Singles & Dating - 22 December 2006

I am 6'2 and I *USED* to weigh 270lbs at my max 1.5 years ago.

I have been learning to change my life, and am now down to 237lbs. Over 30lbs!

If I keep going, say down to 220lbs, would I be MUCH more attractive to woman?

How important is it to woman? I know as a guy I am more attracted to fit woman so is it exactly the same for the ladies?

Thank you.

2006-12-22 05:50:08 · 29 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2

He is calling from a state mental hospital. There are no threats just proclamations of love and adoration. They are on my answering machine when I get home. I know him from a friend I met about 12 years ago.
Do you think he's dangerous??? Should I do anything or just ignore it.

2006-12-22 05:49:46 · 19 answers · asked by BRENDA 1 3

My bf is Russian (I am too), and I already got him a $20 shirt with a russian cartoon logo. It's a really personal thing between us, cuz i'm 1 of the few ppl who knows about his favorite childhood cartoon.
I did some "snooping around" and found out that he spent $30 on my present...I don't know what it is, and i want it to be a surprise, so I'm not being too dishonest.
I know that quality is more important than price, but I'll feel better once i find something for $10 to add to his gift.
Do you have any inexpensive gift ideas? nothing lame, maybe something funny..

and PLEASE don't criticize me for trying to match his price...I'm not asking for criticism!
Also, according to previous answers, keep in mind:
I'm Russian, so stop insulting our nationality...
We're 16/17 yrs. old, so no Vodka (unfortunately!)
annnd the gift doesn't have to be Russian, his nationality is just a detail that might help :)

2006-12-22 05:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by julka323 3

my boyfriend isnt aloud to date yet and we have been going out for two and 1/2 years finnaly a bout a month ago his mom said he could date just he had to go on group dates. but for some reason he just doesnt act like hes my bf still and he acts like he is just my friend (he kinda flirts with my sister in a way because she flirts with him) my friend asked him why he hadnt kissed me yet and she said that he really likes maybe loves me but wouldnt give any other details he says he is just trying to figure things out and that its hard cuz im his first gf (but i think 2 and 1/2 years should count for something) how do i get him to act more like a bf than a good friend?

2006-12-22 05:46:42 · 1 answers · asked by roxy 2

2006-12-22 05:45:08 · 23 answers · asked by brls2000 1

After 2 mounths of going back and forth w my ex we keep on talking to each other. I still love her. She says she doent want to think about us like that anymore n doesnt want to try and work things out. Last night i called her. We kept talking till i sliped i was planig on proposing to her in june she was shocked "Wow" and "oh my god" was all she could say. I kept talking n well it lead me to cry and then she started 2 cry. Why would she cry she is the one that dumped me and i am the one pursuing this. All i want from her to think about all of this. The relationship lasted 4 yrs n we both always talked about kids n marrige. The break up came from nowhere only that she felt no romantic connection. I always gave her 100% i gave up parts of my life to be with her. I always told her how i felt and now this. Niether of us can stop calling one another. my only question is why would she cry over this, if this is what she wanted? I sent her a email telling, i will leave her be as best as i can.

2006-12-22 05:43:25 · 6 answers · asked by ken hill 1

how come most guys have weak spots on thier neck and behind thier ears??? how horny does it make them???

2006-12-22 05:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year, who wasn't exactly God's gift to women. I did give my heart to him, but I could never seem to have his. Two days after I broke up with him, with him knowing how I still felt about him, he went to a work party. I found out by him that he went alone, and didn't dance with anybody. I find out by 5 other people who were there also that he took another woman with him, and danced with several others. Then, a week later, he went to the work Christmas party. He said he took a friend with him whom her fiance' stayed in the lobby and gambled, and didn't dance, and he went home by 9:30. I hear from several other people that he danced with her the whole evening, and he got caught by his friend whom he went in on a motel room with for the night in the "act" with her. Who should I believe?

2006-12-22 05:42:31 · 19 answers · asked by southern belle 2

We been going out for a year and a couple of months, through out the whole relationship theres been nothing but agruing and fighting. We finally got passed it, and well I want to move on. But everytime I do that he makes me feel bad for leaving him. I tell we can still be friends. Im not in love with him anymore I just have a friendship love. I just want to be happy and Its like thats a crime if I do that because he feels hurt. He says all he wants to do is see me happy, but why is making feel guilty for leaving him. I just cant do it anymore with, I cry everytime I think about leaving because I am afraid of karma, afraid this might happen to me one day. But Im young Im only 18 Im not ready to settle down with anyone yet, not until I have a steady job and a good education. Please someone tell what should I do?

2006-12-22 05:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by qween916 1

My guy that broke up with me on Monday because HE lied and didn't want to admit it sent a text saying that he wants a book back that I'd borrowed 4 months ago. I was thinking that the text was really cold and insincere and if he really wanted to talk, he would have said something nicer. Plus I'm going through a lot since the breakup, feeling really bad. So, I told him I'd send it to him and he text back saying not to worry about sending it. Is he supposed to be pissed at me now. I don't get it. I think I've just given him a reason to never speak to me again. I was fine with just not having contact, but he contacted me.

2006-12-22 05:41:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 05:41:31 · 21 answers · asked by Turtleshell 3

2006-12-22 05:40:46 · 3 answers · asked by katie 2

What is your best remedy ??..what works ...what does not work

2006-12-22 05:39:44 · 12 answers · asked by pineforestkim 3

I've been very very bad!!!

2006-12-22 05:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3

2006-12-22 05:38:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 05:38:35 · 5 answers · asked by brls2000 1

if i had to choose a romantic small-sized romantic book to give my bf for christmas, what should it be? im thinking something small, romantic, maybe some poems inside.. idk. something to show i care for him

help!!

2006-12-22 05:38:32 · 1 answers · asked by answer! this 3

2006-12-22 05:37:57 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3

Every time my new boyfriend comes over for a date my ex-boyfriend comes over and ruins the date and and I tell him to stop but he keeps doing it What do I do?

2006-12-22 05:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anjela D 1

Um I waz On Myspace And I had This Thing On My mind About this Boy I really Like And I sent Him this Message Wich Actually Happened. Do u think this messege was a little corny Or What? Or what do you think he'll say. Was It like I was Asking him out? O yeah And Im 13 in a half. So heres What I sent Him!!~~~~


"Um Don't say anything to anybody. But Fabrice thinks we make a cute couple and thinks we should go out. But yeah thats What fabrice Has been buggin me about! But yeah Wat do u think about that?
Well Have Ah Fun Time In Chicago!

Bye!"

2006-12-22 05:36:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 05:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a bf, since I like him and he already has a gf. Do you think it would be too harsh if i suggest that we don't talk to each other at all for awhile. i think it would help me get over him. the problem is that i see him at work.

2006-12-22 05:35:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a long hair.. it's almost up to my waist.

My hair is a little wavy naturally.

What hair styles do you think suits me better for christmas dinner party?

2006-12-22 05:33:54 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

He says he loves me but he does'nt show it

2006-12-22 05:32:05 · 12 answers · asked by Denise 1

2006-12-22 05:31:44 · 31 answers · asked by -Bibee- 3

I am not much into singles clubs, I have a very busy life, job, 2 boys etc.

Where are some *REALISTIC* good places to go so that you can be FOUND!!

2006-12-22 05:30:20 · 6 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2

ok so i went out with this guy that i liked A LOT. hes the kind of guy that you have always wanted. like "perfect". but randomly last night he went to the movies with 2 other girls and dumped me. or had the girl do it for me. same thing whatever. and i cried for like ever,and i seriusly can't get over it. its the hardest thing i've ever had to do. hes totally different. oh yea to top it off he has a new girlfriend. he asked her out an our after he dumped me. this morning, he called me and was just acting totally normal and then started being the biggest asshole ever. then he kind of changed his attitude and was like"i really want to be ur friend"and "im still there for u ok?"and stuff like that. If u think about it why would i want to be friends with someone like that. I just don't know. He even got me something for christmas and now hes giving it to Jennifer.(his new girlfriend).I really don't know what to do so if anyone has ever experienced this do u think u can help?

2006-12-22 05:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by priscilla o 1

okay, well i really liked this guy last year, and i mean REALLY. i couldn't bear to ask him out myself so my friend did it. she made a big mistake by asking him out in public and the guy said all these horrible things about me. this year, he likes me and a part of me says "give him another chance and go out with him", and another part of me says "no, think about what he did to you!!!!" i know that part of me is wrong, but sometimes it feels right! then when i see him with one of my best friends talking and stuff, i feel this tiny spark of jealousy...what should i do?

2006-12-22 05:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by natalie 1

how do u know if ur pretty??i mean u cant really ask any1 cuz its not like they r gonna say ur ugly.so please tell me how u can tell???

2006-12-22 05:27:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this boy and he likes me and we both know this but we haven't told each other yet. And I know he wants to talk to me but he's like scared what his ex-girlfriend and the rest of his friends will say. Me and him know the same people but we don't hang out with the same people. Like he's popular for sports and clothes and stuff and I'm popular for sports and stuff like sports, debate team, student council. I made some pretty shitty decisions as a freshman concerning sex. I've only had sex 2 times but it was with some chicks bf (i didnt know he had a gf!) so rumors went around like crazy about me. We didn't really talk my freshman year so now he's just now hearing about it. I'm a sophmore now. I'm cute but his ex girlfriend has a hold on him or sumthing. Me and his ex are close friends so I know this. Shes a senior hes a junior. I don't feel like I should have to go through this whole 2nd wheel crap. Should I wait till next year to have a relationship with him or move on.

2006-12-22 05:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by A.Z. 2