I like this boy and he likes me and we both know this but we haven't told each other yet. And I know he wants to talk to me but he's like scared what his ex-girlfriend and the rest of his friends will say. Me and him know the same people but we don't hang out with the same people. Like he's popular for sports and clothes and stuff and I'm popular for sports and stuff like sports, debate team, student council. I made some pretty shitty decisions as a freshman concerning sex. I've only had sex 2 times but it was with some chicks bf (i didnt know he had a gf!) so rumors went around like crazy about me. We didn't really talk my freshman year so now he's just now hearing about it. I'm a sophmore now. I'm cute but his ex girlfriend has a hold on him or sumthing. Me and his ex are close friends so I know this. Shes a senior hes a junior. I don't feel like I should have to go through this whole 2nd wheel crap. Should I wait till next year to have a relationship with him or move on.
2006-12-22 05:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by A.Z. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you, you don't have to worry what he thinks about you; obvious he's been able to look past everything you've done and seen you for you. If you want to have a relationship with him, just tell him, the worst that could happen is he says no and you move on anyways. Don't doubt yourself, he likes you already.
2006-12-22 05:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, it shouldn't matter what his ex says or does even if she is your friend. If she was your friend, she won't say anything to you about going out with him. If he says something about what you did as a freshman, explain to him that it was a mistake and you didn't know the guy had a girlfriend. If he likes you, he will go out with you no matter what his ex does. If she is your real friend, she won't stop being your friend just because you are going out with him. After all, they aren't going out now. Its not like he would be cheating on her. She can get another boyfriend and he would never complain. Why should it be any different if he gets another girlfriend?
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
2006-12-22 05:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hott Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking about high school or college? The only reason I ask is that you're at a very awkward age in high school because you'll hit a point where he is legally an adult while you are not. I'd suggest waiting at least one year if not until you're both over 18.
2006-12-22 05:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by iuneedscoachknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you really do like him you should go for it. And never let anyone stand in the way of that. Don't worry about the past cuz whats done is done so keep your chin up and try it out.
2006-12-22 05:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you like him and bout the rumor its better he hear it from you then anyone else and talk to the girlfriend and she what she says just try you never know what will happen i hope it works out for you two
2006-12-22 05:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think if he dosent want 2 talk 2 you because of what others think he is ashamed and you dont want someone that is sorta of ashamed of you i think he wants you to be like his booty call on the side dont fall for that trap.
2006-12-22 05:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....
2006-12-22 05:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋