Well it first started when......?
My bf well my ex bf was talking to me while we we were going out out about the movies! He said i went with a couple of friends and then met this girl and instead i went to the movies with her!! We went to see a gay movie but he still went!! Then when i get really pi**ed off at him he says i am j/k u know i would never do that to u!! He always makes stories like that and then says he is kidding?
So,I finally broke up with him and now i am completly sad so i had my friend call him to ask why he did those things and his reply was i would never do those things if u really knew me i would never cheat? What should i do i mean i really do LOVE him but i am afraid what to do next!!! Plz help me !! I need to no if i should forget about him and move on ar ask if he will give me another chance?
2007-01-04 10:48:19 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Love stinks.♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just move on, this guy is very immature and inconsiderate, there are better guys out there who arent into game playing and actually want a serious relationship.....
2007-01-04 12:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think that you need to wait for him to come back to you. If he is really for you and he really loves you then he will. And if he doesnt...then he isnt good enough for you and you dont need to chace after him. I know this will be hard but what you need to do is wait for him to make a move. If he doesnt w/ in a week then call him and ask him how he is and see where it goes...dont get into details and dont say you love him. Just talk about it in generalness. If this doesnt turn out the way you want it to dont call him back anymore and just end it all.
2007-01-04 18:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by SheLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're interested in being with a more serious person, and he's not interested in being serious, even occasionally....
How old are you two? It may be that he's just less mature than you....
Either case, I think you should stay broken up, don't go back. He's always accusing you of stuff then saying "just kidding"... but maybe he's not just kidding, maybe he's adding the j/k to appease you, and it's not working...
Ditch him. If he can't be serious, even occasionally, he's not ready for a relationship.
2007-01-04 18:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sad as you are now, you did the right thing. You can't trust him, as to what he says, one thing, then takes it back, by saying "I'm just joking".
How are you supposed to know what he means. You will always be unsure of him and that's no way to have a good solid relationship. You need to trust the one you are with, and in what he says to you. With him, it will never happen.
You will get over him and find some guy, who will be truthful with you.
2007-01-04 18:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always talk to him (or any other guy in the future) about something that bothers you. Let him know it's ok to be himself and joke around. But let him know that some of his jokes were taken to far and hurt your feelings.
Life is short. Sometimes, if you dwell on whether to back or not to long, you'll miss a chance...
2007-01-04 18:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. If you did get another chance, would you trust him any more? The trust isn't there in the relationship you need to find someone you can trust.
2007-01-04 18:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, his testing your reactions with his 'just kidding' stories. Someday, it will be no joking matter for you. You broke up with him once, don't look back, move forward!
Good Luck & Best Wishes:)
2007-01-04 18:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Pure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk and you were smart to get away from him.
2007-01-04 18:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by swanser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please do move on, there are betters ones out there
2007-01-04 18:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by answer! this 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋