what is the deciding factor if any?
2006-12-28 19:41:58 · 28 answers · asked by coloradoavs13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Personality
2. Height ( I like tall guys which is funny considering I'm only 5'1)
3. Eyes ( well you know what they say... Eeyes are the windows to the soul)
4. The way he dresses
5. Smile... (cause i love smiling) :)
2006-12-28 19:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting conversation, good values, being respectful, having a decent job (as a sign of being grown up and responsible), sense of humour. Oops that's five and I didn't get to the other thing, that mysterious X factor or, or general hotness. It kind of has to do with looks but not totally. It's a kind of over all attractiveness that certain guys have for me and others just don't. Hard to explain.
2006-12-28 19:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stability is the big one for keeping someone such as is this guy going to provide himself and all possible aspects to us. Such as does he have a criminal history, financial history, job history. Personality is a biggy also, the cutest person in the world can be a complete jerk which is going to change just how good looking he really is and visa versa, if he is negative he could be a real downer. Good looks are helpful but not always required. The third one would be can he keep it interesting and positive. Fourth I would say is probably sex... I don't care about size... but if he is not going to make sure I get mine then honestly, why are we in bed? Fifth I would say is he scared of committment. My husband and I are opposites, he is my strength where I am weak and I am his strength where he is weak. To be honest half of us don't know what we want till we don't have it. But he tells me my ideal man is gay... I guess it is what I can't have... isn't that what we all want is what we can't have. Oh yeah and is he secure enough to be able to give attention, affection, approval, and being supportive.
2006-12-28 20:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Sense of humour
2) Smart
3) Not afraid to be weird and goofy with me (I can't stand people who are serious all the time)
4) Agrees with me on controversial things (abortion, gay marriage etc....[I'm pro both] It's not that I don't like people who disagree on those things, but in order to have a serious relationship with someone I think it's important to have similar opinions on big things)
5) Likes to talk and listen...about -gasp- feelings! (who am I kidding? lol)
One thing that really bothers me is when a guy doesn't understand my point of view. Like there's this guy I kinda-sorta like, but sometimes we disagree over the dumbest things, just cause he doesn't try to understand my point of view, or he misundertands me. So I guess the "deciding factor" would be if the guy is easy to talk to and tries to understand my beliefs rather than just blocking them out and saying he's always right.
Oh yeah and I must add on...
6) A guy who likes to have fun, [but doesn't constantly get piss drunk, I'm not against drinking [I drink sometimes] but ick...guys who drink and get drunk all the time?...it's just not attractive)
7) Non smoker
Yep...I'm hard to please :P
2006-12-28 19:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no deciding factor. It's like shopping, you look around, consider your options, something strikes your interests & you either make a sale or a return based on various things.
Top 5 things i look for...........
1.Intelligence
2.Honesty
3.Family morals
4.Humor
5.Stability
NICE *** helps 2
& a nice smile :)
2006-12-28 19:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face, Hands, Feet, Funny, Romantic
2006-12-28 19:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by abella_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman and that i'm on the instant xD a million. sturdy character 2. Has a sturdy experience of humor 3. seems are extremely substantial to me 4. Accepts me and likes me for who i'm and how i'm. 5. Likes/loves hugs :P 6. Honesty 7. Loyalty i'd desire to easily bypass on xP
2016-10-19 03:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by atalanta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, Affection, Fun and Cuddles, Trust and Maturity
2006-12-28 19:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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10pts pls
2006-12-28 19:45:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tan Boon Hwee k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty
How he treats his family
How he lives,not just money, but what does he do for others,give to his community,church and so on
Manners
and his smile...hopefully it is often
I have been married for 17 years. I am very lucky that is my husband I was describing too.
2006-12-28 19:48:30 · answer #10 · answered by LaurenElyse 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋