i need a man in my life?

Question

i'm tired of going to bed by myself at nights only hugging my teddy.

all i do is home, college ,work,and bed!

i need a spouse! someone to cast my cares

someone to give me sweet luvvin

problem is, i dont know where to start

Answer 1

Well, sometimes it could happen that mr. right is nearer than you think...
(By the way what do you do today evening? ´,) )

You have to start nowhere. Just let the things happen.


I have some music lyric for you marie. There are unfortunately not my own words, its from Diana Ross (You cant hurry love). But I think it may fit to your question.I got it from http://www.lyricsfreak.com/d/diana+ross/you+cant+hurry+love_20040097.html

I need love, love
To ease my mind
I need to find, find someone to call mine
But mama said

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
You got to trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes

But how many heartaches
Must I stand before I find a love
To let me live again
Right now the only thing
That keeps me hangin on
When I feel my strength, yeah
Its almost gone
I remember mama said:

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take

How long must I wait
How much more can I take
Before loneliness will cause my heart
Heart to break?

No I cant bear to live my life alone
I grow impatient for a love to call my own
But when I feel that i, I cant go on
These precious words keeps me hangin on
I remember mama said:

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes

No, love, love, dont come easy
But I keep on waiting
Anticipating for that soft voice
To talk to me at night
For some tender arms
To hold me tight
I keep waiting
I keep on waiting
But it aint easy
It aint easy
But mama said:

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said to trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes

You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love dont come easy
Its a game of give and take

Answer 2

Start here: What I suspect is that you don't have time and are not available. Your picture is certainly very very attractive and appealing, so it's not looks at all. But you do need to assess and improve those areas where you can improve. Start by looking in the mirror and find out what you can improve: makeup, hair, style of dress. IN any case, strive to be a "girly-girl" and always smile.

1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Study harder than ever
4. Spend an hour a day in the library
5. Spend an hour a day at the gym
6. Honor your parents and your teachers
7. Get involved in a worthy school function
8. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
9. Help someone every day
10.Go to Church
11.Invite your friends to Church
12.Take group dance lessons

Good Luck

Answer 3

You don't NEED a man. The only person you NEED is yourself. Sounds like you're preparing for a pretty bright future not wasting away all alone. Think about social activities you can get into when you have the time but don't focus on being in a relationship and creating some type of dependence on anyone or anything. Focus and being the best you can be and when it's meant to be the right person will come along.

Answer 4

This is what you need to do. You first need to find a place where you can be alone. You need some YOU time. Think to yourself, "what do I need?" "What am i looking for?" Stop thinking about needing a man, and start thinking about the root of what causes you to feel this way. "Am I lonely?" Once you have discovered yourself a little more, you'll realize the kind of guy you need to look for.

That's when you go looking. I don't mean frantically searching, I mean, going out, socializing. Think of where you might find this guy. It's not going to be like the movies. You can't create some "IDEAL" guy. You've got to create, "the ideal guy for you."

The trick is, don't rush into it, unless you're looking for a fling. Go at a pace which is good for you. I have no doubt you're a wonderful person, now it's time you show others that side to you. Go out with friends and put urself out there.

I hope this helps. You'll find him when the time is right.

Answer 5

From the sounds of it you're too busy for a guy. A non-college guy won't understand why you have no time for him (because you're doing school work), and a college guy just wants laid. Get your priorities in line first, then put yourself on the market. Finish school, start your career, then settle down. Anything else would be acceptance without approval, meaning you'd take anyone just to have someone, but you'll never be happy and your grades will fall.

Answer 6

make a list.. list all the things you want in your future mate. Be as specific as you want, then don't settle for less. You don't tell a real estate agent "I want a house" you say, I want a 3 bedroom, ranch, with a huge kitchen and master suite" Going to bed alone is not as bad as going to bed with someone you don't really want once the initial "honeymoon" is over.
Once you know what you are looking for, it makes the search easier. Also.. Match.com is a good site. My best friend met her hubby that way.

Answer 7

Where to start?
You have already started by asking this question. That was step no. 1.

Your next step would be to look around you (in real life). Take your time and do not be in a hurry. Go out, meet people... and everything will add up. Just try it and you'll see.

Do not try it here on YA, otherwise you would have already got me as I am in same condition as you but too far away in the real world.

Good Luck.

Answer 8

You don't need a man in your life; you want one. And there's nothing wrong with wanting companionship.

If you aren't into going to bars (and honestly, most guys there just want an easy woman), try going to coffee shops. You might even try going online, but you have to be particularly careful. I met my future husband online. I just went to Yahoo's Member Search page, and I looked up profiles of guys in my hometown. Then, I instant messaged them and said, "Hey, thought your profile was interesting. IM if you want to chat." I met a few guys. Several pervs and jerks. I met one I dated, but he was a freak. The second . . . is currently asleep in our bedroom. :)

Just remember that being single has wonderful benefits, and you should enjoy that time. You don't need anyone but yourself.

But finding a great guy takes time and intense critical thinking about who you really want to be with. So, look around, consider singles websites. Go to places you enjoy going, and don't be afraid to approach a guy who attracts your attention. The worst he can say is no, and that's a far better fate than regretting not saying anything.

Good luck to you!

Answer 9

I need a cyborg, a fast car, two turn tables, and a microphone. A kiss a hug from the Swiss female vollyball team. I need a new hat, new shoes, the love of a good woman. I need my Son to grow up happy. I need a six pack abs, I need to be taller, I need some more cowbell. i want a slice of pizza, and a haircut.

Answer 10

hun, go to a party. I don't mean a stupid frat party. Find out if any of the student organizations are having an awesome club-style dance party (or better yet, just go clubbing somewhere). You will meet guys left and right. Smile, and they'll ask for your number, and don't be afraid that only sleezy guys go to parties, cause that's not true. I met my bf of 1.5 yrs at a dance party. His friends made him go out that night.

Believe me, it's the easiest, most fun way to meet a guy :)