has 2 sons with his ex wife. She bought me a gift certificate for christmas to get a pedi and mani done, we have only met a few times she got very upset when i rode with my b/f to drop his sons off to her one time so this action shocked me I feel like she has other motives than just being nice, what do you think?
2006-12-28 19:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by sephra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dunno if she's a ***** or not.
2 possibilities;
1. she realised what a ***** she'd been and realises how important you are to her ex and that she's gonna have to come to terms with it and learn to accept seeing you. In this case this is a peace offering and you should accept it with good grace as it sounds like your life will be ok.
2. she's a manipulative ***** and is trying to mess with your head but I can't see how getting you this gift would benefit her in a head stuffing game. ( my ex wife was an expert and I learnt a lot.)
I reckon she realised that she's gonna see more of you and has to learn to like it and is trying to be nice. Accept it with good grace.
2006-12-28 19:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have friends who are exs and would do that. Some would be doing it to show there are no hard feelings (esp if she gave him the boot). I even know of exs and current husbands/wives who are even good friends. Most know that their exs new realtion is going to be in their lives as long as the kids are and there is no reason not to get along. As for me, I could never be friends with any ex or their currrent squeeze. If you were my ex, and I ever gave your BF a present, call the bomb squad, or hire a food taster.
2006-12-29 05:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gift is her trying to be nice and let you know she has no hard feelings but there are boundaries.
Some of them may be,
-Don’t go with the dad to pick up or drop off the kids. Ever!!
-It’s okay to be with the dad and the kids.
-But don’t go to the mom’s house unless she invites you.
Remember, just because you’re with the guy
-it doesn’t mean his kids are yours. They’re not, You have _no_ say when it comes to the kids. Leave that to the mom and dad.
Best you can be is the kids friend when they are with you and the dad.
2006-12-29 04:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you, She is prolly just trying to be nice, and maybe she is accepting, that she is divorced, and he has moved on to be with some one new. And as for her getting mad about you going with him to drop his 2 boys off, well, if you ask me, i think that is just jelousy and a little insecurity, So let it go through one ear and out the other!!
2006-12-29 03:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by tuffchevy86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like a nice gesture. its christmas...a time of giving and making others feel warm and fuzzy inside. :) My ex's new wife baked cookies for me and they were tasty. I thot that was nice of her.
2006-12-29 03:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this looks like a very difficult road you are on. Trust your instincts.
2006-12-29 03:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Theodore D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to avoid being around her and maybe discuss it with your bf... let him know how you feel!!!
p.s. Dont drink anything she gives you...jk
2006-12-29 03:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Becca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably she wants to be nice and show she's not upset anymore. For the kid's sake, please try to be nice back.
2006-12-29 03:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess she has others motivation on you
Judging from your story
2006-12-29 04:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ice Blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's glad your with her ex.
She can do her thing now...No quilt on her part.
2006-12-29 03:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋