Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

Say (for example) that you are absolutely against smoking weed. You have no desire to do it, be around, and for sure definitly not date someone who does it. But what if you met somebody and you fell for them and were really interested in a relationship, and then find out they they are pot-heads. Would you be willing to overlook it, or would it constantly be in the back of your mind? This goes for other things too....like....if you wanted your "mate" to have a diploma (either high school or college) and they had no desire to, could you just forget about it in hopes that this person might be "the one". Don't we have "standards" for a reason? Do you think most peoples standards are set WAY too high and we're being picky? Is that being selfish, or do we have the right to want what we want and not settle for anything less?

2006-12-28 04:11:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

but make a six-figure salary and treat you like a princess.
Or you like a guy who is clean cut and doesn't make much money?

2006-12-28 04:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by white.devil 3

those of you out there who are older or at least done with grad schools, how in the world did you finally decide on what you want to do??? When was it clear that what you've chosen is "for you"...
Im a senior and I have 2 majors but Im having suuuuch huge doubts and still have no idea what Im going to do after graduating...Any words from the wise ?

2006-12-28 04:07:58 · 13 answers · asked by Jackie 4

2006-12-28 04:05:53 · 60 answers · asked by Dawn P. 1

i cant stop thinking of my ex i see him alot he still acts like he loves me but hes living with someone else and i cant go on with my life hes the only one i dont want to live without him i cant ive met othe guys but they dont intrest me like he does i love him so much and i wanna stop ive tried everything and i dont want to end my life cuz i cant have him and thats how i feel right now

2006-12-28 04:04:48 · 43 answers · asked by susette r 1

I am astounded at all the 13 and 14 year olds who claim to be "dating". Are their parents insane or don't they care?

2006-12-28 04:02:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i no how to belly danec

2006-12-28 04:01:50 · 23 answers · asked by talaya h 1

2006-12-28 03:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2

2006-12-28 03:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by lama2 1

They split up because he cheated on her,,now he just can't let her go. She is a sweet heart and doesn't want to hurt him and tell him to get lost but his constant adoration over her is driving me nuts. Why can't he just move on?

2006-12-28 03:58:13 · 15 answers · asked by Sean 4

When my daughter first started dating an african-american man, I couldn't have been happier. All her life I taught her about the horrors of slavery and the greatness of the god-kings like Martin Luther King Jr and Rosa Parks. I'm a progressive liberal so I am more enlightened then your average american. I was so happy, I even didn't mind the age difference. She is 18 and he is 39. But my problem is that I think this man is taking advantage of her. He made her stop going to college so she could earn him money. She used to work as a waitress but that wasn't enough money for him so now she is a stripper. Worse, he lets his friends sleep with her but they have to pay him. I know this is societies fault so I don't blame them. Also, he had beaten her in the past, but I couldn't possible understand his rage. Sadly, she recently contracted HIV from one of the men and her boyfriend fliped out. He assualted me and said I owed him. I gave him some money but he said it wasn't enough. What can I do

2006-12-28 03:57:27 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you have really fallen or made up your mind to get the girl you like, do you give up easily? how long do you usually hold on?

2006-12-28 03:57:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

happy new year!

2006-12-28 03:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by Emo_Gurl™ 2

Ok, I have this friend who has a crush on my boyfriend. They were talking and stuff about going out before me and my boyfriend started going out which was about a month and a half ago. My boyfriend gave me his password for msn and stuff and said that I could do What ever I wanted, so i went and looked at his e-mail. And i was reading one that was from my boyfriend and my friend and they were talking back and forth and stuff. We were going out when they were talking in this e-mail. He was saying that she was hott, and wondering when she could come online, and what time she does, and saying that is she really wanted she could get a good boyfriend. Is this cheating? What should I think of this? Please help I am so confused...

2006-12-28 03:55:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone that i know say a girl and a guy can't be 'just' friends and that sooner or later one of them will start liking the other. i think it's kind of true, but i want to know what you guys think and why.

2006-12-28 03:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Gorgeous 3

2006-12-28 03:53:29 · 4 answers · asked by sexylove 1

My friend loves to stare at girl's titties and this afternoon he got ***** slapped any advice?
HINT: hes an addict of staring at girl's titties
The neighborhood i live in has white girls with huge titts and i live in california so the girls are always wearing bikinis.
Hint: I said we have white girls and asain girls since black girls do not have big titties.
Any Advice?

2006-12-28 03:53:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am only 20 and here in kentucky you have to be 21 to drink so thats out of the question what else can i do to make this new year one to remember. any suggestions much appreciated.

and happy new year to all of you.

2006-12-28 03:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

not just with her but everybody in general?

2006-12-28 03:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6

I have a male friend and every time he comes over, I notice the loads of cloths he keeps in his car. This time I noticed more then usual. He is suppose to be married and there suppose to have an agreement that he can do whatever he wants just as long as he does'nt bring it home. I listen to the messages on his voicemail when he came over drunk as usual and she stated that his cloths would be outside & its nothing he can say to change her mind. He still goes to her in the pm but comes to me & spends the nite later on. He does not talk about his personel self much&tries to avoid telling me what I want to know when I ask.He lied in the beginning & did not tell me he was married,he said it did'nt matter.I think they just had a agreement & now shes tired of him.I don't think hes saving money&I think when he meets single women he stays at there house as long as he can.He cant stay with me,I have my reason.But I want to help him some how.that is if hes not trying to get over on single women.

2006-12-28 03:50:40 · 9 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2

2006-12-28 03:49:54 · 5 answers · asked by Sean 4

Like girls bleeding or feeling nervous or what i should be prepared for.. because i'm 23 and my boyfriend and me have been talking about it a lot lately... please give answers from experience please

2006-12-28 03:49:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This will seem as a weird question and please not i am from a asian nation.

I am a gay who is 29 years old.I had a girl friend 2 years back and she left for another man while i was working abroad.it hurt a lot..even sometomes now, after 2 years.I loved her so much.But she used me and dumped me like ****.

Since then life has moved along.I havent really dated or liked any one till date.But what keeps me going is the hope that i will meet someone nice who will love me and i could love back the same way abd would make me happy, althgough this seems elusive i seems as i reach 30.But hope keeps me going althogut life is so lonely.But i have kept a good and i have no regrets ir have i donr anyhting bad in my life.

2006-12-28 03:48:40 · 13 answers · asked by WB 1

2006-12-28 03:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by JackLove 2

We're both passionate about each other and everytime we start kissing and touching he starts asking me for sex. I am a virgin and don't want to give it away without any feelings or somtimes. I want him to wait and respect that and want him to love me for who i am not what i will give him. It seems like he likes the fact about my condition but at the same time i guess he never had anybody who would make him to wait. I don't want to lose him for such a stupid thing but it feels like he understands it in a different way. He keeps saying that i am keeping it for somebody else and keeps saying that god knows what is going to happen later on and he want to love me now since i am his now. Please guys i need your advice in this. how to treat him and how to make him understand me and accept me the way i am.

2006-12-28 03:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by blue5349 1

2006-12-28 03:48:00 · 20 answers · asked by Rachael S 1

My gf father tells her things like "you should use more tanning lotion to look better", or "your belly is like that of a trucker" or "you have boxer shoulders", or "you shouldn't eat that much so you don't get fatter".He demands that she "look good" when they go places. He told her to fix herself up one day when he took her to a party with his co-workers. Now she is very beautiful. She is a little chubby, but she isn't fat and I frankly don't find any flaws on her and love her to death.She is attached to her dad and will probably end this relationship eventually because he says no. She keeps telling me that he is a nice guy. Wtf!!! She also thinks he is very handsome, but he looks like crap. I hate how he has made her insecure like this. I tell her she is beautiful, and she rolls her eyes!But she is still willing to break up with the guy who treats her like a princess for jackass dad. Isn't what he does emo abuse?y then is she so attached to him?

2006-12-28 03:45:47 · 15 answers · asked by Na n 1

2006-12-28 03:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by strangerswrath 1

You can only be happy with another person only if you are happy with yourself on your own. If you are not hapy with yourself and try to find someone to make you happy, chances are there will be lots of problems in the relationship later on. Am I right or wrong?

2006-12-28 03:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by Kevinlad 3

so from my bedroom, I can see directly into her shower. I've mentioned this to her and she didn't seem to mind...do you consider this a invitation to keep on looking?

2006-12-28 03:42:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous