this guy i like is so mean we had sex and he said it was the best sex he had ever had now he is having sex with 4 other girls am i really mad i gave my self to him so can any one tell me why they are mean and use you and he said the only reason he even had sex with me is because i am so sexy and i have big **** and he never met a girl so scinny and that has a big but and big **** that hurt me so bad i thought he liked me for how i am not for what i look like.
2006-12-27 13:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hey, Meg - you need a wake up call. listen closely. You teach people how to treat you. Stop sleeping around. Try to salvage what is left for your someday husband - sounds like you haven't saved much. Get control of yourself. Just because you are skinny & have big whatevers - those won't buy you love. You are given it away & getting nothing in return, but disrespect and probably, desease. Get it straight, guys don't have sex because they love you - please, talk to someone and stop sleezing around. Someday you'll regret it. Read the book, 'Dateable.' Happy New Year!!
2006-12-27 13:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Forever 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Meg, most guys think with their lower parts and not with their hearts. If a guy really loves you or any girl he will respect her and treat her with kindness. True love requires , honesty, tenderness, communication and warmth. Its about being their for your soulmate through thick and thin. Most guys as well as most girls these days have forgotten how to love. In the future be very careful with guys, always try to really get to know the guy u like and make sure he is a nice guy to others first and that he respects all people. If he is like this he will never hurt you.
2006-12-28 06:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is mean but there are alot of guys out there who will act like they are interested in you as a person to get to what they really are after and then they're gone. So I would say in the future take your time in reaching the point where you want to be intimate with the guy. Like you said---you gave yourself to him. For the next guy make sure he is trustworthy and deserves you. Take as much time as you need. If he is really into you as a person and doesn't view you as his next conquest he'll stick around and if not you found out before he really had a chance to hurt you.
As for that guy, well, he is opening himself up to STD's and people knowing he's nothing but a dog. I can't understand why he would say such awful things to you. Just be glad you found out when you did and won't waste anymore time on him.
2006-12-27 13:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each of our encounters are an opportunity for us to learn something about otherd and mostly ourself. This was obviously a very hurtful experience. Take a hard look at what was a miss with the relationship and the man. Don't make the same mistake next time.
2006-12-27 16:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by annablovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been dating this guy for a while? Having sex really soon after meeting a guy doesn't give him much to chase after. Even though you may want to or feel pressure to have sex with a guy, you should wait until you find out if it's going to go somewhere before you start developing feelings for him and have sex.
2006-12-27 13:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by girls are confusing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like this! the only one I disagree with is the "Oh do no longer fuss, that is basically a decrease." In my adventure, it surely potential "i've got have been given a tiny paper decrease and that i desire to be pampered and regarded after. so which you additionally could make dinner this night whilst I get better." :-P
2016-10-28 12:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys do things like that. That's just how life goes it seems. I won't apologize for him, because I don't do those things. I think it shows you to be a little more careful who you "give yourself" to next time.
2006-12-27 13:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Modus Operandi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a jerk..y did u have sex wit him in the first place though?
y dont u go ***** slap him..lol
2006-12-27 13:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2006-12-27 13:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
were not mean,you just gotta stop getting the dogs!
2006-12-28 07:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by jamale f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋