex with him without some kind of commitment.
My own husband once said something about going to bed with a "10" and waking up with a "2"... I think it had something to do with alcohol, so don't let alcohol make the decisions for you, EVER!!!
Kissing, holding hands, etc... I'd say that's all fine and good, but going "all the way" is a bad idea till you've got paperwork proving commitment.
2007-01-04 11:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least two weeks, drive him nuts the longer you wait the better. If he really likes you and respects you he will wait to. You can learn allot about a guy by doing this to him. The key here is you want him to respect you. If you f-him on the first date or to soon after he won't respect you as much. Trust me on this one.
2007-01-04 10:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only get physical when you are ready to--you'll know!
Typically on a third date--but not always. Sometimes the sparks just are not there until much much later--or the sparks fly about an hour into your very first time out together.
There's no rules here--go out and have fun!
2007-01-04 10:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for cues from your guy. However, too soon is less than four weeks for me. Every girl has her comfort time. Mine just happens to be a month. That's how long it takes for me to become serious and not just "dating".
2007-01-04 10:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks before the first kiss, if he is stil there after 3 weeks you know he is not just after one thing. Good luck, and show this guy you have respect for yourself, and that you are not the same as all the rest,,,trust me, guys respect that more than anything else....the right guys anyway
2007-01-04 10:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 10:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait a month or two to see how u guys are u doing after that the relationship goes out good
2007-01-04 10:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by brett w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋