Singles & Dating - 27 December 2006

I am just curious to know what others(women can answer) think because my ex-boyfriend always seemed to want to teach me how to cook. We would go out on regular dates but then he would want to spend time showing me how to make a meal.(BTW, I'm not complaining) I guess I am at a disadvantage because I can't cook to save my life.(I really can't even cook an egg let alone rice).

2006-12-27 13:35:13 · 17 answers · asked by Don't dream it's Over 2

After a 6 year relationship i am now single but dont have the confidence to go out and chat up girls. I see girls that i think like me because they keep eyeing me up and smiling but i cant go and talk to them

2006-12-27 13:34:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

IF you dont know someone and you really like them, how to you express that to them without talking to them? Do you stare at them, smile, flirt? OR what if you knew that person and dont talk to them anymore and you see them again and suddenly you start to have feelings for them How do you show them that you like them, without saying so?

2006-12-27 13:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He had his friends ask me out and they said he was just shy. I really liked him, and now i want to know what i did wrong.

2006-12-27 13:32:15 · 22 answers · asked by Maddie 2

Read about this on the web. The article was pointing how guys were starting to suffer the same problem as women have for sleeping around a lot. Wondered what people here thought about it.

2006-12-27 13:29:20 · 25 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2

i'm tired of going to bed by myself at nights only hugging my teddy.

all i do is home, college ,work,and bed!

i need a spouse! someone to cast my cares

someone to give me sweet luvvin

problem is, i dont know where to start

2006-12-27 13:29:12 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

What was the first song you and your current significant other danced to? Also, where was it? A party, a bar?

Mine was Wonderful Tonight by Eric Clapton in a bar on Halloween of this year. Just curious to see what everyone elses was/is!

2006-12-27 13:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5

Ok so i have only been together with this guy for about a month... He is in complete love with me but i dont feel the same way.And There are things about him that I dont like that. He asked me to be his boyfriend like a few days after we first kissed...I told him yesterday that i was stressed and that i didnt want to habg out and that we would talk about it later... well then he asked if everything was ok with us? I told him that we would talk about it later. So anyhow I am at work right now and I told him we would talk after work... i have never broken up with anyone and I dont want to hurt him...I am not looking to get married any time soon and he thinks I am the one and our relationship is all physical hat do I say help me

2006-12-27 13:27:11 · 20 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2

an effective one? it's like telling goodbye to someone you really love but because you have a duty to make... you must leave him/her... How can you tell him/her that you really love him/her yet you must go?

2006-12-27 13:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by shuriken25 2

I am between 4"10 and 4"11 does being short really matter to you guys or do you not care?

2006-12-27 13:26:32 · 19 answers · asked by peace love & lipgloss 2

okay, well i dated this guy named matt okay..and i broke up w/ him because my best friends boyfriend told me that my ex has feelings for my best friend and i know i should of talked to him first about it and stuff but i broke up with him anyway..stupiud move..and i told him that i made a mistake and it was stupiud but he told me he didn't have feeling for anymore..how to i get him to like me again or how do i get over him? any suggestions?

2006-12-27 13:26:26 · 1 answers · asked by blonde for life 2

this guy i like is so mean we had sex and he said it was the best sex he had ever had now he is having sex with 4 other girls am i really mad i gave my self to him so can any one tell me why they are mean and use you and he said the only reason he even had sex with me is because i am so sexy and i have big **** and he never met a girl so scinny and that has a big but and big **** that hurt me so bad i thought he liked me for how i am not for what i look like.

2006-12-27 13:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a long distance relationship (it will be like this for a year) But we kind of told each other that we would be friends very good friends while I was away... And we never said to each other the "i love u" phrase.
Ok when I left he gave me a letter, I very nice and sweet letter saying how he would never forget me and that I'm the only one who could ever make him feel like this... etc (it's very personal). And he ended with a : LOVE and then the nickname I have for him.
On christmas I sent him an ecard ending it the same way...

Does the word LOVE mean anything without an I and U before and after????
Then is it ok or would you freak If I say LOVE and then my name??

2006-12-27 13:24:38 · 15 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2

Like you and know you like them and will flirt so much but then act like you will never have a chance?


I know this is a pointless question but honestly if they like you why not act on it?

2006-12-27 13:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there is this guy that i know likes me but i think he likes me a little too much,rumos have gone around about him breaking into my car in the school parkinglot but that is so dumb he wouldnt do that and he has confronted me once telling me he didnt really like me and he was tired of all the rumors and drama and hes totally sweet but i think he might have passed by my house a few times to see if im home or something and things are really awkward and he has tried to clear things up but no matter wut it awkward and i totally respect him but my friends keep telling me he likes me and i stick up for him a few times and he told me that if anything he just wants to be friends but so mcuh has gone between us its werid no matter wut...do you consider him a stalker?and he has taken picture of my on his cell phone but my friend told me that so im not sure.and im not oging to tell the school cuz thats dumb...but wut should i do? should i become friends with him?

2006-12-27 13:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by believe in me<3 2

Is it best to forget and move on? Or to open the "can of worms" to honestly, rehash what you know; to feel "closer" or should you just let it go?

2006-12-27 13:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by FRESH_PEACH_98 2

2006-12-27 13:20:10 · 13 answers · asked by Skypride 2

ive met this guy that 29 he really nice and we get on very well he helps me with any problems with my bf and i kinda fancy him and he always said that if my bf and i split he would love to date me and i would want to but only if i lost my bf coz i love my bf more than i fancy this guy.

the only problem is that im 17 (over legal age) he 29 and thats a huge age gap for my age and my family and friends wouldnt approve if the worst happened and my bf dumped me and i started dating this guy how could i tell my family and friends about the age gap?

2006-12-27 13:19:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I've been seeing once or twice a week for the past 3 months left town to go visit his family for the holidays. He left last Saturday and won't be back for two weeks. He said he'll call me when he comes back. But I'm concerned for the fact he doesn't even drop me a line while he is gone. Am I supposed to wait for two weeks till I hear from him again? I think if he liked me enough, he would want to contact me. Am I asking for too much? Should I just drop him if he does not contact me while he's away?

2006-12-27 13:17:07 · 23 answers · asked by Sweetie 3

ive never ever wanted to pleasure a man but im starting to want to.. ive only been with two men and i wantt to pleasure him is that a SIGN~????????????

2006-12-27 13:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i like boy and he is not even up to my shoulders. i am 5'5. Some people say we look cute together and some think he is too short for me. Is his height going to be a problem in the relationship?

2006-12-27 13:16:22 · 11 answers · asked by PooHBear 2

2006-12-27 13:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by prettydarling1000 3

I'm totally in love with my American "girl" friend & over Christmas discovered she's as crazy about me as i am her.She's gone home to the US for New Year & won't be back til January.She's only gone 30 hours & i'm missing her already.
Trouble is her work keeps her in the States for a while every so often.Since we've now found out we love each other i really want to make this work.To say i adore her is an under-statement.Is anyone out there who is keeping a long-distance romance going successfully?
I'll likely end up moving to the US if it means us to be together.But for now i have to make do with this trans-Atlantic thing.She's from Georgia & i'm stuck here in Britain.Can someone give me any advice on how to keep this relationship going successfully? I sure as hell don't want to lose her - she's my world.Any tips will be v. much appreciated.
Thanks.From Jackie aged 28 acting like a 17-year old!!

2006-12-27 13:15:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-27 13:14:47 · 22 answers · asked by oXSaraXo 1

How do you know if you're cute if you're a guy? Here's the problem: a guy who is not gay or metrosexual doesn't think of himself in terms of cute. He doesn't wake up in the morning look at himself and say, "dang, I'm a cute guy!" It just doesn't happen. If a guy notices anything about other guys it's phyisical stature and that's probably because of a natural competetive instinct and not for aesthetic value.

So it seems that if you think you're cute it's because of either of two reasons: 1. girls tell you you're cute all the time so you start to believe it and/or 2. nobody has to tell you, you know you're cute.

I see a problem with both. With the first it means you'd be dealing with someone who probably gets a lot of women and probably not going to work too hard to get you or keep you. With the second it seems you'd be dealing with a guy who is vain and is probably cocky.

I don't mean to generalize. I just don't know. What do women really expect?

2006-12-27 13:13:37 · 2 answers · asked by Jim Z 2

Why is it so hard to get over your first love? I have been struggling with this for a while.

2006-12-27 13:13:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

To clarify, you turned someone down because you thought they were out of your league.

2006-12-27 13:12:27 · 22 answers · asked by Keith 4

my parents just came home from the pub with my rich uncle and his wife. theyre too drunk to drive so they offered me to pay for me and my friends cab fair there and back to the movies haha and the movie is at 9:45. Should i take advantage of this and take the $$?

2006-12-27 13:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

have an ex that i ws with for 3 years and we lived togather for two of those years. The end of the relationship got bad from stress and just not showing affection. I know that i pushed her awawy with my actions and i regret it. We been broken up for 3 months now at first i was begging her for another chance and she told me that we have to be friends first and that she knew that we would be togather still if i didnt act the way i was at the end. Meantime i was gettin her back she would treat me like i was a nobody hang up on me yell at me just things i didnt deserve so i just gave up and didnt call her nemore its been 3 weeks or so since then and she has been calling me alot lately and she wants me to hang out with her what should i do and what are her intentions

2006-12-27 13:11:37 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1

Eventhough it's flattering, I keep attracting these 18 and 19 year old..some even 17...girls...at my job..I'm a loss prevention officer for a retail store..they usually work parttime and go to college or have dropped out of high school...I'm 34 years old...6 foot 2, African American..I know it's probably a college professor type thing but it gets disruptive and bothersome at work...one girl got so fusturated ..she started some gay rumours because I would'nt get with her...I'm a grown man, divorced and gray streaks are coming in my beard...I need some insight...maybe from a young lady..I know that some of these girls see me come to work every day...treat them with respect and what not....but I'm all scarred, all rough looking, and far from being a pretty boy...I don't get it?

2006-12-27 13:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4