Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

What is the widest spread you think is acceptable age that an older woman (mid 50's) can date a man? 45? 35? 25?

2006-12-28 19:57:31 · 2 answers · asked by sugarsweetsweetiepie 2

i met this man about a year now and he always tell me how much he loves me and i feel it but there is a problem i used to refuse to have sex with him but one day he forced me saying u are my girlfriend and we have to have sex and that's the day i lost my virginity.knowing that i was a virgin i thought i was going to be his only girlfriend but no there are other girlfriends besides me but i really love this man and i always call him to come and see me and he will do it when he comes he will tell me he loves me so much and we have to make love and have sex so my problem is i always refuse since the day he break my virginity i had never had sex with him coz i am scared that maybe he just want to use me so what can i do coz i love him a lot and he's always telling me that if i agree to always have sex with him everything is gonna be fine and i will be the only girlfriend of his cos he knows i am a good girl;

2006-12-28 19:57:19 · 21 answers · asked by richardsmercy 1

:) creative ideas would be most appreciated. thanks.

2006-12-28 19:55:53 · 10 answers · asked by justwannaknow 2

Im still in middle school and it just comes as a mystery on what to do next. I like her alot and i just want her to be happy but i have NO CLUE what to do.

2006-12-28 19:53:22 · 15 answers · asked by thinkgacolagy 1

Like dating tips
ideas to make moments memorable

2006-12-28 19:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by ACEDEME 1

has 2 sons with his ex wife. She bought me a gift certificate for christmas to get a pedi and mani done, we have only met a few times she got very upset when i rode with my b/f to drop his sons off to her one time so this action shocked me I feel like she has other motives than just being nice, what do you think?

2006-12-28 19:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by sephra 2

I really liked this guy at work but never thought he would be intrested and then he started txtin me outta da blue n we became kinda m8s He came 2 my birthday partay wid othas frm wrk n i fout this cud b my chance but then he ends up gettin wid a m8 of mine!! So frm then onwards i went off him cus of that n otha fings tho i did meet up wid him a couple of days afta da party but we just chatted we were gunna meet up agen outta wrk but neva did he always asked me n seemed keen which didnt make sense frm da party the otha day he told me he fancied me but i sed no wen he asked me y i sed no a few days lata all i cud fink of was wat ppl at wrk wud think and just it runin our friendship and nt workin out plus gettin wid my m8 didnt help nw tho im nt sure wat to do, he also gt me an xmas present thohes confused me a lot ova his feelings any wid any advice let me nw sumtimes i think of him a lot but then i just think thats cus were gd m8s n theres no1 else in patic on da scene atm??

2006-12-28 19:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets say hes good looking except for his teeth are crooked

2006-12-28 19:47:53 · 17 answers · asked by freddy d 1

Ok so i have been in love with one of my best friends since i was 13 and i have liked him since i was 10, and being so young i was too shy to ever say anything to him so he never even knew i liked him but i knew he liked me...now i am 17 and i havent been able to see him for like a yr now cause he dropped outta school to work and plus he is with a girl he got pregnant....but i still am completely in love with him,he is my first love ..but there is this other guy who loves me and i love him too but i havent been able to get over the first guy and its been driving me crazy for so long and now i might be able to have a chance to tell him but i dont want to be selfish cause he is with someone else and plus there is an amazing guy who i know loves me...but i've regretted never telling him since i can remember and i have always said if i ever get the chance to tell him i would but i know its selfish, but i absolutely love him more than anything,i mean he is the one id give up my life for

2006-12-28 19:43:38 · 14 answers · asked by curious 1

what is the deciding factor if any?

2006-12-28 19:41:58 · 28 answers · asked by coloradoavs13 1

I tried this phone dating thing. A couple of the women told me that I sound nervous. Being nervous kind of scares them away. This is one of the reasons I don't have a girlfriend right now.

Is there a way I can calm myself down?
Is there something I could drink, that's not alcohol?

2006-12-28 19:40:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm about 5'6.....155 Pounds. That's why I asked..Help me out ladies

2006-12-28 19:39:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it ok to give a girl who is a simi-freind a freindly pat on the back for something example: she does a good job on her 1/2 of project that we work on for school, gj in sports, ect. or in girl language does that mean something besides good job

I am a noob with girls

2006-12-28 19:38:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 19:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 19:37:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 19:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by loree32 1

you used to be head over heels over a girl for the entire year, but the matter just hung mid-air such that it left confusion, and you're not even sure if you're still hanging on. then follows a two-month break vacation (which is, you don't get to see her).

imagine the next time you see her when school reopens, she is still as beautiful. will all that feelings come back and you still like her like before? or would she have become history by then?

2006-12-28 19:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 19:35:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy now but he knows I have a BF.Before I gave him a lot of confusion and drama..but he still told be he could not be angry at me. I told him I like him more than my BF now and I sent him some nice text messages like a friend and the other day he waited for me to come online for about an hour..but I am not sure if he wants to be more or not it seems that he does wait for the messages but I told him I he couldn't talk to me for about 1 month I needed to think (I didn't give him a reason) but sometimes I feel he cares alot and other times I think he doesn't but I do really like him alot..he is a nice guy and I told him we are just good friends because I don't want to sound too pushy anymore...

2006-12-28 19:35:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

All the girls at my school seem to be too immature to actually have a real relationship with me. For example, I bought my last girlfriend $120 in stuff (im still in middle school) then she dances with another guy and starts acting funny...then she moved and she got so freaked and messed up i had no idea what was going on with her. So, if your a girl, do you have any tips about anything even remotly related to my subject? Thanks alot.

2006-12-28 19:35:32 · 6 answers · asked by thinkgacolagy 1

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for like 3 months now but her dad hates me. i wanna settle things with him but he won't even talk to me. how do i get him to like me or even talk to me?

2006-12-28 19:35:24 · 7 answers · asked by internet_idiot2000 1

Of course everything, but if we are narrowing it to three: Eyes, Mouth, Butt

2006-12-28 19:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by whitney 1

well i've been really nice to this girl i really like but apparently shes still not interested. i've told her i like her and i asked her out but shes never answered me that question, so, i really dont kno what do it. she kinda made it obvious she doesnt like me. i walk down the hall and see all the jerks get the girls. and nice guys like me rarely gets any, but i always hear stuff like how girls like nice guys, i dont think so.

2006-12-28 19:30:54 · 26 answers · asked by Tyler 2

Im 21 years old. I know im young. Im from this 4 year relationship and my boyfriend broke up with me. It's been two years since the breakup. And I've never felt confident enough to date again. I avoid guys and sometimes when I do open the door, the wrong one comes in and after a while of courtship would stop. Im starting to feel really bad about myself and I feel so undesirable. Im very much petite and not much of a pretty face and I just dont feel confident to handle relationships. I felt like I did every thing to work out my first relationship but if it didnt work out what would make the next one's work? if there will be a next one? i grew up without a father and i know that it's a biggy but ive tried to change. maybe i was really a headache and a heartache to my ex boyfriend who dumped and maybe id still be on the next one. im not desperate, i just feel that it will never really work for me with relationships and guys dont consider me as a first pick probably last or not even listd.

2006-12-28 19:28:54 · 10 answers · asked by terra 4

I am caucasian - is that such a big deal?

2006-12-28 19:28:36 · 4 answers · asked by whitney 1

I(21) don't know if I should have sex with my boyfriend(22) of 2 years, I am a virgin and I was trying to wait until I got married, but I love him soooooooo much and I just don't think I can wait. I haven't seen him in about 2 weeks because I am back in the US for the holidays and he is in Germany with his family(where we both live/go to college), and being away from him for just 2 weeks feels like forever. So, I was thinking about surprising him when I got back to Germany ;)


QUESTIONS:
1.Should I have sex with him ?
2.If you had sex before marriage, do you regret it ?
3.If you had sex before marriage did it make your relationship stronger ?


Other Details
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-We have been friends for 4 years
-We have been together for 2 years
-I am a virgin and he is not
-We have never had sex, we usually just make-out (alot)
-He has never pressured me about sex


Thanks for all your help and sorry it is so long :)

2006-12-28 19:28:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Color of love?
I am non-white and I go to an all white school (infact, I live in an all-white city)...I get along well with everyone in the community. There is a school dance next month and a couple of girls have asked me out, but I know its all good with my white buddies that i am amazing at soccer but I don't know how they would react if I dated one of their sisters...I have never been in a relationship before. Shold I accept one of the invitations or politely decline as I have always done throughout high school just so I don't run into any racial problems...someone please help...

2006-12-28 19:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

lets say if a families daughter is in a relationship that the parents dont agree with or like,does the daughter let the parents ruin the relationship or risk loosing the love of her parents

2006-12-28 19:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by buckie 2

I am at my friends slumber party and this guy called me and asked me out. my friends tell me to say yes but i'm not sure if he just likes me for my body:(

It might just be because I have a lot of junk in the trunk. and my chests are normal size but I don't like him. He is very cute and popular in high school but He doesn't have what I look for in a Guy: Brain, Sense of humor, Personality or even heart. Should I go out with him for the popularity(which I know is totally wrong). Or should I say no(Which would be my decision).

I am so confused i need help

2006-12-28 19:17:12 · 15 answers · asked by emmaboo101 3

theres this guy. he's my boyfriend. but, my mom dont think i should be dating a junior. she says its bad for me. but im like.. WHAT?? thats stupid. but shes like watever. so iim like.. i reall like him.. but im a freashman. and.. im just f-ing stuck.

2006-12-28 19:16:31 · 18 answers · asked by chinkiiechik 1