Can someone tell me what to do because my boyfriend is abusive towards me. I dont know what to do.?

Answer 1

Boy, you're dumb

Answer 2

Abusive relationships never end well. While it may be hard initially, leaving your boyfriend is the best solution to the problem. If you still feel threatened by him after you have broken up, get a restraining order against him. A restraining order is a court order banning one individual from coming within a certain distance of another individual. Also, call the police. They will intervene immediately and you and your boyfriend will not be in the same area again--your boyfriend will most likely be put in jail awaiting trial. After the trial a restraining order (as explained above) will be put into place. While it may seem a difficult desicion at the time, you will be very grateful you made it in the future.

Answer 3

First off, tell someone you know, they may not be able to help you get away but moral support is always good. Secondly, DO contact the police they can help you to a shelter where your bf can't find you.
Abuse gets worse as time passes and it's always disguised in the 'I love you's'. Thirdly, do get yourself some counseling, you may not think you need it but it will help keep you from getting in the same kind of relationship again.

Your bf will probably make promises that he won't do it again, that he loves you, etc to get you back do NOT believe those promises! Abusers promise the abusee the moon and the only thing they deliver is more pain.

No one deserves being abused by another person, it leaves scars, not just physically but mentally and emotionally.

Answer 4

If you are young, talk to your parents or an adult that you trust. There is strength in numbers and abusers are always cowards when faced with people who aren't afraid of them. Be prepared to leave behind anything that is over at your BF's house or in his car or whatever. He'll just use those things as excuses to see you and abuse you some more. Anything of his, put in a box and give it to an adult to give to him. DO NOT be alone with him.

The most important thing is to know that you don't deserve to be abused, and that abuse never gets better, it only gets worse with time. Someone who loves you won't abuse you. This guy is just using you to work out the fact that he's weak and a coward. Get out of it and don't look back, no matter how guilty he tries to make you feel. He'll try and manipulate you with threats, and if that doesn't work, he'll try to make you feel sorry for him, or scared that he'll hurt you or himself. That's crap. The more people know about the abuse, the less danger there is. Good luck.

Answer 5

First off, realize that it's not your fault. Nothing you have said or done or might do gives him the right to abuse you. HE is the one with the problem, no matter what he tells you. That being said, please call a domestic abuse hotline if you can or tell a trusted friend or family member about what is going on. If you can, remove yourself from the situation, go to a friend's house, a relative or even to a shelter if you have to. I hope that things work out for you.....

Answer 6

You tell him a cant be in an abusive relationship and if you put your hands on me again i will tell my family and I will call the cops. but you know what don't even worry about it let him hit you one more time when hes sleep get a hot as frying pan and knock the **** out of his face or boil some water and boil it and boil it and pour that **** on his legs he'll think twice before ******* wit chu but dont do his face you scoil his face thats 2 farbut if he can buck you can buck 2 dont let him push you around show him you mean bizznassss. lol

Answer 7

It seems obvious to everyone to just run and get away, but I know how hard that can be. He had mixed up your way of thinking and has made you think that it's okay for him to do that, or that you deserve it. You don't deserve it and you're already in the right position by acknowledging the fact that he is hurting you. If you don't think you can get out of it by yourself, tell someone that knows the both of you and ask them to help you stay away from him. If you let other people know about it, he won't be so quick to hurt you because he'll know that other people will find out. Just be brave and do whatever you can to get out of that relationship.

Answer 8

check your government blue pages in your local white pages telephone book for an abused women's shelter near you. pack your things and leave. the people at the shelter will help you get back on your feet, shield you from your abuser, and get counseling for you so that you can find yourself again. stop the cycle of abuse. there is an old proverb about women: you are a treasure more precious than rubies. keep repeating this to yourself.

Answer 9

Get out now! These relationships can be physically and emotionally hurtful. Tell someone who loves you and don't see him again. I don't want to scare you- but these things often end in something serious such as rape. You need to tell him it's over. Don't be afraid to do it over the phone if you're afraid he'll become angry and dangerous. Good Luck.

Answer 10

you need to leave him right away....if he is abusive twords you then you arent good enough for him.....trust me no-matter what he says just dont beleive him bcuz some guys have there way on making grlz stay.....you have to hurry b4 he really ends up putting u in the hospital or something....my other advice is to call the cops on him....he probably needs help.....

Answer 11

Was stuck in the same situation. Go down to the court house and get a PFA. It helped me a lot.