He had his friends ask me out and they said he was just shy. I really liked him, and now i want to know what i did wrong.
2006-12-27 13:32:15 · 22 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with you. You did nothing wrong! These guys are just total ...... I can't even come up with a word bad enough. I feel for you, Sweetie. Please, don't let this get to you. As girls we know that there are good ones and there are bad ones. It's just a matter of picking the right apple. And you're gonna find some bad ones to get to the good one. It just makes you appreciate the good one all the more.
2006-12-27 13:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by tooterbutton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have that happen to me alot when I was in high school...I know how it can feel to find out something like that...Find the cruelest way to dump him and then dump him...(um do no physical harm) but the thing you need to do is come out of your shell and let it be known that you don't tollerate crude behavior from low life scum of the earth like him! Go outside your town or school and find a date elsewhere...people can develop a reputation in a school that will cause this kind of thing to happen. It can go as far back as being the glue eater in kindergarden! Either way get a date from somewhere else and then show up at a school function with your strange new guy and show them all that you are too good to date anyone from that group of guys at your school. Or you could just get another guy and keep him all to yourself!
2006-12-27 13:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong and if someone paid a person to take me out and found out later, it would not matter. Just feel special cause other women dates for free and you had to be paid for. To really determine what you did wrong, you did not detail your dating experience.
2006-12-27 13:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, need a little more info, like who paid him to go out with you, and why would they pay him?? And if some one paid him, why did his friends have to do the asking?? I would call this guy up , and ask some very direct questions, maybe some one just told you he got paid to take you out, maybe some one just started a rumor that he was paid.
2006-12-27 13:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. The guy was a jerk not to see a great girl like you and date you for what your worth.
2006-12-27 13:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR the victom so there for there is nothing wrong with YOU. He is the one that confronted you and asked you out with out that you would of never said yes.You prob never felt any attraction or like towards him before he asked you out but as soon as he did you started to which is normal. Because are minds are trained to think well if this guy asks me out he obviously likes me. Its not your fault whatsoever your just a nice person that's all (for saying yes) so I think its his loss and you should move on with your life and find a real man who really appreciates you for you. There are plenty of real men out there so don't sweat yourself on this one situation.
LIVE, LAUGH, GROW, LOVE!!!!
Best of wishes, Keisha
2006-12-27 13:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. Boys can be oblivious to the way they make girls feel and at a young age most of them aren't effects by it. Any guy who would do this to a girl is obviously a jerk. Don't let it get to you, you deserve better.
2006-12-27 13:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, nothing is wrong with you. Guys can just be jerks sometimes. If he truly wanted to date you he should have asked you himself. But that is just my opinion.
2006-12-27 13:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by queenbych2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think you done something wrong, or what wrong with you? I don’t really know the whole story, but I think who ever paid this guy can tell you better than us. My advise is, ask-?
2006-12-27 13:40:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think something is wrong with you.what is wrong with him.what really made his friends choose you as a pawn i think maybe you made yourself to available so they saw an easy target as you know "most" men and boys are dogs.and this boy and is friends are very immature.
what i would do is embarrass him-break it off with him in public!!!!! make him feel the burn
this is the trini way
2006-12-27 13:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by m-ria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋