This guy I've been seeing once or twice a week for the past 3 months left town to go visit his family for the holidays. He left last Saturday and won't be back for two weeks. He said he'll call me when he comes back. But I'm concerned for the fact he doesn't even drop me a line while he is gone. Am I supposed to wait for two weeks till I hear from him again? I think if he liked me enough, he would want to contact me. Am I asking for too much? Should I just drop him if he does not contact me while he's away?
2006-12-27 13:17:07 · 23 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if he really wanted to be with you, he would be calling you every day, wondering how you are, what you've been up to, how your holidays went. A guy that can be so casual about seeing you and contacting you obviously is not that into you. Wait around if you're okay with that, but personally I'd be looking for someone who really likes me.
2006-12-27 13:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if you have been seeing him 1-2 a week for 3 months then that is a good thing...and yes he should at least give a call to say hey.. when he is gone..but then he maybe busy.... talk to him.... say it would of been nice to hear from you in the 2 weeks that you were gone... even a hey.. I am fine.. busy.. will talk to you when I get home.. see what he says to that... he is a guy.. and prob just doesn't even think that it bothers you..... don't just drop him... talk to him and if you don't like the response.. then drop him..
2006-12-27 21:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by kAtTs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree if he was truly interested he would call while he was gone. I guess it also depends how seroius you were..before he left on your few dates you had. He could also have a fling back home unfortunately ya know? I guess just wait to see if he called..and then if he doesn't and doesn't seem like it was that big a deal when he gets back..well then I guess you have your answer. Unfortunately must not mean that much to him..acting that way!
2006-12-27 21:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by amason1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems a little weird to me that he wouldn't even call during those 2 weeks. I don't think you're asking for too much. Wait and see if he calls when he gets back.
2006-12-27 21:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by morenadancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may want to look at getting out of ths relationship. I you two have been seeing each other that often for three months, he should want to give you a call while he is gone. It doesn't sound like he is making a good connection with you and may be looking to distance himself.
2006-12-27 21:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by duediligencebeforeinvesting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be really busy with his family. You would think that he would give you a ring just to check up on you. I wouldn't worry too much though. He said he would call when he gets back, so just wait until then. If he doesn't call then, I would consider moving on. Don't fret, he's probably just a bit busy.
2006-12-27 21:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if he likes you, and it sounds like he does, you should wait. You don't want to smother him. Give him a chance to visit with his family. He has the rest of the year to be with you. Girls these days are too possessive. You should relax and give him room. If you know he likes you then you should feel secure enough to not talk to him those two weeks.
2006-12-27 21:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by tooterbutton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling him and see what happens, couldn't hurt. If u can't get a hold of him, then wait till he comes back, or if something better comes along, go for it.
2006-12-27 21:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you probably shouldn't drop him cause he might have the next 2 weeks packed tight with things he has to do to catch up with his family. you might want to give it time he could pull back with a firm pullback and after he gets back he might just sweep you off your feet
2006-12-27 21:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by confussed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't sit by the phone and wait for him it sounds like his family might be important so important that they don't even need to know about you and honey thees days holidays r for every one not just your family he should of told you he will call you that is if he cared enough get out while you can..good luck.
2006-12-27 21:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by lundie_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋