All the girls at my school seem to be too immature to actually have a real relationship with me. For example, I bought my last girlfriend $120 in stuff (im still in middle school) then she dances with another guy and starts acting funny...then she moved and she got so freaked and messed up i had no idea what was going on with her. So, if your a girl, do you have any tips about anything even remotly related to my subject? Thanks alot.
2006-12-28 19:35:32 · 6 answers · asked by thinkgacolagy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really messed up!!Well, to me boys are more immature then girls at that age and even further down the line to me, but so can girls be too. You probably just went out with the wrong girl because I'm into real relationships and I'm in high school. Plus, you have your whole life ahead of u to date so stop worrying so much!!! hope this helps, it is hard to understand girls, but try your best!!
2006-12-28 19:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havent had a relationship like that but my ex & i r supposed 2 get 2gether & lately hes been actin mean 2wards me...he moved & a lot of females like him & guys like me 2 but i stayed the same...hes been really shallow & im not used 2 him bein dis way. i think he & i should just b friends or stop being friends bcuz we havent been cool 4 a minute & he nvr replies 2 my msgs on myspace w/o sounding mean. Maybe the girls @ ur school arent on ur level or you just havent found the right 1. You should find a quiet,shy,nice girl because those r the 1's who normally act naromal & try 2 be good for you in the littlest ways;they might wear a cute outfit in ur fav color or say they luv u out of the blue & actually mean it...Im 25% quiet & I do most of this stuff & sumtimes it works out & sumtimes it doesnt...u have 2 give it time or find the right 1.
2006-12-28 19:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am SURE there are "mature" girls in your school. are you even looking? and anyways, i think girls mature faster than guys, usually, at around the age of 11 to... maybe a bit older. so she started acted funny and all, maybe she was just changing, you know, as a person. like growing up.
and you should've asked her what was wrong, if you felt like there was something different about her. you should have made things clear. see, now you're left wondering what happened. but that's okay... what you want to do now is up to you; maybe you can call her if you're still wondering.
BUT i don't think you should go around judging how mature girls are, especially if they're mature enough to be your girlfriend. how do you know what's really going on with them? how do you know, even when they dress trashily and all they seem to do is want attention, that they're not just struggling to deal with... things? if you can just simply stand on the outside and put them on this mature scale, i think you're the one who needs to learn how to understand.
moreover, you're in middle school right... REAL relationship? your last girlfriend danced with another guy... SO? she's not your wife! and what exactly is a REAL relationship to you?
maybe you're looking for this: girls just wanna have fun!
you know, i think you have to be in a few relationships first before you know what you're really looking for. so don't get all uptight and full of standards. i think whether a relationship is "real" or not is up to how you see it. in my opinion, there is no such thing as a "fake" relationship.
and yeah, the fact that you spent $120 on stuff for her... just let it go, man.
2006-12-28 20:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep... sounds about right. In middle school, not too many people are actually mature enough for a long term relationship. Unfortunately, buying stuff is not what keeps a girl interested anyway. [Some girls yes, but that usually their sole interest.]
I'd recommend waiting until the second half of high school at least.
2006-12-28 19:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jack Schitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u ever considered that after u bought a girl so much, she just got scared that now she will have to do things she doesnt feel comfortable doing? Maybe she just freaked out. Try working on a relationship slowly.
2006-12-28 19:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery_gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm doubting you bought your gf anything....more like your parents bought her something. And us girls can be so weird at times, it's gonna take you a while to figure out exactly what is on our minds
2006-12-28 19:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋