Will losing weight make me MUCH more attractive to woman?

Question

I am 6'2 and I *USED* to weigh 270lbs at my max 1.5 years ago.

I have been learning to change my life, and am now down to 237lbs. Over 30lbs!

If I keep going, say down to 220lbs, would I be MUCH more attractive to woman?

How important is it to woman? I know as a guy I am more attracted to fit woman so is it exactly the same for the ladies?

Thank you.

Answer 1

Woman don't put the empasis on phsyical attraction that men do.

Women are more attracted to a man's personality.

Answer 2

Losing all the weight in the world won't matter if you have an obese ugly personality.

Lose the weight for yourself and your health. If a woman only wants the physical part of you, what happens if you gain it all back and then some.

I don't look at a man for his body. I want to know what he has to offer (love, honesty, compassion etc..) the good things.

There are some hefty, beautiful men out there that I thought were sexy just because of the way they were..not how they looked.

But don't get it twisted no real woman wants a slob..there is a difference..

Answer 3

I understand what your going through. I too am in the same boat. I have a female friend that tells me I should lose the what to attract the females I like. She teases me saying she may even hook up with me if I do. I have been overweight all my life. I have been in four relationships. Two marriages and two dating relations. Two have been younger than me. (I'm currently 51) . Yeah It's always better for your health. You can be healthy with extra weight and that's what ultimately matters. But just like we look at the women, the same is true for the ladies. What really matters is how you treat the ladies. Of course I have found that they will not get to know this unless they give you that chance. And I'd say 98 percent of the time they will not unless you look attractive to them. So, yes lose the weight for your health first and the ladies second.

Answer 4

It's pretty much the same. I'm a woman and I don't like chubby guys. Especially for how tall you are. People have told me that I was more attractive smaller too and some like me the way I am. It just depends on the personal preference. I would recommend that you find out what the weight range for your height is supposed to be and try to stick with it. Being big and tall isn't very attractive. You have to know how to carry your weight for the size that you are.

Answer 5

Yes, you will be much more attractive to women. You know why? Because you will be much more confident about yourself! You will probably feel better from eating right, meaning you will have a better personality and healthier skin...

The problem with women saying "they don't judge your size" is that it isn't true for the women you are trying to attract. If you want a fit lady, you have to be fit yourself. If you want to keep a fit lady, you have to have similar interests, like staying in shape.

It should be a huge boost to your confidence that you are losing weight and looking better than you have.

Keep it up and it will show.

Answer 6

Yes it will make you more attractive. No matter what women say, they want a man who looks a certain way. Just like men do. Some men like skinny super models and others like Anna Nicole types. Women *never* say, "That guy over there sure is ugly. I think I'll go talk to him and get to know him (on the inside) better."
So yes keep losing the weight and if you can, put on some muscle. I think you increase your odds that way

Answer 7

Believe it or not..not usually...It doesn't bother me in the least if a man has a few extra pounds on him. I am ( so i have been told ) attractive, and I don't look at guys any different if they have a few extra pounds on them, I think I just want you to be happy. If I am dating you, and we go to a party, and we are celebrating, and you want some of those chicken wings, hey! I want you to have fun and not be self conscious, thinking that you should not have that chicken wing!. You understand I am not talking about some one that does not care about him self and decides he is going to be a slob and let him self go...that is not what I mean. I mean, take pride in your self and always look nice, and enjoy that wing if you want.
Okay ..now here is the flip side to that, I have 3 friends that I know , these 3 women want you to look hot , or they wont be dating you very long. What is it with these women?? I actually can't stand their, self centered ways..some one must of told them they were beauty queens..they are just stuck on them self's, and have no reason to be. SO there you go the bottom line is ...It depends on the person.
Amy S.

Answer 8

Weight does matter initially,because normally attraction is by sight at first-unless you get to know someone off the net and they fall for your personality,but if you don't feel good in yourself keep going on the weight loss,it will make you more confident and you'll feel better about yourself! But well done you for starting to change your life,keep up the good work,take care and good luck-PS wouldn't recommend trying the net for a women-i chatted to a guy and he turned out to be a bunny boiling obsessive pain in the ****....

Answer 9

Women are less concerned with the number of your weight than with the way you look. You should work out because we love muscle...it's like a biological instinct to choose the strongest guy to protect us. At the same time, don't only concentrate on weight because personality is just as important as muscle!

Basically, yes. a physically fit guy is more attractive to women!

Answer 10

Looks and weaight is what attracts women in the first place, just like men. We, however, also like men who have nice personalities, no matter how large or small. Weight will mak a difference in women wanting to come up to you at a bar, or dance with you, but it won't make them love you any more or less.

Answer 11

The key is definitely feeling good about yourself, no matter how much you weigh. While it is true that the initial attraction is usually physical, it's what is on the inside that truly matters in the long run. So, I think that that the answer to your question is Yes, you will be more attractive, but only because you feel better about yourself and have more self confidence! Good luck!