After 2 mounths of going back and forth w my ex we keep on talking to each other. I still love her. She says she doent want to think about us like that anymore n doesnt want to try and work things out. Last night i called her. We kept talking till i sliped i was planig on proposing to her in june she was shocked "Wow" and "oh my god" was all she could say. I kept talking n well it lead me to cry and then she started 2 cry. Why would she cry she is the one that dumped me and i am the one pursuing this. All i want from her to think about all of this. The relationship lasted 4 yrs n we both always talked about kids n marrige. The break up came from nowhere only that she felt no romantic connection. I always gave her 100% i gave up parts of my life to be with her. I always told her how i felt and now this. Niether of us can stop calling one another. my only question is why would she cry over this, if this is what she wanted? I sent her a email telling, i will leave her be as best as i can.
2006-12-22 05:43:25 · 6 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is now one ealse i know that for a fact and i sent her an email telling her i am not making this better so i am going to try and leave her be. Is this it? or can i expect this to go on? What can i expect?
2006-12-22 05:45:38 · update #1
expect good , she still loves u but may be sad
2006-12-22 05:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama...If both of you still have good feelings for each other then talk about going for it...And yes she might want you propose her before but you never done it...Hey was 4 years of relationship...Let me tell you I won't wait that long...I have friends that date for so long and finally the boyf proposed, what hap pend s that she say not...Because she don't feel the same she will say yes if it was early stages of the relationship...I am not a professional adviser...But sometimes a person wits and waits for something they always want...What hap pend in their minds grow the idea that is no going to hap pend, and they end having that kind of feelings that even they want to end the relationship and yes it what hap pend with you and her...She got tired and she grow an idea that you never will propose to her...So she start falling out of love for you...It hap pend trust me...So now just move on and let her go...That even both of you go back together is no going to work is already some mix feelings understand?
2006-12-22 13:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like she still has feelings for YOU, too. I can tell you from my point of view ... if I didn't have feelings for an ex, I would end any conversation as soon as possible and I'd provide one-word responses. I certainly wouldn't call them if I wasn't interested. See if she'd be willing to meet you somewhere to talk about things ... maybe what she thought was broken is actually repairable. All you can do is try. Best of luck!
2006-12-22 13:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you two broke-up because the relationship was not going anywhere for her. With the marriage proposal out there, that is what she had been waiting for. So, if you want her back, I suggest you get your butt to the nearest jewelery store and buy her an engagement ring. Talk is cheap, actions speak alot.
2006-12-22 13:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.....even if she thinks its best you two arent together it was 4 yrs...shes going to still love you whether she admits it or not....i was in that spot once...i had broken up with him and i was not in love with him anymore...he still loved me and we continued to be best friends but it was hard on him and it was hard on me too....i cant even explain it bcuz no-matter what its like you are both going to miss the way you were.....maybe you should just give it time....
2006-12-22 13:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously, she wanted to get married. "its not going anywhere" means, that she wants a commitment from you. go to her door step and propose to her quickly. she only wanted you!dont lose her.
2006-12-22 13:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋