Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

Is it a bad idea to have any cleavage showing? Will I come across as slutty? It's been awhile since I've had a first date since I just came out of a very long relationship. Do guys consider it slutty to have a little cleavage showing? I'm talking about a tasteful shirt and some jeans. It's a new shirt and I really like it alot but there's some stuff poking out the top! ok thanks for any advice!

2006-12-28 18:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a relationship with a person who seems like she two personalities. When she loves me, what I believed was her normal personality; everything is fine, even to the point where I wanted to marry her. On the 10th of December she ended our relationship and now she wants to continue like nothing ever happened. I believed our relationship ended on that date so I don't want to get back with her. When she ended it, with what I believe was her other personality, she is very cruel. She said things like, you are a liar, a hypocrite and you have disappointed me. I don't need you. And that's just a sample of her cruelty. I love this person and I haven't done anything to her to show her I'm like that. We met 5 years ago and at the moment we live in different countries. She visited me for three months this year and it was to decide if we would continue or end it. We decided to continue, live together and get married. During our 3 months together was when I discovered this other part of her.

2006-12-28 18:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by Marty 1

A man gave me a kiss and great hug to say goodbye and he patted me on the back? Don't you usually reserve that pat thing for your mothers, grandmothers etc? I would like to know what the "pat" means to you?..Thanks! : )

2006-12-28 18:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by no cutesy name : ) 4

Like there are more guys/girls you like but you cant hit on them cuz you have a boy/girlfriend....it's hard to handle!

2006-12-28 18:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by HR+ZG=♥ 1

ok so i have this friend.. well shes my best friend and i love her alot and have loved her ever since i've known her. she has a boyfriend that she says she loves and i dont know what to do because im in love her but she doesn't know i feel this way about her.

2006-12-28 18:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

or any other kind of love?
i'll take any kind at this point.

2006-12-28 18:01:48 · 25 answers · asked by Jezabel the annoyed cat 7

All the guys that I really like who show an interest in me I'm really awful to - ignoring them or calling them "stupid" "juvenile" "dull" "boring" "hate that shirt" "hate your haircut" just immature behaviour.

I have done this with every single one,It's really irriating because eventually they give up and i'm sad. is it a self defence mechanism??

To guys i'm not interested in i'm friendly/kind,it's the ones I feel a strong emotion for that strong reaction out of me.

HOW TO STOP??

I fear if i'm nice to the guy he'll hurt me or won't like me.

2006-12-28 18:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by rusalka 3

ok my bf likes me but i don't like him we went out before and i broke up with him and he guilted me back into a relationship and i want to break up with him but last time i did he basicaly couldn't live he WORSHIPS THE GROUND I WALK ON!!!!! hes sweet and everything but he's just not the one for me HELP!!!!!

2006-12-28 18:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why can't more guys be understanding like him?!

2006-12-28 17:58:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance always gets out of folding and arranging our laundery by saying that touching my langerie (esp bras) makes him feel weird. Other wise he loves playing with and then taking off my langerie. Could my fiance be really grossed out or is he just trying to get out of a chore?

2006-12-28 17:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by mina 2

I'm a 16 year old black teen (light skinned). I'm a smart & muscular guy, but I'm shy and quiet most of the time. I've never been kissed, never had a girlfriend, and never went on a date. My friends and my parents think that I'm too mature for the girls my age, but I don't want to give up yet. Do you have any ideas for me for finding a suitable girl?

2006-12-28 17:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by c90 4

i said it that waycause yahoo wont let me type it any other way. well anyway, i said this because he keeps staring at other women while im standing there and ive asked him a hundred times to stop it and he keeps doing it. what do you think?

2006-12-28 17:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

The guy I'm seeing is overly jealous and fiercely protective...I'm having doubts of it actually working out. However, I don't blame him for his behavior. I have an awful track record when it comes to bfs..I've never slept around, but a few drunken kisses at the bar definitely don't help. This guy knows my past..and knows my personality. I'm really friendly, outgoing, bubbly and naturally flirtacious. I have about 4 female friends, and the rest are males. I get along better with guys.

How do I calm his jealousy? I have no intentions of cheating, and I've controlled my bar behavior..however, I can't change my personality for someone, and I refuse to. I get pursued a lot by males..and get hit on constantly. I'm nice to the guys back..but I never let it go any further. We're constantly bickering over it..and it's driving me crazy. He's a good looking male, and girls practically hang off of him, and yet..I control my jealousy..why can't he do the same? Any advice?

2006-12-28 17:57:02 · 2 answers · asked by Massacre 1

Well, he told me that he went to a gay bar the other night. Well, he is an open-minded guy, but I still thought it was strange because I don't know that many straight men would go to a gay bar...and my other guy friends think it's really weird.

Is it normal/okay for a straight guy to go to a gay bar? I have nothing against him going...he can do what he wants...I just find it a little weird.

2006-12-28 17:53:42 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

cuz i could have sworn u were cheakin out my pakage.




do guys really work for my pakage, or my brains? n yes i have brains. :]

2006-12-28 17:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by chinkiiechik 1

Okay so this girl who i absolutely love is going out with another guy. I'm going to tell her how i feel about her but if u could make any changes that u think would sound better that would be great. Thank You in advance.

Okay (insert name) what I'm about to tell you is probably going to ruin our friendship and (insert name)'s friendship, but i like you i like you a lot. I understand you are in a relationship and I'm happy for you, and all i want for you is to be happy no matter who you're with, but i just had to tell you how i have always felt about you.

Okay so my question is should i make any changes?

2006-12-28 17:52:02 · 18 answers · asked by kittynigh 2

Heads I take you to dinner and choose the restaurant. Tails you choose the reataurant and also a gift from Victoria's Secret.

2006-12-28 17:51:38 · 14 answers · asked by kingswan23 2

this girl i work with came up to me today and told me that she had a chat with the guy i like in the lunch room and she asked him about us and told him that she was hearing we were already dating etc and she asked if i was his gf and if we were together and he said not yet. she talked a bit more with him and asked if he was going to get things going here soon and he said we'll see what happens..as i just got out of a 5 yr relationship. is this good news for me??

2006-12-28 17:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1

I'm in a wonderful relationship (2 and a half years) but I'm extremely jealous when it comes to my boyfriend and other girls. We are in a long distance relationship (past year) and I get so upset whenever he hangs out with his friends and there are girls there. I know this is wrong and probably has something to do with my ex cheating on me and my insecurities. But what can I do to get through this? :(

2006-12-28 17:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Dee 2

2006-12-28 17:49:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a pretty ugly kid, it hinders my ability to pick up any girls, do u think im focusing on it too much, or do girls really do care about what the guy looks like

2006-12-28 17:48:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love this lady madly.She is around 45 years old but I cannot live without her whenever I see her.My parents are going crazy and I have been to mental hospital.Everyone is saying that she has done some withcraft.Please help!!

2006-12-28 17:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by bomken b 1

2006-12-28 17:47:04 · 19 answers · asked by Chris0079 1

2006-12-28 17:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by Cutie_angelic 1

i'm short,bulky,shy. receive a marginal salary (enough only to support myself),don't have car,don't have a good education,live with my parents . how can i manage a gf?

2006-12-28 17:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by ih 2

These guys are real friends and 2 of them wait about an 1 hour for me to come online..another maybe 3-6 hours..they don 't know when I am online so why is that called stalking? They are between 15-22.its not because they have nothing better else to do..couldn't it just be they are waiting? Why do most people call it stalking?

2006-12-28 17:44:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 17:43:57 · 11 answers · asked by Nellie 2

2006-12-28 17:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by rachael b 1

In order to allow complete freedom for asking and answering questions? I don't mean to allow abuse of other members or anything, that kinda stuff should always be reportable.

2006-12-28 17:42:31 · 13 answers · asked by T M 3

I been in love with a married man for about 3 years. During this 3 years, his wife already know about us, but his wife still haven't let go of him. He still love his wife but he claimed that he do love me too. When I ask him to choose between both of us, he said he is not able to choose. I can't let go of him and I wonder why his wife can tolerate his affair with other woman?

2006-12-28 17:42:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous